Anaiviv01
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Master 11
Rating
Number of ratings90
Number of reviews38
Listens toOver 18
LanguagesEnglish, Italian
Listener sinceApr 11, 2016
Last activeover 6 months ago
GenderFemale
PathStep 1,326
People helped261
Chats1,245
Listener group chats1
Forum posts29
Forum upvotes26
Bio
"In a sparkling soul, shadows are deeper".
Hi, I'm Viv, verified listener of 7cups.
MY AVAILABILITY
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Long-term listening & coaching:
just send me a message and we'll make a plan. The more details you include, the easier is for me to understand if and how I can support you. - Live coaching:
due to the high amount of requests, it's hard for me to accept all incoming live chats. Please be patient. - One-shot listening session:
please send me a message to schedule an appointment or catch me when I'm online! -
Please check you belong to the appropriate age group.
I only listen to adults.Unfortunately, this amazing website is polluted by people who mistake help with sexual chats.We are volunteers here and I kindly remind you that respect should be mutual.
OUR PATH
- Assessment: it sounds threatening, but I promise it's not. A preliminary assessment is necessary to better understand your communication style and your needs — so I can act accordingly.
- Listening: I give you all my attention, my compassion, and a total absence of judgment.
- Mapping: we'll dive further into your core belief system, but you'll never feel violated. We'll move at your own pace with no pressure. You'll always be able to communicate with me and modify the content or the style of our relations. You'll end up with a vast range of tools to improve your daily life.
F.A.Q.
Can your support interfere with my therapy?
Honestly, anything in the world can potentially interfere with therapy. Please remember I'm always eager to coordinate my support with the one of your healthcare provider/therapist. If requested, I'm also available to discuss directly with your therapist the nature of my support.
Which languages can we speak?
Although I've decent understanding skills in German, Spanish, Russian, and Arabic, I suggest you pick a language between English or Italian.
What's your listening style/background?
I've been a listener and coach for a while now. Verified via 7cups and "refreshed" via peer review.
What's your level?
I'm currently Master, level 11.
What's your method?
My coaching and mentoring method is based on Gestalt approach. I'm also passionate about Behavioral Neuroscience, Cognitive Biases, and Cognitive Distortions.
What can we work on?
Cognitive Behavioral Strategies (social, environmental, emotional, cognitive)
Powerful Productivity Hacks (creativity, motivation, procrastination, mindset, goal-setting, resilience building, self-development)
Self-care Area (personal growth plan, lifestyle audit, social life design, lifestyle habits, healing paths, stress reduction, time management, self-expression, assertiveness, acceptance, life balance, self-esteem, emotional development, distress tolerance skills)
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Feedback & Reviews
Viv is the sweetest!! Stayed with me the whole time and made me smile. I hope you always stay happy. Sending hugs to you! 🥺❤️
Was super helpful and patient and understood me
Non judgmental and forgiving,such an amazing person
One of the best listeners I have ever come across, very intelligent and insightful. Attentive and non-judgemental. Greatly appreciated, thanks
Great help, fantastic tips too
Great help! I really felt like I was listened to.
Excellent listener. Very thoughtful responses.
Great listener.
cant say more, shes cool listener and help me see the bigger picture. thanks for being here and helping people like me.
Had a helpful and positive talk,gained some fresh ideas to implement in my life
Very nice person who got back to me after dealing with some difficult issues in her own family. Help her brother is honorable, and getting back to offer me long term support was very kind. It gives me hope and i hope to start on my path very soon. Its hard to ask for help, but i think we all have to get a helping hand. Blessings
Shes really helping me feel better
Very attentive and involved listener. Not a single canned response from her!
Such a lovely and warm person. Deep minded. Asks the right questions. Understanding. Highly perceptive. Thoughtful with their replies. Thank you very much.
Amazing listener! Caring, compassionate, and had great advice
asked good questions
Extraordinary; kind; genuine
She invests time in you, for the time that she is there. You'll have a revelation after you're done talking- just the positive chirpy person you were looking for!
He was nice and good at listening
She was really concise and helped me find an outlet very quickly
Great listener!
Amazing listener, thank you so much
The most helpful,amazing ,passionate & amazing listener i've ever met :) thank you so much
thank you for making me feel comfortable
:)
Best listener.
Good with understanding
Understanding and helpful, definitely
Good conversation
Excellent
great
extremely supportive and kind quick listener
She is a great listener!!!!!!
Viv is a very empathetic person who really provides quality guidance.
An absolutely beautiful person inside-out. All the other reviews cannot do her justice. Viviana is purely amazing. Her love for life and compassion shines through. I'm very lucky to have met her. Thank you Viviana.
Dear 7cupsoftea - The best thing that has happened to this site is this listener profile of a wonderful lady we all have here and that's Viviana. She literally stands up to the expectations of what members actually need during dire times of crises / personal issues. She is the epitome of standards to be set for all listeners out here. I am glad that she is doing a wonderful job for the members out here . I really really look forward for our chats and I am yet to come across a woman who is as easy going as she is !! Thanks a lot Viviana, I am glad you made this happen :)
Viv is really sweet with the way she approaches your problem. I really enjoyed sharing my issues with her. I HIGHLY recommend you guys out here to connect with her. she is very accepting and caring and willing to listen to you about anything and help you through everything! This place requires more people like her :) She ROCKS !!!
If you are reading this then you are most fortunate, as you are only one step away from connecting with an excellent listener whose qualities exemplify humanitarianism. Shadows have no power in the presence of such light. Keep on shining, Viv!
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