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Weekly Prompt #36: How has anxiety affected your overall sense of self-worth or confidence?
by ASilentObserver
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Monday
...See more Hello all and welcome back to another discussion,  Last week, we discussed: What type of anxiety do you struggle with? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/anxiety/General_2428/WeeklyPrompt35Whattypeofanxietydoyoustrugglewith_327466/?post=3543066]  Thank you to all who participated and shared your thoughts with us. I appreciate you all. I hope all who may read it find it relatable too. If anyone hasn't shared yet, please share them here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/anxiety/General_2428/WeeklyPrompt35Whattypeofanxietydoyoustrugglewith_327466/?post=3543066] and I look forward to reading and discussing them with you.  Anxiety has a way of creeping into every front of our lives, whispering doubts and insecurities at the most inconvenient times. It can chip away at our confidence, leaving us feeling not enough and stressed in the face of challenges. The constant worry and fear that anxiety brings can create a barrier between who we are and who we want to be.. This week's prompt: How has anxiety affected your overall sense of self-worth or confidence?   So, let's discuss the profound impact of anxiety on our sense of self-worth and confidence and share our emotions, experiences and what probably helped us. I am looking forward to hearing your thoughts and experiences! Note:  I invite all to help me with creating these weekly prompt discussions so that we all can come together and discuss something related to anxiety every week. If you any interested in helping me out, please share your interest through this form and  I will reach out to you to guide and support you in creating the next discussion.  [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSefjDBwy85YFxWpfrqrdXbdMORBC-pvJA4xhd10R9lMq66fIw/viewform] Join us in the Anxiety Support Chat every Monday and Tuesday! [https://www.7cups.com/connect/groupChatrooms.php]. -------------------------
How to Calm an Anxiety Attack: Practical Tips and Techniques 🙏
by Jem7Cups
Last post
May 8th
...See more Anxiety attacks can be incredibly overwhelming. They are characterised by a sudden surge of intense fear or discomfort, and can be accompanied by physical symptoms like a racing heart, shortness of breath, and trembling. Although they can feel incredibly isolating, it's important to remember that you're not alone, and there are techniques that can help. Here's a guide to calming an anxiety attack: 1. Grounding Techniques: Grounding helps bring you back to the present moment. Here are some techniques to try: - 5-4-3-2-1: Identify five things you can see, four you can touch, three you can hear, two you can smell, and one you can taste. - Hold an object: Focus on its texture, temperature, weight, and other physical qualities. 2. Deep Breathing: This can help slow your heart rate and calm your mind. Try inhaling for a count of four, holding for a count of four, and exhaling for a count of four. 3. Challenge Negative Thoughts: Anxiety often comes with a rush of negative and irrational thoughts. Challenge them by asking: - Is this thought true? - Is there evidence to support it? - What's the worst that could happen? And what's more likely to happen? 4. Remind Yourself: Tell yourself that this is an anxiety attack and it will pass. You've gotten through them before and you will get through this one as well. 5. Find a Calm Environment: If possible, step away from an overwhelming environment. This could be a quiet room or even just a few moments outdoors. 6. Use Distraction Techniques: Engage in an activity that requires your attention. This can be anything from counting backwards, coloring, or focusing on a simple task. 7. Seek Comfort: Talk to someone you trust about how you're feeling. Sometimes, just vocalising your feelings can be therapeutic. 8. Avoid Caffeine and Sugar: These can exacerbate anxiety. Instead, drink water or herbal tea. 9. Use Positive Affirmations: Say positive affirmations to yourself, such as "I am safe," "This too shall pass," or "I am in control." 10. Seek Professional Help: If you're experiencing frequent anxiety attacks, it might be time to seek help from a professional, such as a therapist or counsellor. They can provide coping mechanisms tailored to you. Remember, everyone is different and some techniques might work better for you than others. It's about finding what's most effective for you. Most importantly, be gentle with yourself. Anxiety attacks can be challenging, but with the right tools and support, they can become more manageable.
Anxiety Support Resources Masterpost
by Sealiously
Last post
April 27th
...See more Anxiety Self-Help Guide [https://www.7cups.com/anxiety-help/] Anxiety Self-Help Modules & Workbooks by the Centre of Clinical Interventions [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/AnxietySelfHelpModulesWorkbooksbytheCentreforClinicalInterventions_190091/] "Normal Anxiety" Versus Generalised Anxiety Disorder [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/NormalAnxietyVersusGeneralisedAnxietyDisorder_53785/] 14 Unexpected Symptoms of Anxiety [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/14UnexpectedSymptomsofAnxietyHaveYouExperiencedAny_110438/] 15 Facts about People with Concealed Anxiety [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/15factsaboutpeoplewithconcealedanxiety_50407/] 5 Signs you're suffering with Anxiety [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/5SignsYoureSufferingWithAnxiety_90026/] Anxiety & Memory Loss [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/AnxietyandMemoryLoss_169616/] Anxiety Disorder Causes - Myths & Reality [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/AnxietyDisorderCausesMythsReality_50768/] Anxiety and Losing Touch with Reality [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/AnxietyandLosingTouchWithReality_45404/] Anxiety in Children [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/Anxietyinchildren_211561/] Anxiety vs. Stress - how to recognize them? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/AnxietyvsStresshowtorecognizethem_226749/] Procrastination Self Study [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/ProcrastinationSelfStudy_155934/] The Influence of Cognition and Personality on Stress [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/TheInfluenceofCognitionandPersonalityOnStress_177488/] Types of Negative Thoughts and How to Cope [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/AnxietyResourceTypesofNegativeThoughtsandHowtoCope_222110/] OCD and Exposure Therapy [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/OCDAndExposureTherapyAnHonorsProject_197204/] Social Media and Mental Health [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/ridaaxoshonorsprojectSocialMediaandMentalHealth_200376/] Test Anxiety [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/TestAnxietyHonorsProject_123215/] The Effects of Anxiety on College Students [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/HonorsProjectTheEffectsofAnxietyonCollegeStudents_128386/] Understanding and Coping with Anxiety [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/HonorsProjectUnderstandingandCopingwithAnxiety_85731/] 11 Tips for Anxiety Sufferers [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/11TipsforAnxietySufferers_199798/] 6 Effective technique for handling anxiety and panic attack [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/6Effectivetechniqueforhandlinganxietyandpanicattack_191272/] 5 ways you can reduce anxiety in every day life [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/5WaysyoucanreduceAnxietyinEveryDayLife_221992/] Anxiety attacks - helpful tips and tricks [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/AnxietyAttacksHelpfulTipsandTricks_222672/] Anti-anxiety and panic attack techniques [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/Antianxietypanicattacktechniques_25678/] Anxiety & Helping Someone Cope [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/AnxietyHelpingSomeoneCope_37844/] Challenging Anxiety [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/ChallengingAnxiety_139651/] Coping Skills for Managing Anxiety, Panic, and Stress [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/CopingSkillsformanagingAnxietyPanicandStress_165178/] Coping with Anxiety [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/CopingAnxiety_183742/] Coping skills dump (feel free to add yours) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/Copingskillsdumpfeelfreetoaddyours_223788/] Grounding and Coping with Anxiety [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/GroundingandCopingwithAnxiety_218263/] How To Cope With Panic Attacks [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/HowToCopeWithPanicAttacks_170687/] Panic attacks and Irritable Bowel Syndrome [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/PanicattacksandIBS_181350/] Things I wish I had been told 3 years ago [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/ThingsIWishIdBeenTold3YearsAgo_179636/] Tips to Cope with a Panic Attack [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupportCommunity_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/TipstoCopewithaPanicAttack_50795/?notifyID=164697429] You can see and think differently [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/Youcanseeandthinkdifferently_95683/] 10 ways to relax [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/10waystorelax_183024/] 9 Yoga Tips To Overcome Anxiety [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/9YogaTipsToOvercomeAnxiety_94157/] 5 Psychology Exercises to Understand Your Anxiety Better [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/5PsychologyExercisestoUnderstandYourAnxietyBetter_95562/] Breathing Exercises [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/BreathingExercises_79456/] Coping with Anxiety - Mindfulness [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/CopingwithAnxietyMindfulness_119425/] Free-writing as a Coping Skill [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/FreeWritingasaCopingSkill_158031/] Gifs to help you relax and calm you down [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/Gifstohelpyourelaxandcalmyoudown_54192/1/] Making A Safety Plan [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/MakingASafetyPlan_174801/] Making a Scale for your Anxiety [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/MakingaScaleforyourAnxiety_143263/] Meditation [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/Meditation_192311/] Online Panic and Agoraphobia Scale [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/OnlinePanicandAgoraphobiaScale_156590/] Pleasurable Activities [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/PleasurableActivities_84927/] ------------------------------------------------------------------------------- And.. a personal note to people with anxiety from @Jem7Cups [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AnxietySupport_53/AnxietySupportResources_412/APersonalNoteToPeopleWithAnxiety_220248/] cc: @VickyP @zaatarHoney @Emmur
Anxiety Level
by Sheena39
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2 hours ago
...See more How are you feeling right now?
Social Anxiety Disorder (S.A.D.)
by s0cksz
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3 hours ago
...See more I have social anxiety disorder, which is basically having a constant immense fear of judgment from others. Personally, my SAD is mainly based on how i look. example of a common thought I have: "everybody is watching me" having this thought often is a symptom of SAD, the feeling that eyes are constantly on you, judging everything about you. anyone relate to this?
Weekly Prompt #35: What type of anxiety do you struggle with?
by ASilentObserver
Last post
6 hours ago
...See more Hello all and welcome back to another discussion,  A couple of weeks ago we discussed: How do you conquer fear and the "All-Eyes-On-Me" feeling? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/anxiety/General_2428/WeeklyPrompt34HowdoyouconquerfearandtheAllEyesOnMefeeling_326784/] Thank you to all who participated and shared your thoughts with us. I appreciate you all. I hope all who may read it find it relatable too. If anyone hasn't shared yet, please share them here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/anxiety/General_2428/WeeklyPrompt34HowdoyouconquerfearandtheAllEyesOnMefeeling_326784/] and I look forward to reading and discussing them with you. Thank you to @JollyRacher for suggesting the topic of different types of anxiety or panic attacks one experiences and that is what I look forward to discussing and hearing you all in this discussion.  Anxiety can come in different forms, shapes, and intensity for everyone. The type of anxiety you struggle with is a deeply personal experience that can have a significant impact on your daily life. This week's prompt: What type of anxiety do you struggle with? So, let's discuss and share different types of anxiety or panic attacks you experiencing and if there are any first steps you taking, even when it's scary. I am looking forward to hearing your thoughts and experiences! Note:  I invite all to help me with creating these weekly prompt discussions so that we all can come together and discuss something related to anxiety every week. If you any interested in helping me out, please share your interest through this form and  I will reach out to you to guide and support you in creating the next discussion.  [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSefjDBwy85YFxWpfrqrdXbdMORBC-pvJA4xhd10R9lMq66fIw/viewform] Join us in the Anxiety Support Chat every Monday and Tuesday! [https://www.7cups.com/connect/groupChatrooms.php] -------------------------
Job Anxiety
by Olive1Q82
Last post
11 hours ago
...See more What are ways in which a young supervisor and an older person may have difficulty communicating? Is it possible that someone truly doesn’t see that they’re being rude and condescending? This is the situation I find myself in. Sometimes it’s challenging to see the other (younger) person’s perspective especially when you’ve been working two decades already. I bring it up because it causes me frustration, anxiety, and often anger. So, I just wonder (honestly) is it possible that someone really doesn’t see that what they say are rude and offensive. Can someone be rude yet well-intentioned? Is there such a significant communication gap between twenty something’s and forty something’s. I really am trying to understand. 😊 I’m trying to determine also if I am being too sensitive. Should I see this as a growth opportunity and stay or listen to my gut and find something better suited to my personality….⁉️ She causes me a significant source of anxiety. 😆 If it wasn’t for her, I’d love my job. So, what do you do when one person is holding you back from a career you’d love. i know this is something many people face…not just me.
Is Anxiety Destroying Your Good Memories?
by trueconfidant123
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13 hours ago
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I need help w my anxiety
by Hiiiiray
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14 hours ago
...See more I have been struggling with anxiety for almost 4 years now, but every time I have an anxiety attack or need help, I never know what to do. So the only thing I do is wait it out until I feel better. Does anyone know any methods to deal with anxiety? Thank you!
Conquering Anxiety: The role of Diet and Exercise
by Hope
Last post
22 hours ago
...See more Hi everyone! I hope you are doing well. This is week 4 of our Conquering Anxiety series. This week we are talking about two underutilized tools when it comes to managing anxiety and these are diet and exercise.  Let's assume you own a car. You do not put the right fuel in the car, then you go long periods without even starting the car, when you do take the car out, you go out in rough terrains with the wrong fuel and the car that has forgotten how it works. Would you be surprised it's not functioning as intended? I don’t think so.  Human beings are so much more complex than a car, but logic dictates that us not having the right diet (physical and digital) and not exercising our bodies will make it harder for us to function well. But we often neglect the role these factors play in our struggles with mental health. Make no mistake, you can have a perfect diet, exercise, and live out in the woods and still be anxious or depressed but some people benefit greatly from fixing these foundations so this topic is worth being talked about.  Diet The food we consume When it comes to the topic of diet about food, we will not go into the nitty gritty of which diet is superior and which one should be avoided at all costs. These choices are rarely that simple. However usually when people report that they are feeling better on a certain diet, there is an overlapping factor that most popular healing diets focus on whole foods, eating home-cooked meals, and being more involved in the process of making your food. The quality of the food you consume can impact your mental health just as it impacts your physical health.  Here is what to keep in mind when it comes to choosing your diet * Include foods that your body likes (whatever you can digest with ease, works well for your body) * Avoid regular consumption of foods that make you feel lethargic or uneasy (this could be cake for some and broccoli for others) * Plan, don’t wait for last-minute meal cooking. Who has the energy? Try meal preps and figure out backup options. Stick to realistic things based on your energy levels.  * See this is a lifestyle change, unless medically necessary, you can still enjoy the things that don’t work for you in moderation, as part of a balanced diet. * Consider reducing caffeine consumption if you have noticed it to worsen your anxiety. You may consider the same with your sugar and alcohol intake.  Your digital diet! Let's not forget how easy it is to overindulge in content that makes us feel terrible. Social media can be quite the mixed bag, you can start your scrolling in a good mood and put down the phone 20 minutes later with a new worry.  Important points to consider * The content you consume is part of your overall diet. It greatly impacts your mood.  * Most of the content out there is biased and heavily filtered. You are not getting the straight facts Most of us know we should reduce the time we spent on the web on things that are not directly related to our jobs/educaton or other such needs. But how do we do it? Actions you can take now to get back in control of your digital diet * Do not pick up your phone first thing in the morning. Get an alarm clock if you must. Spend the first 30 minutes of your day doing anything else other than being on a device. Bonus points if you can do something like a short walk, make your breakfast etc. This is setting the mood for the day.  * Maintain healthy boundaries with your phone. Reflect on the times when your phone is not a necessity. Examples of such situations: * You are going for a walk with someone else who is carrying a phone * You will be working on your homework for the next 1 hour that requires no phone use * You are eating lunch * In such situations, before you start this task/activity, put your phone in a drawer or a cupboard away from the place of activity. Do not take it out until you genuinely need it for something of value.  * Consider a nondevice activity 30-60 minutes before bed. You can read a physical book, you can meditate, you can color, you can complain about not having your phone, or whatever helps you get the habit started!  * Uninstall apps that do not benefit you at all. Replace the time you spend on them with something else that is beneficial and enjoyable for you.  Exercise Exercise helps to regulate your mood, it is a form of distraction, a way to exert your energy into something productive.  Physical exercise Here are some factors to consider when using exercise for managing anxiety or general stress levels * Consistency is important but little is better than nothing.  * Start where you are and with what is doable. For some this means walking for 10 minutes, for others it means taking the stairs * Include micro movements/exercise snacks into your routine. Do a 100 steps every 3 hours, or park your car a block away. Create opportunities for movement.  * For stress management and anxiety levels, it may not be ideal to do exercises that stress you out. Avoid picking up exercises that you dread. Don’t like going to the gym? Take some short walks instead.  Mental Exercise Sounds like a weird concept at first in relation to anxiety management but the reality is, unknowingly we have trained our minds to think the worst, indulge in our worries so it makes sense to give ourselves opportunities to think a bit differently.  Some mental exercises to consider * Gratitude journal (You can start your day by writing down 1-3 things you are grateful for, bonus points if you do it first thing in the morning) * Challenging cognitive distortions (At the end of the day, think of any distressing repetitive thought and challenge it, what are the facts supporting it, what are the odds, what evidence is available against it, what is a more balanced way of thinking about the situation) * Leaves on the stream meditation or other types of meditations that allows you to detach from your thoughts and view them as neutral * At the end of the day, write down one thing you did well today.  In summary, we want to be mindful or our food and digital diet and we want to add regular physical and mental exercises. Here is an example of how one person can include these 4 things in a day  * Start the day by saying out loud what you are grateful for (time taken 30 seconds) - Mental exercise * Go for a short walk after your breakfast/lunch/dinner (Time taken 15 minutes) - Physical exercise * Get yourself a veggie tray and a rotisserie chicken after your grocery shopping trip instead of a take out lunch (No additional time taken) - Food Diet * Ditch your phone 15 minutes before bedtime for starters (Time saved, 15 minutes) - Digital Diet 🔦Your task Draft a realistic plan that includes at least 1 task/activity you will do that covers all 4 types (Food and Digital Diet, Physical and Mental Exercise). You have been provided with an example above.  Please follow through with your plan for a minimum of 7 days. You will be asked about your experience with it in the series evaluation form at the end of the series.  Now remember change can be uncomfortable and frustrating. It sucks to have your phone in a drawer when you would much rather distract yourself with it, maybe you don’t want to uninstall that one app that is reducing your joy but you are capable of doing hard things and the interesting thing about doing so is that it gets so much better, the more you exercise control.  Further Reading 7 Neuroplasticity Exercises for Anxiety [https://acognitiveconnection.com/neuroplasticity-exercises-for-anxiety/] Have you heard of exercise snacks? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/motivation/ExerciseMotivation_2522/Haveyouheardofexercisesnacks_322309/] What We Eat: Food and Diet Choices (or how to enjoy breakfast salad) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/siteupdates/GlensNookCommunity_547/WhatWeEatFoodandDietChoicesorhowtoenjoybreakfastsalad_264292/] Limiting our screen time! Prevention is better than recovery [https://www.7cups.com/forum/siteupdates/HopesCorner_2162/LimitingourscreentimePreventionisbetterthanrecovery_313611/] ------------------------- This post is part of the Conquering Anxiety series, you can find all posts of the series here.  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/community/CommunitySpace_2590/ConqueringAnxietyMasterpostOngoingSeries_327724/]
Help!
by Hypergraphia
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22 hours ago
...See more What do you do guys when you have anxiety attacks? Thank you so much for answering. It will be a big help for me.
Conquering Anxiety: Coping Skills
by Hope
Last post
22 hours ago
...See more Hi everyone! Thank you for following our Conquering Anxiety Series. We are in week 3! Last week we covered the cycle of anxiety. Please review the post here if you have not yet. The way this series is planned, it is important to follow the posts in the right order to benefit from the series. So if you stumble upon a random post, I recommend going back to the master and catching up in the right order.  In the last post, we talked about the cycle of anxiety! How the choices we make can weaken or strengthen the cycle. But the reality is, just knowing that we are doing the right thing does not make it any easy. It is still so hard to stand up to anxiety. This is why coping skills exist! These are ways you can make your anxiety manageable, and activate your parasympathetic nervous system. They should not be used with the intent to run away from anxiety as that is only going to strengthen the cycle of anxiety. Instead, think of them as your support system while you tackle your fears.  Here are some effective and simple coping strategies Grounding Techniques The 5-4-3-2-1 Method This is one of the most used methods where you ground yourself. Here is how it works: Look around you and identify 🔎 5 things you can see around you (clock,laptop, phone etc) 📲 4 things you can touch around you or are currently touching  (your phone, floor etc) 📢 3 things you are currently hearing (fan, AC, birds chirping, traffic etc) 🌼2 things you are smelling (coffee, your perfume etc) ✨1 emotion you are feeling (Happy, sad, anxious) It is a good way to take your mind off your intense feeling of anxiety and helps you focus on what is in front of you.  Diaphragmatic Breathing Also known as belly breathing or abdominal breathing. The best way to understand how to do it is through watching a video such as the one linked below.  📺Watch a video on this here [https://youtu.be/t4aupp_YO9c?si=ZJXI45CrhJd9G9xq&t=128] If you find this challenging to do while sitting up, try it while lying down and it is a lot easier to do! Once you get used to it, it becomes easier to do it sitting up. This technique can help relax you during times of distress but you should not wait for anxiety to kick in and instead make it a point to practice this for a couple of minutes day and night and make it a part of your routine.  The 4-7-8 Method These numbers may be easier to remember and use compared to the first numbers technique as this is relatively simpler. We are again focusing on our breathing like the last method, however, it's fine if you can’t do it through your belly just yet!  Here is how you do this * Let go of any air you are holding (empty your lungs of air) * Inhale through your nose for 4 seconds * Hold up to 7 seconds * Exhale through your mouth, through the lips, and make a whoosh sound (whoosh sound is optional, it's okay if you can’t) * Do it for 4 cycles! Remember that this is what we want to work our way up to, it's fine if you can’t hold for 7 seconds yet or exhale in a controlled way, with practice this becomes easy, just do what you can! The second thing to note is that when we get anxious air feels scarce, and some people don’t want to take deep breaths, in that case, you may not like the Diaphragmatic Breathing in times of heightened anxiety but this 4-7-8 method can work as you don’t have to take deep breaths, just follow the second's rule, focus on that instead of how deep the breath is or where it is going.  Now you have these three techniques, make it a point to practice them again and again so that they become second nature to you and when you do feel the anxiety rising, you don’t have to try and remember what the tools were. Some individuals may prefer one or the other and that's okay, find what works for you! Acceptance and Commitment Therapy Technique Leaves on a stream We have learned how to ground ourselves and reduce the intensity of the anxiety we are dealing with. However to be able to do that we need to understand that thoughts are just thoughts, just because you think something does not mean it's true. You can view your thoughts without passing judgment or engaging with them.  To practice this skill, there is a meditation called ‘Leaves on the Stream’ 📺Watch the Video here [https://youtu.be/Ml-yuYraZkA?si=flVd2HS1dKoKF9oz] ❗Tasks for you * Go through all three of the grounding exercises and complete them.  * Completes the leaves on the stream meditation Share with us how these exercises made you feel and one way you can incorporate at least one of these into your daily routine Further Reading * Diaphragmatic Breathing [https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/articles/9445-diaphragmatic-breathing] * 7 deep breathing exercises to help you calm anxiety [https://www.calm.com/blog/breathing-exercises-for-anxiety] * How to use 4-7-8 breathing for anxiety [https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/324417#summary] ------------------------- This post is part of the Conquering Anxiety series, you can find all posts of the series here.  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/community/CommunitySpace_2590/ConqueringAnxietyMasterpostOngoingSeries_327724/]
Conquering Anxiety: Cycle of Anxiety
by Hope
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22 hours ago
...See more Hi everyone, I hope you are doing well. Last week we talked about what anxiety is and how it can impact one’s life. You can participate in the first post here.  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/anxiety/Resources_412/ConqueringAnxietyIntroductiontoAnxietyanditsimpactonlife_327723]This week we will dive into the cycle of Anxiety! We often talk about anxiety but I have not seen the cycle being talked about that often it is an important pattern to understand to improve your anxiety.  Here is the anxiety cycle visualized The cycle of anxiety, as illustrated in the graphic from The OCD & Anxiety Center [https://anxietycoach.mayoclinic.org/anxiety/anxiety-ocd-cycle-module/] Here is how it looks in action: * Public speaking: The speaker fears judgment, avoids presentation (temporary relief), but misses the chance to gain experience and the anxiety persists. The next time the same opportunity is presented, the fear is stronger.  * Driving: A person fears driving in busy places and avoids them initially but over time the idea of driving on busy roads feels completely unacceptable. What started as hesitance, becomes a deep-rooted fear.  Please take two minutes to watch this video on the anxiety cycle 📺Click Here to Watch the Video [https://youtu.be/D46Y-LDbFWY?si=-70GJA-zjv-Q2yej] So are we doomed then?  No, the interesting thing about the anxiety cycle is, that just as you can feed and strengthen your anxiety, you can also do the opposite. Let's look at the already given above examples where we learned that if we avoid something we are scared of, we strengthen the feelings of anxiety associated with it. So if we wish to weaken the intensity of these feelings, we have to do the opposite! We have to face what we fear (this will be covered more thoroughly in the coming posts, we are just dipping our toes in the idea of facing our fears at the start of the series) So what do we do when we are faced with anxiety? You do the thing you are scared of. I know it is easier said than done but this is an effective method.  For example, if you are a new driver who is scared to park in busy areas, you do exactly that! But we don’t go into these situations without our handy grounding tools to help us get through it! These will be covered in the posts to come.  For this post, we are simply learning about the cycle of anxiety and reflecting on how we have strengthened and weakened it in our lives.  Questions for reflection It is preferred that you complete the series on a member account but to accommodate anyone who wishes to use a listener account, I have divided the questions into Member and Listener categories.  (Members Only) Please do not answer these on a listener account * Reflect on an area of life where you have struggled with anxiety think about the cycle of anxiety that has existed surrounding that topic and share with us what that cycle looked like for you.  * Think of something you were once anxious about doing but now you either feel reduced anxiety surrounding it or do not feel anxious at all. Do you think you knowingly or unnowlingly broke the cycle? (Listeners Only) * Think of something that can be generally anxiety-provoking and give us two examples, where one path leads to more anxiety and another weakens the cycle.  Further Reading  * Understanding the cycle of anxiety [https://theocdandanxietycenter.com/understanding-the-cycle-of-anxiety/] * Free Anxiety Course [https://youtu.be/Kucxlrh74sg?si=FpK7CLdfqlhB4inv] ------------------------- This post is part of the Conquering Anxiety series, you can find all posts of the series here.  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/community/CommunitySpace_2590/ConqueringAnxietyMasterpostOngoingSeries_327724/]
Am I exaggerating?
by Lina546
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23 hours ago
...See more I always felt like I had anxiety. But I never thought I had the right to feel like thay or even talk about it. Could you guys tell me how does it feel like? What's your experience? (I don't like doctors so I never really tried to take a test)
Weekly Prompt #33: How open do you feel about talking about your anxiety with others?
by ASilentObserver
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...See more Hello all and welcome back to another discussion,  A couple of weeks ago we discussed: How are you feeling right now?  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/anxiety/General_2428/WeeklyPrompt32Howareyoufeelingrightnow_325316/]Thank you to all who participated and shared your thoughts with us. I appreciate you all. I hope all who may read it find it relatable too. If anyone hasn't shared yet, please share them here and I look forward to reading and discussing them with you.  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/anxiety/General_2428/WeeklyPrompt32Howareyoufeelingrightnow_325316/] This week's prompt: How open do you feel about talking about your anxiety with others?  The topic of discussing anxiety with others carries a weight of vulnerability and courage. It's not easy to open up about our inner struggles, especially when it comes to mental health issues like anxiety. Yet, the act of sharing our experiences and emotions with others can be a powerful step towards healing and connection. Let's get started and share your thoughts with us.  Also, it is time for periodic feedback on these weekly prompts.  * On a scale of 1-10, how helpful did you find these discussions on anxiety so far? (10 being most helpful)  * What specific topics related to anxiety would you be interested in learning more about or discussing further? Note:  I invite all to help me with creating these weekly prompt discussions so that we all can come together and discuss something related to anxiety every week. If you any interested in helping me out, please share your interest through this form and  I will reach out to you to guide and support you in creating the next discussion.  [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSefjDBwy85YFxWpfrqrdXbdMORBC-pvJA4xhd10R9lMq66fIw/viewform] Join us in the Anxiety Support Chat every Monday and Tuesday! [https://www.7cups.com/connect/groupChatrooms.php] -------------------------

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