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Number of ratings57 Number of reviews18 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceMay 9, 2015 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderNon-Binary PathStep 216 People helped81 Chats581 Group support chats42 Listener group chats102 Forum posts102 Forum upvotes80
Bio

Hi, I'm Jay and I love supporting others! *waves* I have a calling to help others, whether domestically via cooking, intellectually with research, emotionally by listening, or in other ways. I have a long history of dealing with depression, anxiety, and perfectionism, and like to think that my experience there makes me better suited to helping others with similar issues. I've been through a lot and come out stronger for it - there's very little that makes me really uncomfortable or that I find triggering, and I will do my best to be present and supportive for you no matter what your reason is for coming here. I particularly welcome the 'difficult' topics that other people might hesitate to take, because I strongly believe that everyone deserves to be heard and get support.

Feedback & Reviews
Thank you so much :)
Great listener really helped me alot
A caring and kind listener! I always feel like someone cares again after I talk to her, and I know she wants to help as much as she can. She usually gets back to me really fast and doesn't leave me hanging, which I like too. Thank you so much for being there for me!
Best listener I've spoken to so far!!
Thank you for everything
Caring and helpful.
Thanks for being there you've been such a grate help. It's nice to have someone to talk to.
Good
Thank you very much.
Service was amazing! She listened to everything I had to say, and wasn't judgemental about anything- in fact, she was very empathetic/sympathetic, and agreed with a lot of what I had to say! Very awesome, and I can see why she's a room mod! Keep up the good work!
Thanks
Very caring person.
Wonderful and caring listener.
A wonderful sense of understandment.
Great listening skills.
Thank u
Erratio was amazing, she really cared and spent the time going through all of my options with me. I couldn't have asked for a better Listener to help me. Just wanted to say thank you too x
My listener was absolutely wonderful. I came into the conversation feeling anxious and scared, but my listener was a huge help and I left the conversation feeling so much better. My listener was patient and heard me out, plus the listener provided really helpful feedback and offered to speak to me in the future if I need it. Thank you so much for what you did for me tonight.
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