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How can I put down my phone and go to sleep?

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Last Updated: 06/01/2022 at 3:04am
How can I put down my phone and go to sleep?
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Profile: alexxhere
alexxhere
June 14th, 2016 6:16am
I have problems doing this as well. I would set a timer on your phone and then when you see the time is up, remember what you thought earlier about it being better to go to sleep and persuade yourself to.
Profile: BlueRaspberries77
BlueRaspberries77
June 16th, 2016 9:26pm
Try to have a set time to switch your phone off and get some rest. E.g give yourself an hour after you get into bed and then after the hour get to sleep,
Profile: greatfulGrace21
greatfulGrace21
August 16th, 2016 8:53am
Usually I use my phone if I can't sleep and just look on Facebook or something and it usually gets me tired. But I just tell who I can (if talking to someone) I have to go to bed.
Anonymous
August 30th, 2016 12:46am
Try turning off your phone by at least 10pm at night and giving it to a parent or somebody else in the house who you trust and allow them to hide it in a place you won't find until morning. Then you won't have access to it, and will be able to fall asleep.
Profile: Feli36
Feli36
September 21st, 2016 7:08pm
Set yourself some 'phone time' and set an alarm to remind yourself to get off your phone. Set phone time 3-4 hours before you intend to sleep.
Profile: Gl3nn
Gl3nn
March 3rd, 2015 6:40pm
Speaking from experience - unless I know I've got work the next day where I get an early morning call from my work provider, I usually always put my phone on Flight/Fly Mode. The reason why is that the small amount of radiation the WiFi/Phone Services puts out can be enough to stop your brain from relaxing 100%. With that said you also get zero disturbance from friends or relatives that tries to contact you. Try to make it a habit that right before you put your phone away, turn Flight Mode on, and you will get a lot more quality sleep that way! I hope it will help just as much as it has helped me.
Profile: BlueRoseAoiBara
BlueRoseAoiBara
November 4th, 2016 4:37pm
It basically comes to will power to actually put your phone away and go to sleep instead. Time your phone charging so that the battery will be low just around the time you are supposed to sleep.
Anonymous
December 24th, 2021 4:45am
The main thing is, do not charge it by your bed! Keep the charging station in the kitchen or another room so that when you are ready to go to bed, you put it there and keep it there! You can also set it to silent or night time mode, so that it will not go off and disturb you! It may take some practice at first; if you are anxious, you will miss something. Repeat to yourself: I will check it in the morning. Whatever it is can surely wait. This time is to relax and sleep.
Anonymous
May 12th, 2018 5:22pm
Turn it off, turn in to silent mode. Make your phone sleep so you will sleep as well. Put it far from you.
Profile: lauram95
lauram95
February 18th, 2017 12:16am
You need to plan a set time where you will put your phone down and try to stick with it. Possibly try and keep your phone away from your bed to stop you from reaching for it.
Anonymous
November 25th, 2020 4:13pm
Here is what I think might work for you. Hope it helps. - Set the your phone into a 'do not disturb mode' or just put it in silence, in a way you would not be aware of any notifications you might get so you can relax more. -Try to put your phone to charge or move it to a place not near your bed, that way you might not be tempt it to get it. -Instead of using your phone you can read or do something else you like that can help you sleep and that could keep you away from your phone.
Profile: RubyRose8
RubyRose8
April 16th, 2021 4:42pm
Remove the temptation. By putting your phone away from your bed to charge. And you can read a book instead of scrolling while in bed. This will help you dose off. Set a goal like I will read one chapter or a certain number of pages. If you keep the phone on silent or do not disturb during the night it you will not be bothered with status updates. this should allow your mind to relax. Remember that out of sight out of mind is a good rule to reduce your phone usage. Also developing a night time routine that does not include your phone will help reinforce this goal.
Profile: kindPeace2936
kindPeace2936
April 22nd, 2020 11:49am
It's often easier if you can to put your phone on silent (or turn it off if you don't need an alarm) and leave it outside of the bedroom, at the other side of the room or if it has to be within reach, leave it face down so that if you do get a notification when you are trying to sleep the light won't waken you. It has also helped me to get in to the routine of telling anyone I've been chatting to that I'm heading to bed so they know to not expect any replies from me. This gives me time to not be waiting on responses and know anything else can wait until the morning.
Profile: ElaineSaysHello
ElaineSaysHello
July 5th, 2018 5:15am
Try to set an alarm at least half an hour before your designated bedtime and spend that time meditating or preparing for the next day (plan out your outfit, meal prep, etc.).
Profile: Fergie12299
Fergie12299
August 22nd, 2020 10:17pm
well for one you phone will probably enjoy being charged so help you phone. Going to bed should be an enjoyable thing and habits you carry with you to the bed room should be fixed. Bed room is exactly as it says Bed and a bed should be to sleep. Associating bed with sleep is the first step. You have to look at the bed room as this is where i go to sleep, not to look up my phone and rspond or talk to people. This room is where you go to be quiet and get rest which is a necessity and to maintain your health
Profile: WaterSoul
WaterSoul
August 30th, 2019 6:33am
Try doing some gentle yoga before going to sleep to help your body relax. Or try reading a book to help drift you into a calm, sleep state. Or try writing all of your thoughts from the day down into a journal so your head can be clear of any worries or thoughts and you will be ready for sleep. Try deep breathing or guided meditation, or relaxing music to listen to while you are trying to fall asleep. Try rain or crackling fire, or even wind or just soothing, gentle music will do the trick! You'll soon be off to sleep!
Profile: Zarkhy
Zarkhy
August 22nd, 2020 6:43am
A foolproof way is to lock up your phone somewhere else [Like another room and such] and just lay down to sleep in another room. This way, after you lay down comfortably to sleep, there won't be uncontrollable urges to use your phone. That said, it is great to get completely rid of the phone addiction and set away a small amount of time for phone leisure activities like social media/games/YouTube and such. Some much more productive leisure activities that are actually good for you are reading books, listening to good music, taking a walk, gazing at the stars and such.
Anonymous
August 6th, 2020 12:41am
This is something I struggle with all the time. Everything on our phones, especially social media, is designed tone addicting and not allow you to let go. When it's time to sleep, this becomes especially difficult. One can set a screen time limit or turn on a blue light filter to prevent damage on your eyes and brain from the light. It can also help to set an alarm an hour before your desired bed time to remind yourself that it is time to wind down. setting your morning alarm and leaving your phone in another space until you wake up can also help many. I hope you find success in sleeping and putting away your phone. Good Luck!
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brightbubbles88
July 8th, 2020 5:44pm
I know something that helps me put my phone down so that I can go to sleep is I usually put it across my room, the furthest I can away from my bed before going into my bed-because then it requires too much effort to get to it and in the morning it would force me to get out of bed to turn my alarm off (otherwise it would just keep ringing). Also if you can't sleep and using your phone is a way of winding down (because I relate) it can be helpful to have other activities near your bed that you can do until you fall asleep that does not involve your phone (ie reading, colouring, writing in a journal, making a to do list for tomorrow).
Anonymous
July 2nd, 2020 2:23pm
Putting your phone in the kitchen, bathroom heck, even basement to charge overnight will help discourage you from checking it during the night (especially if you're basement is particularly spooky). If you’re worried that you may miss a call in case of an emergency, set it so that it only rings when certain people are calling, but still place it out of bed and out of reach just in case you get tempted. Your mind can stay active and engaged long after you’ve scrolled through Instagram or responded to a few work emails. Going to bed and falling asleep should be a peaceful, happy and relaxing experience. Engaging with your phone too close to bedtime can negatively impact those feelings.
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MillenniG
June 28th, 2020 1:07am
Having your sleep time in mind is important. An hour before sleep leave your phone aside. Within the hour take the time to relax like making a to-do list for the next day. By doing this I find myself more organized and prepared for the next day. Another thing that helps me is having the television on. Although I am not watching the television, by listening to it I dose off. One more idea why putting your phone aside is it becomes less of a distraction. Being on your phone for a second can lead to hours which affects your sleep cycle. Hope this helps!
Anonymous
June 11th, 2020 10:18pm
Set alarm for putting down your phone. I've used this technique to remind me that it's time to sleep. And I play soft music as it helps to calm my nerves and thus I sleep . Don't think about something that bothers you much or creates anxiety before sleep. Try to stay as much calm as possible and be grateful. Also avoiding coffee before a few hours of sleep time helps in sleeping. Also stop using whatsapp or any other sites before going to sleep it decreases chance of falling asleep. As they say early to bed and early to rise makes a man healthy wealthy and wise.
Profile: 1Here4You
1Here4You
May 23rd, 2020 3:25pm
There are apps you can download with help keep your phone locked during the hours you want to sleep. Even setting a personal goal for a certain time you want to put it down for can be a great start! Usually an hour before the time you want to go to sleep is a good goal to set, this gives the body enough down time to calm itself ready to go to sleep. You can also try charging your phone on the other side of the room do you have to physically move the get the phone making it less appealing to grab it before getting to sleep. Hope this helps ☺️
Profile: Rebekah
Rebekah
May 9th, 2020 10:51am
Sometimes, we can get REALLY into what we're reading/playing on our phones. Everything is about technology these days - some people can't even make a living without it. The technological world is forever changing! However, having our phone on for a long time and it depriving us of sleep is not great. Our health needs to come first - occasionally, we need to just put our phones down. How? Perhaps by setting a time limit for having the phone on, or maybe leaving the phone downstairs overnight and perhaps doing homework or reading instead could work. It can be hard to put our phones down, though it is important to know our limits!
Anonymous
November 28th, 2019 7:59pm
I have learned when I go to bed. just to turn down all the lights. turn down the volume and notifications on my phone. So, I am able to get some sleep. As I cannot sleep with any lights whatsoever. that is how I put my phone down and get some sleep. I also, turn soft music on and start some meditation music and listen to any type of soft music that will put me to sleep. I need at least 8 hours of sleep for me in order for me to be very functional in the mornings. Otherwise I cannot function in the mornings. So, Night times. I cannot Play games on my phone. I just have to plug it in away from my bed and let it charge and listen to meditation and relaxing songs.
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laurenroseeee1818
October 3rd, 2019 9:52pm
It’s important to think about what your day might look like if you proceed to be on your phone at night. Sleep is very important to your well-being and having that blue light on your eyes can disrupt many health factors. If you are having trouble waking up in the morning, it might be because it’s difficult to just set your phone down and go to sleep. Setting a personal time limit on your phone can be very helpful and remind you of your goal. Another helpful thing might be to set your phone outside of your bedroom at night. It might be hard to get used to these routines the first few nights, but you will see changes in day to day life very quickly.
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Cj526
November 23rd, 2019 9:38pm
I like to tell myself that everything I need will be there tomorrow. Another thing I like to do is listen to relaxation music to ease my mind and calm all my racing thoughts. When I am able to focus on just one thing I am then more relaxed and able to fall asleep. It's important to try doing this before the time you want to go to sleep. When I see that I am still awake past my "time limit" I start to feel more stressed and I feel like I failed myself. However, It's important to remember that isn't true.
Anonymous
September 13th, 2019 9:27am
Remembering your goals, what you want to achieve will help you put down your phone. Remember that you need you need to be in the best of health to do so, and this can only be done by putting the phone down, so you can rest and achieve your goals. It's a small step, but a one that will make a big, big difference. I understand it may be hard but remember your goals. Instead of staring at your phone, stare at the ceiling, thinking of your dreams, what you want to achieve, your goals. It's both motivating and a whole lot more satisfying.
Anonymous
December 11th, 2019 12:07pm
Turn it on silent or turn it off. Stop electronics close to bedtime. Read. Listen to relaxing music. Draw. Color. Journal. Contemplate your day. Count sheep. Focus on your breathing. Try breathing techniques. Count your blessings. Try positive and gratefulness. Meditate. Try some light exercise or stretching. Write down your to do list, worries, problems, and brief solutions. Try an App like Calm. Make sure your not too hot or cold. Keep your room dark and cool. Think about your good qualities. Count to ten. Write a letter to yourself. "Keep calm and carry on." Turn off lights.
Anonymous
December 22nd, 2019 11:24pm
As a person who has the same problem, here are some things that usually work for me: 1- Keep your phone out of your bedroom. That’s right! Don’t even use it in the first place. Using a screen can strain your eyes and keep you awake, which is not something you want when you’re trying to sleep. If you need extra help, keep your phone out of your room entirely so it isn’t tempting to use. 2- If your phone has a screen time control option, set it for a time when you want to put it away. If you need to challenge yourself more, set it with a password that you’ll likely forget, and keep the password taped to the inside of your phone case or something just in case you need it in an emergency. 3- If you know anyone in a different time zone or who stays up later than you, ask them to check in with you to remind you to go sleep. Hope I could help! Good luck with this.