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How can I get what I need from my doctor?

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How can I get what I need from my doctor?
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Anonymous
January 21st, 2018 1:08am
Be prepared. Write down a list of questions to ask, and a list of what you want to get from your doctor's visit. Make this list a few days before the visit. Sleep over it, then review it: are your demands ecologically correct? Possible, feasible, and within the scope of the doctor's practice? Then go to the appointment with the list in your hands. If things don't go according to your plans either the doctor is not for you, hence change doctor; or your demands/expectations were not ecological; ask someone for help to give you a reality check.
Anonymous
January 19th, 2018 5:19am
By telling him or her what it is that I am experiencing so that he can provide me the help that I am needing.
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musicalEnergy94
December 7th, 2017 4:28am
when you see your Doctor, you should develop a good report with him or her. Before you go to the Dr.'s office you should make a list of all the questions that you have so you don't forget anything to ask. You may want to learn about the different medications too should you get into a conversation about problems that are more complicated. Dr's ask questions about when the symptoms started so you need to know that info. as well.Some dr's want to see you every month for example. If you don't think you need to see your Dr. that often be assertive and let them know that you want to see them every other month because it can be expensive for the visits.
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palan
December 6th, 2017 6:33pm
I would never tell people to go against their doctor's opinion, but if you really want to be healthy and thriving, you have to be responsible for your own health. It's a bit hard to hear, but health is the sum total of what you eat, feel, think, and surround yourself with. But to be more practical, maybe appeal to his compassionate side by sincerely and straightforwardly telling him or her what you're going through? And do a little research to find a doctor whose personality and philosophy of treatment resonates with you?
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giggleJoy40
December 1st, 2017 7:12am
Be honest with whats going on. Your doctor can't give you want you need if they don't understand what's wrong with all the details.
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YasmineNotYours
November 23rd, 2017 2:11pm
doctors usually are competent they'll give you what you need without you making so much efforts for it ...
Profile: readingDream88
readingDream88
November 17th, 2017 3:35am
That depends on what you need. If you just ask them about it, you should be able to get what you need!
Anonymous
November 12th, 2017 9:56pm
When dealing with doctors it's often about assertiveness. Know what you want to talk about before going in - perhaps write a list of all the things you want to talk about so you make sure you don't forget things. And I know this is hard, but it's okay to be a bit pushy! Sometimes we need to be the squeaky wheel in order to get the oil.
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commandercody209
November 9th, 2017 8:05am
Depends on what you need from your doctor? If your are speaking of your doctor not listening then get a new doctor
Profile: Dykeria
Dykeria
November 8th, 2017 9:08pm
First, you want to know why you are visiting the doctor. What are you worried about? It is your physical health? Mental health? Knowing what the problem is will allow your doctor to give you want you need to make you better. Additionally, you need to be honest with your doctor. Don't skimp or lie on the details of your condition-- tell them everything. Communicate with your doctor about what you think you need, and if your doctor doesn't understand you might just want to visit another one to ensure that you really are okay.
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Anaiviv01
October 27th, 2017 6:39pm
Talk openly. Sometimes we feel judged by healthcare professionals, but being shady or not telling the whole truth can become an obstacle towards healing. They are trained to listen and evaluate the situation.
Anonymous
September 13th, 2017 8:03pm
First of all, ask. Be clear about what you think you need that you are not getting and be receptive to your doctor's perspective on it as well.
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123AskRecieveInstruct
September 1st, 2017 4:11pm
Be sure that you give your doctor a thorough history and give details about what is currently going on with you, this will help the doctor make more accurate choices when choosing a reginin for you.
Anonymous
August 9th, 2017 12:28pm
tell him your problem with all details and ask him direct question to help you and answer your needs
Anonymous
August 7th, 2017 5:19am
The main thing you can do is be honest. If you want your doctor to know exactly what's going on with you, you need to tell them so. Good luck and take care!
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frenchiek
August 17th, 2016 9:33pm
You can get what you need from your doctor by telling them what you think you need. They can use what you're saying and work off of that to get the best treatment possible for you.
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SilentSerenityy
August 17th, 2016 6:06pm
You have to tell them what you need. Do your research, see what's available and ask for it. They can't read you mind.
Profile: scotty4947
scotty4947
August 17th, 2016 4:19am
Talk to your doctor about all the problems you're having. If they feel as though you need it, they will prescribe it to you. If they don't think you need it, they won't give it to you. And, if that happens, you need to respect their decision.
Anonymous
August 11th, 2016 7:53am
It can be helpful to think about what you want to say, and write it down ahead of time. This way, you can clearly express what you need. Remember, your doctor relies a lot on the information you give them, so the more you can tell them, the more they'll be able to help you. Don't be afraid to tell them exactly what you expect, or what you need.
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BiBiLSSD
August 6th, 2016 9:23pm
Talk to your doctor honestly and tell them what exactly is the problem. By building a bridge of trust between you and your GP, you could get far more from your doctor!
Anonymous
August 3rd, 2016 1:24pm
One way to make sure you get all the answers/opinions is to write down your questions/concerns on paper in advance. That way you can be sure you won't forget to ask something during your appointment.
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superpoppy14
July 31st, 2016 9:03pm
Be straight forward and don't let them belittle your problems. If you have a health issue that you need resolved, tell them the issue and be persistent until they offer you some kind of solution. You have a right to health care.
Anonymous
July 29th, 2016 12:01am
Being very clear about what is the problem and what you want. Just telling the truth and not forgetting to mention anything related to what you want.
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paperCrane15
September 2nd, 2016 7:26pm
Usually doctor knows best what is better for you :) Lying and cheating only leads you away from the progress
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ffmedic
September 14th, 2016 9:10am
This can be overwhelming for most people to get out what they need to say and try to sound "normal" while doing so. I have found over my years of having troubles, I do best when I trust the provider. The person I see now is someone I have seen for years and I trust her with everything inside me. If I am having anxieties or scared about what to say, she knows I will send her an email on the portal for the hospital system I belong to, or if I don't have that access I find its best to write out what is going on, or what is happening to you and how you feel out on paper. Calmly, and then write what your expectations really are for the issues. If its weight loss, be realistic... You're not going to lose a major amount of weight in a short amount of time with no effort. Its just not going to happen. When my experience has come in on this, I have shame and am scared about talking to people about my trauma as a child and the recent things that have happened to me. And with that comes the Depresison, anxiety, PTSD, and other issues. I get it out in writing. She has much better luck with me being able to express myself that way, than just waiting for me to speak cause sometimes that won't happen. Good luck in your endeavors to the Doctor. It isn't so bad. You can do it! I support you!
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FrenchThea
September 1st, 2016 8:32pm
You can get what you need by explaining it to him in details ; whats and whys and he'll help you determine doses, and maybe he'll tell you to see specialists.
Anonymous
September 1st, 2016 9:12am
Explain to them what it is that is bothering you and they should be able to help you out with your needs
Anonymous
August 27th, 2016 5:37am
Why do you say this and what are you looking to get from your doctor? Please clarify so I understand better.
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wonderousWaterfall34
August 24th, 2016 9:49pm
The best way to get what you need is to advocate for yourself let them know what is bothering you and what you think that you need.
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QuietLittleKaiju
June 15th, 2018 6:44pm
It’s important to be very specific when going to the doctor. Write down questions and make sure to share them. It’s easy to get swept up with anxiety when at an appointment and forget why you even had to see a doctor.