Is it still worth trying if he/she broke up with me several times?

Depends entirely on why you broke up. If you've been at the mercy of this person's whims in the past then think about what there is to gain by getting back with them. It's really as simple as that. If you can see yourself getting ditched again in the future or they haven't changed their behaviour during your relationships then maybe you deserve a bit better. Also consider how much time you've spent being upset by this person and whether or not anymore is likely to be a waste. Set rules and boundaries, if they can't adapt and make serious attempts at amends, ask yourself why you're willing to submit to all the pain again.

You seem to be confident about how you feel so you keep trying for that person. But isn't it weird that you don't see the same from him/her? Think of that for a moment. You deserve someone who is willing to give you and show you affection and love.

Maybe not. Breaking up often is a sign that he/she is experiencing problems with you that won't allow them to stay with you

No it's not, if they really loved they would not broke up with ever. You should just find someone that can appreciate you the way you are.

No, its not helping anymore, just sit back and relax, if you two are the soulmate then it takes time

I think this is a question that really only you can answer, and maybe it’d be more effective to ask yourself why you keep allowing somebody to leave you so many times, when you’ve managed to stick by yourself your whole life, and your pretty great! Ask yourself what you’re trying for, whether your confusing how she / he makes you feel, with how you WANT to feel. It’s okay to be in love with the idea of being in love, even when the reality isn’t so sweet. But sometimes, reality is what we need, and when you’ve been confronted with that reality several times, it might be worth taking some time to fall in love with yourself instead.

No, if he/she has broken up with you several times, it indicates that you are only a second option. That person is more likely to come back to you because he/she knows that you will be always be an option if the other relationships fail.

If you are the only one trying, then maybe you should let him try for once. If he does not try to connect with you, then you know it is not worth the effort. Look at it this way, if he thinks you are worth the effort, he will not go looking for someone else while you are there and if he does, then he did not think of you as someone worth having. If he really did love you, he would try to work things out with you instead of trying to break up with you at the slightest inconvenience to him.

I have been through a similar situation a coupe of times. I had to make the decision that was ultimately best for my self-preservation. Each time he broke up with me it made me feel lonelier, less trustful, made me think that I was not really important in his life. I would go through a self-analysis of wondering what I did wrong again, would anyone ever love me, a sense of decreased self-worth. Finally, I had to become strong and end the relationship. It hurt really bad at first, but over time the pain decreased to the point that now I am happier, less stressed, and I learned to set boundaries that are healthy for me. I continue to struggle with anxiety and the feeling of loneliness but I am learning ways to build up my self-esteem, confidence, and doing activities I enjoy. I have joined online and local support groups as well.

Personally, I would not advise this. If they have broken up with you several times before, there is nothing saying they won't do it again. It sounds as if they may have some issues of their own that they need to sort out first.

well that all comes down to if you wanna keep being hurt or move on and not get hurt as much but at the same time that has happened to me and i went back to him and after about the third time he broke up with me i was like if he keeps hurting me like this then that must mean he doesn't care about me

Yes and No, Well, here are few tips. And it is upon you to if you choose to use this or not. 1. Take suggestion from people who surround you.( well you are doing it right now). 2. Find a way out, you know what is best for you. 3. Try to control AT( called Automatic Thought). Google and see what is it. ( If you have already tried it then, make an appointment with a therapist. ) and if you have a therapist and it is not working for you then find another one. I think i cover all of the stuff.

If they keep coming back to you, yes it is still worth a try. Because that is a proof they are trying too. And also whatever is wrong could be workable. Because not everything is perfect, and this little bit of imperfection may actually spice up the relationship and keep it undying. But if it is we who are running back to them, I think we better stop trying. Because it's a clear proof they are sure about their decision to break up. It is difficult but then that is how it is. Rushing back to a person whose emotions are not on par with ours will impact negatively, flaming distrust and constant insecurity.

On/Off Relationships are not healthy for your mind. These kind of relationships can lead to your having problems with self worth, trust, and your ability to trust and understand someone else.

Love is a difficult journey. If their is still hope in the relationship then it is worth trying over and over again. Then someday you may not have to try anymore.

When it comes to getting back together with a boyfriend or girlfriend, you need to ask yourself "is this person making me a better person?" Does that person make you happy and want to be with them? You also have to consider his/her happiness. In the end, your decision should be based on what will make both of you happy. Sometimes, happiness can be found with different people. That's alright.

In my experience? No. If two people both want to be together, then they'll make it work regardless of circumstances. If one of them doesn't want to put the effort in, it won't.

My personal experience is that you can't help what you feel, and trying to understand that is the most important thing you can do, before you can deal with the issue.

This is a question that only you can answer. The only person who was in the relationship wih him/her ws you. No one else. Therefore, try to analyze what this relationship has brought to you and up to what point it has contributed to both of you to grow as a person. And, of course, what are the feeling you have.

Relationships are a two way street, meaning both people have to want it. You might love him/her, but they need to feel the same way... Try letting go for a while, see if your ex comes back to you on his/her own. You will get your answer...

Instinctively, I'd say no. However, you're the only one who knows the situation best. What is it that sets the person apart? Are they worth the trouble? Are you happy with them? Do you feel no one else can offer the things they do? Basically, introspect to find where your priorities are.

Yes, love is always worth everything. Temptations cannot be resisted. You will regret it if you let that person go.

It depends. If you feel like you need to be in this relationship then go for i but if it's just making you feel bad of yourself and it brings out the worst in you, then you have to let go. Sometimes, love isn't enough.

If you have to ask, then no. Spare yourself the several attempts not to mention effort. Instead channel this energy into new possibilities. Who knows for sure how many more times you'll have to try and try and try again after that?

Try to be with yourself for sometimes before getting back into a complicated relationship. Give yourself time to breath.

It's never healthy going through a breakup many times it not only affects your feelings but makes you feel like the other person isn't taking into regards your emotions when they break up. But it's also essential to think about the reasons why they did what they did, for example why did they break up with you?. Was it a valid reason or was it over something pity. But whenever we are talking about worth here it's hard to keep going when someone keeps on breaking up it feels like more of a game. You need to ethier let go of that person or try once more but put your foot down when they try to break up again and cut ties. But you asking this question makes me think you know your worth you know it's not worth all the agro but you have strong emotions towards their person and you slightly have faith that things would work out. But remember one thing.. is it worth all the stress all these drama? What is it doing to you? Think about yourself more then the other person cause at the end of the day your the person who sounds like is getting hurt the most.

From first hand experience, if he/she wants to break it off with you and they try several times, it just isn't worth putting your time and effort into the relationship and focus on things. If I were in that situation, I would try to talk to them and assess the relationship one last time

Yes.if he /she doing breakup at silly reasons due to lack of analysing..if she/he is not ready to admit their fault or the other partner ,there is no point to continue forgiving ..one of them need to analysis the cause of their breakup.

It depends upon if you guys really want to give another chance to the relationship with a thought that you guys will better communicate, understand, trust and respect each other. Because most of the time reason of break up is either due to a trust, communication, respect or understanding issue. And, probably you guys go with your guts feeling to know what is better for you.

It is all up to you. If you doubt it will work, you should trust your own instincts. Nobody from an outside point of view can give you relationship advice.