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Weekly Prompt #41: Are there any underlying beliefs or fears that fuel your anxiety?
by ASilentObserver
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1 day ago
...See more Hello all and welcome back to another discussion,  A couple of weeks ago, we discussed what kind of behaviors anxiety has caused you to engage in. [https://www.7cups.com/forum/anxiety/General_2428/WeeklyPrompt40Whatkindofbehaviorsdoyouthinkanxietyhascausedyoutoengagein_336332/] Thank you to all who participated and shared your thoughts with us. I appreciate you all. I hope all who may read it find it relatable, too. If anyone hasn't shared them yet, please share them here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/anxiety/General_2428/WeeklyPrompt40Whatkindofbehaviorsdoyouthinkanxietyhascausedyoutoengagein_336332/], and I look forward to reading and discussing them with you.  This week's prompt:  Are there any underlying beliefs or fears that fuel your anxiety? There are often underlying beliefs and fears that fuel anxiety and these can be categorized into a few key areas like core beliefs, fears, negative thinking patterns, etc. Let's start to discuss and share these behaviors and I look forward to hearing your thoughts and experiences. Did you join us in the Anxiety Support Chat? It is available every Wednesday for the entire day. [https://www.7cups.com/connect/groupChatrooms.php]
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Conquering Anxiety: Panic Attacks and How to Tackle Them
by SoulfullyAButterfly
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Tuesday
...See more Hey everyone, I’m excited to join the Conquering Anxiety series with a discussion on panic attacks. These attacks can be scary and feel overwhelming, but there are ways to manage them. What is a Panic Attack? A panic attack is a sudden surge of intense fear or discomfort that peaks within minutes. Physical symptoms like shortness of breath, chest tightness, heart palpitations, dizziness, or numbness can accompany it. These symptoms can be really frightening, but it's important to remember that they're not dangerous and will pass. How are Panic Attacks Different from Anxiety? Anxiety is a general feeling of worry or unease, often about future events. Panic attacks, on the other hand, are sudden and intense episodes of fear that come on strong and fast. People with anxiety disorders may experience panic attacks, but not everyone who has a panic attack has an anxiety disorder. Strategies for Managing Panic Attacks In the Moment: * Deep Breathing: Shallow breathing is common during panic attacks, but deep, slow breaths from your belly can help slow your heart rate and calm your body. Try inhaling for 4 seconds, holding for 7 seconds, and exhaling for 8 seconds. * Focus on Your Senses: Ground yourself in the present moment by focusing on what you see, hear, smell, taste, or touch. Notice five blue things in the room, count the sounds you can hear, or sip some cool water and describe the taste. * Positive Self-Talk: Remind yourself that this is a panic attack, it's temporary, and you'll get through it. Some people enjoy writing their own affirmations in advance. * Relaxation Techniques: Progressive muscle relaxation involves tensing and releasing different muscle groups, which can help ease tension. Practicing PMR regularly during calm periods can be very helpful for managing general anxiety and reducing muscle tension. This lower baseline tension can make you less susceptible to panic attacks. It is not recommended that you practice/apply PMR during periods of panic attacks or long-term anxiety as the body is already in a heightened state of arousal/tension during such states. General Strategies: * Learn Your Triggers: Identifying situations or thoughts that trigger your panic attacks can help you avoid them or prepare for them. A panic attack journal can help you look for common patterns that may be triggering. Some common triggers are stressful situations, social situations, or negative thoughts. * Challenge Negative Thoughts: When anxious thoughts arise, challenge them with evidence-based reasoning. For example, if you're worried about passing out in public, remind yourself that panic attacks, while uncomfortable, are not dangerous. Try evaluating the evidence that supports and is against the thoughts you are having. * Seek professional help: A therapist can teach you coping mechanisms and help you understand your anxiety. Actionable Activities: * Create a "Calm Kit": Assemble a collection of items that help you feel grounded and relaxed during a panic attack. This could include calming scents like lavender, a stress ball, pictures of loved ones, or a playlist of soothing music. Having this kit readily available can be a helpful reminder that you have tools to manage your anxiety. * Practice Visualization: Imagine yourself in a calm and peaceful place during times of low anxiety. This can create a mental refuge during a panic attack. * Develop Your Personal Panic Attack Plan: Personalize what you will do during a panic attack according to your needs. Discussion Questions: Members: 1. What are some of your experiences with panic attacks? 2. What coping mechanisms have worked well for you? Listeners: 1. Are there any resources you'd recommend for people who struggle with panic attacks? 2. How can you best support someone who is dealing with a panic attack? Remember, you're not alone in this. There is help available, and you can learn to manage your panic attacks.  This post is part of the Conquering Anxiety series, you can find all posts of the series here.  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/community/CommunitySpace_2590/ConqueringAnxietyMasterpostOngoingSeries_327724/] You can join or leave the tag list here. [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4lpVXC3O_M5IFg4EGkFVJ5y3rj9re7Wq4bOhaVIGOvcRpAw/viewform] @exuberantBlackberry9105 @unassumingEyes @WeEarth @CordialDancer @YourCaringConfidant @daydreammemories @yellowPineapple3652 @BaklavaBaby @CalmRosebud @Gettingbettertoday @GregariousSky @mytwistedsoul @sincereZebra2546 @pamharley003 @Sugarapplefairy5 @orangish @NovaIsNB @Blahblah1805 @KateDoskocilova Note: We are looking for people who have worked on their anxiety management (progress counts, it's okay if your anxiety is not all the way managed yet) who are willing to share their experience to help others. Please message @Hope [https://www.7cups.com/@Hope]directly to contribute to a post in the series.
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Reminder✨️🌌
by daydreammemories
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December 4th, 2024
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What's going on with me
by thoughtfulNectarine910
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2 hours ago
...See more Idk what's happening with me . I'm afraid to be successful cause everyone surrounding me making distance from me , their behaviour affectinge alot . How would you feel when you are alone , others every one jealous of you and constantly comparing why they didn't got and I got something. I'm feeling so frustrated. Their talks continuously going on my mind . I can't able to step back from this Loop of overthinking. I can't able to sleep or even work. Every second is so much hard
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HOW I BATTLE ANXIETY AND WIN!
by juliak1968
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4 hours ago
...See more Anxiety is a rotten thief that tries to steal our happiness away, and anxiety can only occur when you're not focused on something that advances your life from the smallest thing like making your bed and then look at the progress and it feels good. (I had to learn the hard way and I suffered SEVERELY! My anxiety got so terrible that I had to be admitted to the hospital. I found that keeping busy doing anything at all helps. ANYTHING CONSTRUCTIVE When I feel the anxiety starting, I consider it a challenge and a fight that I must win, (This takes a real creative effort) I try to quickly focus on anything (one of my hobbies like drawing, logging onto 7Cups, Playing a few games of chess online, etc. Nothing hard but maybe looking at your cellphone's photo gallery, or looking / reading through old text messages and maybe sending a text with a creatively edited photo. I use 7Cups as a distraction often (which is what brought me here tonight). When our thoughts are blank, the anxiety sneaks in, but when we are focused on something (Productive, Practical, Positive and/or creative), it diverts our attention and hence we no longer are paying attention to anxiety. Learn to hate anxiety and start finding creative distractions and look for ways like singing out-loud, or listening to the radio while sketching a silly doodle, or doing a crossword puzzle. I write poems about my anxiety also. I make little to do lists so I can keep my thoughts directed at progress in my life. Keep it simple and give yourself a lot of self care! Blessings, Day
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New member and need advice
by Melly1113
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5 hours ago
...See more Hi all, I apologize for the long post, but please read... I need some advice I am new here and this is my first time posting! I wanted to come in and ask if anyone else has had this happen to them. I had my anxiety pretty under control... not saying that I was cured lol, but I was able to cope with it more than I had in the past. I guess you can say I had a pretty stressful week at work, but I felt fine. I work in the office at a middle school doing attendance and other office work. It was a Thursday night, and I was winding down for the night and I was indulging in a little snack, I bit into a chocolate covered pretzel and my heart started to POUND out of my chest, I felt like I couldn't breathe, and I dropped down to my knees. My mom was with me and had me go outside and it still wasn't calming down... We prepped to go to ER and in that time, I was able to get my watch on... By the time we got to the car I had started to calm down and we only went for a drive we did not go to the ER... I had then read my stats on my phone and my watch read that my heart had gone to 210... But it was fluctuating between 210 and 130 within seconds so I do not believe that it was accurate... I had a hard time sleeping that night and decided to make an appt with my dr for that following Monday. Monday comes and I am happy to be seeing my dr.... Boy was I wrong, he told me that without a doubt my watch was accurate and that I should google what happens to people with SVT for too long and suggested I start a beta blocker... He basically told me that I would not make it if my heart went high again if I did not start the pill... I was alone and terrified and left the office in tears. I went home and immediately made an appt with my cardiologist which thankfully was for that Wednesday. I tried to get through work the next day, but I was unable too, so I left and went to the ER. Got my bloodwork done and an ECG... Everything came back normal... The next day I went to the cardiologist, he first went over my holter monitor and echo results that I had done back in April of 2024, which were remarkable. Then we went into the reason I was there for the day... He told me that what happened was a common thing among women my age. He does not believe I need to be on a beta blocker daily and it is perfectly normal for my heart rate to go above 120 in the morning getting ready esp if I am rushing around, as long as when I sit down and have some water it returns to normal then I have nothing to worry about. He told me if it was to occur again and more frequently than we will get into another test and possible ablation, but for now continue to exercise, drink water, and get proper sleep. Even after hearing that I am still absolutely terrified of it happening again. It is consuming all of my thoughts. I was just wondering if anyone else has experienced this and how you got past the terror of it happening again. It has been 3 weeks since it has happened, and I am just so scared of it happening again. Thank you for reading and any advice given 😊
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newbie meow-meow
by sadmeoemeow
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7 hours ago
...See more Hi! I'm a new user on 7cups.  My name is Daan. i want to try to share my troubles here for myself so that they don't interfere with my life. i often keep things inside myself and it affects me and my environment negatively. so i want to find a listener or a therapist here.  I can tell you a little bit about myself. I am a medical student, studying surgery. besides that i love neurobiology and typology stuff (for fun)!  I love studying people and animals, and i am also a big fan of cinema (movies, series, animated series, whatever). i am also a digital artist (trying to draw) and love everything related to art! However, too much connection with someone alone or in a social group for too long can wear me down.  I have major issues with anxiety, socialization, and dysmorphophobia. of my ophiological diagnoses I have Asperger's syndrome, F41.1, and F43.1. I can't contact psychiatrists and psychiatric hospitals in my city: we have terrible specialists and terrible conditions for patients. i couldn't even find private (paid) psychiatrists/psychologists to help me. if i go to them, i will probably be registered or locked up in bad conditions. the text may look strange because I use a translator, due to my poor knowledge of English.
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My mind is trying to convince me that there’s something physically wrong with my body and that I will permanently suffer.
by drbillcat
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14 hours ago
...See more I got a health scare and what triggered this is I read symptoms and people talking about it online. I haven’t been able to fully think rationally as my body is always on alert that just pops up and gets worse at different times of the day no matter how calm I think I am. I wake up with panic attacks that physically hurt me. I don’t know how much longer I can take this. I went to the doctor and he said that it’s anxiety but anxiety has never felt this terrifying to me. It’s interfering with daily life I have a constant light pressure head tension. I’m scared this will never go away and I will have to deal with this no matter what I do.
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Idk what's going on
by Ballav25
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15 hours ago
...See more Hi everyone, I’m here seeking support and understanding. My relationship has left me emotionally drained, and I feel stuck in a toxic cycle. My partner is controlling, dismissive of my feelings, and has isolated me from friends. I’ve lost confidence in myself and struggle to focus on my studies. While I want to break free and rebuild my life, I’m afraid of making the wrong decision. Has anyone faced something similar? How do you find the courage to prioritize yourself and heal? Any advice or shared experiences would mean a lot.
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Diary through forms of expression
by Imad17
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16 hours ago
...See more Diary through forms of expression I want to greet you all and wish you a warm welcome to this post, it is my pleasure to share my opinion with you🙂. With this post, I want to explain the ways in which we can express our emotions, feelings, thoughts and many other things that concern ourselves. We've all heard of journaling as a great way to deal with anxiety. And really, writing down thoughts, fears and feelings can help us better understand and process them. We can also discover our inner worlds through other creative forms. Things like painting, drawing, writing: poetry, fairy tales, quotes, and even novels or fantasy, can all be powerful tools to release emotions. For example, some people like to paint their feelings with colors that remind them of what they are experiencing and feeling, while others prefer to create a story where a fighter goes through similar challenges just by writing. The point is that journaling is not the only way to express ourselves, we can express our feelings in many ways, even through singing, where we redirect our emotions through melody and song. It is important to find what relaxes us and helps us release what is weighing us down. Maybe you will respond by writing about your fears, and perhaps through drawing or writing a fantasy you will express what words cannot describe. Anxiety often seeks an outlet, and creative expression can be that safe space where we can let go of all our thoughts and feelings. Regardless Whatever you choose, remember that the process is more important than the result. You are doing this for yourself, to release, connect with yourself, and perhaps find peace in the moment. Do you have a favorite way of expressing yourself that helps you in these moments? I would love to hear from you your experience. 😊
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Mental health
by Imad17
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20 hours ago
...See more Hello everyone😊, I hope you are well, I want to share with you a thought related to anxiety as well as other forms of mental health "Remember, there is nothing in this world that can hurt you as much as your thoughts can, nor is there anything in this world that can heal you as much as your thoughts can." this got me thinking about various aspects of life, I would love to hear your thoughts on this as well. Pozdrav svima😊, nadam se da ste dobro, želim s vama podijeliti misao koja se odnosi na anksioznost kao i na druge oblike mentalnog zdravlja "Zapamti, ne postoji ništa na ovom svijetu što te može povrijediti onoliko koliko mogu tvoje misli, niti postoji ništa na ovom svijetu što te može izliječiti onoliko koliko mogu tvoje misli." ovo me navelo na razmišljanje o raznim aspektima života, volio bih čuti i vaše mišljenje o ovome.
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Anxiety Level
by Sheena39
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22 hours ago
...See more How are you feeling right now?
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How do I tell my parents that I have anxiety and depression
by llliv
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1 day ago
...See more I've been struggling with depressed for about 2 years now. I'm not sure when or why it exactly started but recently it's gotten really bad. I've been having some hard time breathing like I have to try hard to inhale. I live in a really competitive country and this year 2025 I'm going to high-school and I'm really stressed since grades in high school are a major deal in my country. I've just "dealt with depression and anxiety " by trying to bottle it away. But recently I can't get myself to do anything and I'm too tired to do anything because I'm so tired worrying all day. Honestly I wish everything could just end. I never really ask my parents for help but I think I really need to see a therapist or get anti depressents. So I'm wondering if I can go see a therapist without my parents?? Or how do I tell my parents all of this. I tried bringing it up a few times but it never really got to the 'I have depression '. It just ended up as I worry about lot or something like that. Also the thing is my parents are kinda of a part of what's causing my mental issues. I hear them talking about me at night when I'm trying to sleep and I can't fall asleep because I hear faint voices and sometimes my name and yelling and arguing. I'm so stressed someone help me
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am i in the wrong?
by shadowmoonking
Last post
1 day ago
...See more so everyday at home i try to dedicate 15 minutes to myself now and when anyone interrupts it i get really mad and i have stated this to them and they still do it now they dont let me lock my door so i put up a sign and their ignoring that to so i talk to my counselor and they asked what we talked about and im not telling them and they are getting mad who was in the wrong and what should i do?
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Weekly Prompt #41: Are there any underlying beliefs or fears that fuel your anxiety?
by ASilentObserver
Last post
1 day ago
...See more Hello all and welcome back to another discussion,  A couple of weeks ago, we discussed what kind of behaviors anxiety has caused you to engage in. [https://www.7cups.com/forum/anxiety/General_2428/WeeklyPrompt40Whatkindofbehaviorsdoyouthinkanxietyhascausedyoutoengagein_336332/] Thank you to all who participated and shared your thoughts with us. I appreciate you all. I hope all who may read it find it relatable, too. If anyone hasn't shared them yet, please share them here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/anxiety/General_2428/WeeklyPrompt40Whatkindofbehaviorsdoyouthinkanxietyhascausedyoutoengagein_336332/], and I look forward to reading and discussing them with you.  This week's prompt:  Are there any underlying beliefs or fears that fuel your anxiety? There are often underlying beliefs and fears that fuel anxiety and these can be categorized into a few key areas like core beliefs, fears, negative thinking patterns, etc. Let's start to discuss and share these behaviors and I look forward to hearing your thoughts and experiences. Did you join us in the Anxiety Support Chat? It is available every Wednesday for the entire day. [https://www.7cups.com/connect/groupChatrooms.php]

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