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Women's Issues Community Taglist! Stay Updated
by SoulfullyAButterfly
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...See more The Women's Issues Community Tag List is a way to stay connected with new discussions, resources, and posts shared by our forum supporters. By joining the tag list, you’ll receive notifications when important updates are posted (up to 4 times a week). These updates can include everything from wellness tips and discussions to helpful resources that align with the community’s focus on women’s issues. If you'd like to be added or removed from the tag list, simply leave a comment below. Being part of the tag list helps you stay engaged and ensures you don’t miss out on opportunities to connect and share your thoughts! ------------------------- Current taglist - updated by Mya on 17th October @adventurousBranch3786 @ashleybell415 @ASPIRINGCOUNSELOR @Aylathegreat @azuladragon34 @blxepxndx @calmmoon2104 @Callmetanya5 @creativeTalker5179 @DaisyBeeBlooming @daydreammemories @decisivePapaya238 @Eddy94 @emotionalkitty101 @fluffypickles123 @GentleLily3 @gentleWater9634 @GoldenRuleJG @halcyonCloud2036 @HarmonyBlossom @iloveyouxx @Jaeteuk @janiewanie423 @K87 @Kala @KarmaTheRascal @KaylaMaulfair @KindnessMatters2020 @lalabrowni @listenwithempathy @LittleSunshine2036 @littleLemon4973 @LovingPeacefulHeart @MoreThanJustMe @Mya000 @Noorahmed89 @OptimisticMoon1124 @PFord79 @pioneeringShade8010 @purpleTree4652 @RainbowRosie @RobinNew @shyMoon8539 @sincereSkies9563 @SirenOfSerenity @sky2Ocean20 @Smilintru67 @softSummer7903 @SomeHope2022 @SoulfullyAButterfly @tealPark1424 @TheCucumberry @trueconfidant123 @victoriousLily5344 @woMango9097 @zaramerch
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Join Our Team: We're Looking for Forum Supporters!
by Mya000
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 November 18th, 2024
...See more Hello everyone! We’re thrilled to announce that our Women's Issues Community Forum is on the lookout for Forum Supporters to join our team. If you’re passionate about women’s issues and eager to make a positive impact, this could be the perfect role for you! 🔍 What We’re Looking For: * Preferably Female: While we value all contributions, having female supporters helps ensure our discussions reflect direct lived experiences and viewpoints. * Knowledgeable About Women’s Issues: A strong understanding of discrimination and related topics is crucial to effectively contribute and support our community. Official Requirements for the Role: * Forum Supporter Responsibilities: * Focus on 1 or 2 sub-communities. * Maintain engagement by posting and replying to threads with empathy. * Uphold a record of zero behaviour points. * Active participation in the community prior to application is required. * For Members: * 50+ forum upvotes. * 50+ forum posts. * Make 10+ forum posts per month. * Have taken the Member Oath. * For Listeners: * Verified Listener status. * 50+ forum upvotes. * 50+ forum posts. * Make 10+ forum posts per month. * Have taken the Listener Community Guide & Listener Oath. 🌟 Why This Role Matters: * Informed Discussions: Your contributions will help guide insightful and supportive conversations about women’s issues. * Supportive Space: By fostering a compassionate environment, you’ll help ensure that every member feels heard and supported. If you’re ready to make a positive impact and meet the requirements, click the link below to apply! 👉 Click here to apply! [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSefNgW-Va7dyBx67M3d27INmkndnwm1C3Ywa7NJoFa2EscQkA/closedform] Thank you for your dedication and commitment to our cause. We look forward to working with you to make our community a better place for everyone!
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My brother is a misogynist and is violent. Im scared need advice now!
by unassumingOcean3070
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 3 days ago
...See more Hello everyone, this is a throwaway account. As the title says, my brother is violent and misogynistic, and I don’t know what to do anymore. I need advice urgently. For some context, I’m 22F and live in the Netherlands, which I feel is one of the most feminist and equal countries in the world. Obviously, it’s not perfect, but we’re on the right track toward equality, and I think we just need more time. However, my 19M younger brother doesn’t seem to see things the same way. Our family is originally from Afghanistan, but my brother and I were born here in the Netherlands. Despite being raised here, he’s developed these extremely misogynistic views, and it’s honestly terrifying to deal with. When my brother was eight, our dad (who was very abusive) got deported. While he was awful to most of us, he was surprisingly kind to my brother. Toward the end of his time here, my dad did start changing for the better, but he was still physically abusive to everyone else. When my dad left, my brother took it really hard. He became lost, and he didn’t have a father figure anymore. Since then, it’s mostly been us—me, my mom, and my sisters—raising him. He has five older sisters (we’re all feminists), and we’ve always tried to guide him to be a kind, non-toxic man who supports equality. Our older brother (who’s 10 years older than my younger brother) wasn’t around much because he left for university, so it was mostly up to us women. But even from the start, he rejected everything we tried to teach him. When he was nine, he watched an MMA fight with a Russian Muslim fighter named Zabit. Immediately after the fight, he asked my mom to take him to the library, where he borrowed a ton of books on martial arts and MMA. I begged my mom not to let him read them because I felt like martial arts was just another way for men to exert power over others, but my mom let him. He read all the books within a week. His Obsession With Martial Arts After that, he begged my mom to let him join a nearby wrestling school that also taught sanda (a mix of judo and kickboxing). My sisters and I all protested, but my brother wouldn’t stop crying about it and kept insisting it would be a good outlet for him. My mom finally gave in, even though we were against it. The gym was run by a Russian Muslim coach who quickly became a father figure to my brother. The coach and his family are really religious, but they’re also extremely kind and have always treated my brother well. In fact, the coach even stepped in to attend my brother’s parent-teacher conferences because my mom (who doesn’t speak Dutch) couldn’t, and none of us had time. My brother also became best friends with the coach’s twin sons, who are his age. The three of them are inseparable and train together constantly. But as he spent more time with them, my brother’s views started to change—and not in a good way. By the time he was 16, he started calling himself a “stoic” and claimed he didn’t express negative emotions. He also became really vocal about being Muslim, even though the rest of us don’t practice anymore. One time, we passed by a feminist protest, and a woman asked him if he supported the cause. He flat-out said, “No, I’m a Muslim,” and kept walking. When I asked him about it later, he said, “I don’t force my views on anyone. Women can do whatever they want as long as it doesn’t hurt others. But I’m free to make my own choices too, and I choose to follow my faith.” He also has this weird stance on abortion—he says he’s against it because of his beliefs but wouldn’t try to change the law because he doesn’t want to control women. I find this so hypocritical because my mom was told to abort him due to health risks, and she refused. He constantly praises her for that decision, but it’s not an excuse to be against abortion rights for others. He doesn't force his views on other tho. He's quite and very intimidating guy. He's like 6.5 230 built like a lion. And we can never get through to this man. The Breaking Point. Recently, my friend joined my brother’s gym. He works there as an instructor along with the twins, and they’re all nationally ranked fighters. But during one class, my brother refused to wrestle a girl, saying it “goes against his beliefs” to touch or even look at unrelated women in that way. His coach supported him, which makes it worse. I don’t know what to do anymore. He’s so resistant to anything I or my sisters say, and because of his size and demeanor (he’s 6’5”, 230 pounds, and incredibly strong), it’s impossible to argue with him without feeling intimidated. My other brother has tried talking to him too, but he doesn’t think my younger brother’s views are that bad. He also has pretty privilege. He gets a way with a lot because he has this innocent smile sometimes. I’m scared of where this is heading, and I don’t know how to get through to him. Any advice would mean a lot. He doesn't hurt anyone or threatening to. But his views are not good right?
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Merry Christmas!
by Mya000
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 Thursday
...See more To all the amazing members of our Women’s Issues Community, we’re wishing you a Christmas filled with love, peace, and moments of joy. Whether you’re celebrating with family, friends, or enjoying a quiet day for yourself, remember that you are deserving of kindness and care—today and always.  
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How Do You Plan to Take Care of Yourself This Holiday Season? ✨
by Mya000
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 December 24th
...See more The holiday season can be a time of celebration, connection, and joy—but it can also be overwhelming, especially with all the expectations and busyness that come with it. Taking time to care for yourself is just as important as everything else on your to-do list!   So, we want to hear from you:   What’s one way you plan to take care of yourself and find joy this holiday season? Maybe it’s a quiet moment with a good book, a walk in nature, journaling your thoughts, or setting boundaries that honor your well-being. Whatever it is, your self-care matters!   Let’s share our ideas and inspire one another to make this season as joyful and nourishing as possible. 💛
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The Pressure to Smile: Challenging the Sexist Expectation
by Mya000
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 November 16th, 2024
...See more Have you ever been told to "smile, it’s not that bad" or "don’t be so serious"? Society often expects women to smile at all times, regardless of how we’re feeling inside. This pressure can feel suffocating, as it reinforces the idea that women’s emotions should always be calm and pleasing to others. The expectation to constantly smile, even when we're stressed, anxious, or upset, is a restriction on our emotional expression. This injunction to smile is not only unrealistic but deeply rooted in sexist ideals. Women are often expected to appear happy or accommodating at all costs, regardless of the circumstances, as though our worth and value are tied to our outward appearance and our ability to please others. This can lead to suppressing our true emotions, which is harmful to our mental and emotional health. Women should have the freedom to express their feelings authentically, without being judged or pressured to perform happiness. Whether we're upset, frustrated, or simply not in the mood to smile, it’s okay to embrace the full range of emotions and to be true to ourselves. You don’t owe anyone a smile, and your feelings are valid no matter what. How do you handle the pressure to smile? What are some ways we can unlearn this expectation and embrace our true emotions?
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Share Your Ideas for the Community!
by Mya000
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 November 11th, 2024
...See more Hey everyone! I’d love to hear your thoughts on the types of posts and discussions you’d like to see in our Women’s Issues Community. All suggestions are welcome! Feel free to share in the comments or send me a private message if you’re more comfortable that way. Looking forward to hearing from you all!
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What’s One Piece of Advice You Wish You Could Give Your Younger Self? 💭
by Mya000
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 September 28th, 2024
...See more What’s One Piece of Advice You Wish You Could Give Your Younger Self? As you reflect on your personal journey, what wisdom would you impart to your younger self? Whether it’s about self-love, setting boundaries, or any other important lesson, let’s come together to inspire one another with the insights we've gained along the way ✨ Feel free to share your thoughts in the comments—your story might just resonate with someone who needs it! ------------------------- advice to younger self, self-love tips, personal growth, life lessons, boundaries in relationships, reflecting on personal journey, inspirational advice, women’s empowerment, self-reflection, sharing wisdom, personal experiences, emotional support, community inspiration
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Surprise sexism in hetero relationships
by BlueMel
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 September 17th, 2024
...See more I'm wondering how other women deal with male partners when they say surprising sexist things in long term relationships. For context I thought the guy I was dating had very similar ideals about feminism to me, very pro choice, prosexuality, etc. But I've noticed he will say stuff that just feel so outdated. Example being yesterday while complaining about a coworker he called her a tramp. When I brought how it bothered me he agreed he wouldnt use words like that around me but still gave reasons why he thought it was an appropriate word to use in the moment. Though we found some compromise the interaction left a bad taste in my mouth. Have any of you dealt with things like this? How did you handle it?
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Tell Us About Your Favourite Book by a Female Author!
by Mya000
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 September 11th, 2024
...See more Hello everyone, I hope you're all doing well! Today, I'd like to invite you to share a book written by a woman that you particularly enjoyed, whether it’s about femininity or another topic. I’ll be posting about various cultural subjects throughout the summer so stay tuned! I look forward to reading your recommendations! 📖
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Tell Us About Your Favorite Film Directed by a Woman!
by Mya000
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 September 10th, 2024
...See more Hello everyone 🎬 I hope you’re all doing well! Today, I’d love to hear about a film directed by a woman that you hold close to your heart. Whether it’s a feature film, documentary, comedy, or any other genre, all are welcome! Share your favourites with the community and let us know what makes them special to you.  If the film has any intense or potentially triggering moments, please include a brief content warning, please mention those as well 😊 I’m excited to read your recommendations and discover some new gems! Looking forward to your replies! ❤️
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Question Alert!!!
by PsychPrashansa13
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 August 15th, 2024
...See more What makes you uplift your mood while being on your period? P.S. - I am on my period. (First day)
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Sharing Our Experiences with Menstruation 💬
by Mya000
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 August 10th, 2024
...See more Menstruation is a natural biological process experienced by women and girls around the world. Despite its universality, menstruation remains shrouded in secrecy and stigma, making it a taboo topic in many cultures. Understanding Menstruation Menstruation is the periodic shedding of the uterine lining, known as the endometrium, which occurs when fertilization doesn't take place. The average menstrual cycle lasts about 28 days, with menstruation itself typically spanning three to six days. While the average volume of menstrual fluid is between 50 and 60 millilitres, this can vary significantly among women and across cycles.  Breaking the Taboo Despite being a normal biological function, menstruation is often met with embarrassment and silence. This silence can lead to misinformation and perpetuate myths, making it difficult for women and girls to access accurate information about their bodies. Share Your Story * How did you first learn about menstruation? Was it through school, family, or another source? * What challenges have you faced in discussing menstruation with others? Have you encountered any cultural or societal barriers? * How has your experience with menstruation changed over time? Have you noticed changes in your cycle or symptoms? * What are some myths or misconceptions about menstruation that you've encountered? How did you learn the truth? * How do you manage your menstrual health? What products or practices work best for you? Your experiences and questions are valuable, and by bringing them to the forefront, we can help others feel less isolated in their menstrual journeys. Feel free to share your thoughts, questions, and experiences in the comments below! 💬
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I'm Back, Let's Catch Up!
by Mya000
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 July 16th, 2024
...See more Hello everyone! 👋 I hope you're all doing well. I'm gradually coming back after taking some much-needed time for self-care. I apologize for my recent absence! How have you been? My responses may be a bit slower than usual as I get back into the swing of things, but rest assured, I'm here and will respond to each of your messages. Feel free to share any topics you'd like to discuss on the forum—I'm eager to hear your thoughts! Take care of yourselves and looking forward to reconnecting with you all! 🫶

About the Women’s Issues Community

Welcome to the Women’s Issues Community — a dedicated space for discussing topics related to women's health, well-being, and experiences. Our goal is to provide a supportive and respectful environment where members can connect, share, and learn from each other.

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Community Resources

Resources

Below are some essential resources related to women’s health, safety, and well-being:

International List of Sexual & Domestic Violence Agencies

Find a comprehensive list of agencies worldwide that provide support for sexual and domestic violence:

Guide Exclusively for Listeners on Sexual Abuse

For in-depth support and information on sexual abuse, explore this specialized guide:

Mental Health Resources

USA Crisis Helplines

Health and Wellness

  • Planned Parenthood: Offers a range of health services and resources for reproductive and sexual health.
  • Women’s Health.gov: Provides information on women’s health topics, including fitness, nutrition, and wellness.

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