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I want to cut so bad
@xBrokenSoulx Channel the energy into something positive - it's not worth it and you really won't feel better after you cut. Sending you all the positive energy and hugs you need. One win, it's all you need - don't do it today and see how tomorrow goes.
There's a girl I like, and I know that there's a chance that she likes me back becasue she likes girls like I do. But I don't know how to approach her and if she doesn't end up liking me back, I'm going to blame it on myself. There's also a chance that she may like another person on our sports team, a girl who I don't like all the time. I don't know what to do and it's causing me a lot of stress. :(
Any suggestions? Has anyone been in a similar situation? Solutions? I want to tell her how I feel in a week or so, but I'm just so scared...... :(
@ImaginativeDragon I wish I could tell you what the exact right thing to do is - all I point out is that if you tell her, at least you'll know one way or another.
Good luck!
*EXTRA BIG EXTRA SQUISHY BEST OF LUCK HUG!*
I need a hug, it's so hard being alone all the time.
@Und3rdog
A big TIGHT N SQUISHYYYY HUGGG for You. I hope you feel better.\(^O^)/
@Und3rdog. oooh, Squishy hug pile! YAY!
*ANOTHER EXTRA BIG, EXTRA SQUISHY, ANTI-LONELY HUG!*
@Und3rdog I BEEN THERE ITHURTS EVERYTHING DOES
Can I get a hug please? Feeling lonely today. :(
@skinicki
You're getting my one of the WARMEST Hugs ever. Holding you in my arms.
BIG LOVELY HUG (o^^o)
Lonely. Hugs sound great. I don't want to go into detail, because I'm rather ashamed. But hugs sound amazing
@youwillbeokayipromise You don't have to say anything you don't want to say..but come here..
*EXTRA BIG ANTI-SAD SQUISHY HUG!*
I struggle and get bad anxiety from public speaking. I have a speech I have to do on Monday morning and I am kinda freaking out. I have a lot of fear and stress I'm holding in right now because of this and I'm hoping this will get it off my chest a little, and maybe help me find other people who have had similar problems and who I can talk to on how to get through this. Thanks for any support :)
@smurphyy20 I do a lot of public speaking and there was a time I was very fearful of it. I found that if I practiced, practiced, practiced it felt better when the time came to speak. It was all about preparation. Sometimes I would recite my speech in the mirror to myself. I would walk around the house practicing while I did chores. Just take some deep breaths and remember...even if you do fumble, what is the worse that can happen? Will you lose a limb? No. Die? No. Even our mistakes make us stronger! Good luck Monday! Sending positive vibes
@Sunshinelily Thank You very much. Ill keep reminding myself to keep practicing more now and for future speeches :)
@smurphyy20 Someone suggested to me some years ago that you pick one person out of the audience and you direct your speech to them and only them. It's not always easy to ignore the rest of the audience, but I personally found that it does work.
Best of luck, and I'm sure you'll knock them dead.
*BIG SQUISHY GOOD LUCK HUG!!*
@Turquoisedreamer Thank You :) I'll try to pick out one of my friends and focus on them for my speech
@smurphyy20 STRESS AND ANIXETY BOTHERS ME TO THE BEST WAY TO GET RID OF IT IS RELAXATION MEDITATION AND DEEP BREATHING COUNTING TO 4 AND SOMETIMES TO 10 AND ALSO SOOTHING MUSIC WORKS TO THATS WHAT I DO AND IT HELPS ME EVEN SOOTHING CANDLES TO I THINK OF THE MOONLIGHT ALSO AND SOMETIMES I JUST A COMFORTABLE FOOD LIKE NOODLES SOUP I WEAR MY JAPANESE KIMONO ITS SILK IT SUPPORTS MY BACK I KNOW SCENTATION AND ABOUT PERFUME AND SYMPATHY AND HEALTH AND SCENTATION I LIKE IT SMELLS LIKE A GARDEN AND GLOOM WOULD BE MY FRIEND TO GLOOM IS A BEST FRIEND GLOOM DOES NOT HAVEA BAD SMELL AFTER ALL IF GLOOM SPREADS A BAD SMELL IT SHOWING YOU AND SAYING THAT IT NEEDS A FRIEND AND I know a condition from bad to good and being healed and i can survive anything handle any battle and any condition form weak to strong and recovery i hope to hear from you soon
It's just been a really rough junior year of high school for me. First, my mom finally divorced my abusive father, then a couple days later a guy was trying to take advantage of me which ended up with me pressing charges (considering I am a minor and he was 21), then I had a fall out with my siblings, a miserable 16th birthday, a relative passed away, and fights in the family. Now I'm getting irritated with some of my closest friends because they poke fun of me or they don't really listen to me when I talk but they tell me "You need to talk more!" They completely ignore all this progress I have made from overcoming my depression and anxiety and poke fun of me when I say that my crush has helped me a lot.
Sorry for this long rant... I'm just stressed out and don't really have anyone to talk to.
@DauntlessDuck Hey, it's okay. Sometimes you just need to let go, amiright?
Kudos (and hugs!) to you for coming along as far as you have - that's totally awesome!
Oooooooh, before I forget *BIG SQUISHY HUG!!*
i am crying so much it hurts and i can't stop. i'm shaking and can barely breathe .... will someone please hug me..?
@MestoreKitty Here you go... *BIG SQUISHY EXTRA LARGE BEAR HUG!*
@Turquoisedreamer *hug* thank you.
@MestoreKitty im here for you
just breathe it will bring your anixety down and meditate and flex stretch have good vibes for stress and listen to some relaxing soothing music or go buy a soothing candle it helpsme drink fluids such as water and tea take a hot shower
@dhabib tea is yummy, thank you :) tension tamer by celestial seasonings is a favorite of mine right now.
I can't stop crying. I can't stop the tears. I can't stop the pain. He came back to me. But he's ignoring me. Why do I always mess up my friendships. Why can't I make a single person happy with me anymore. Why does everybody hate me? Why do they always leave. They always leave.
There is nothing to worry about yourself.You are perfectly admirable character.I came to know about your lovable character with your post .So be as if you are.Feel free and enjoy the way you are .Be in your reality .All will like to be with you and would love to have your friendship when you express your reality. You will get a true friendship or relationship with the one who loves the way you are :-)
a hug for you
@Mapledusk you are not alone!! I feel the same way.
@Mapledusk If they dont like you, the problem is not you,is them.Why you want to be with someone that makes you feel bad? Its just not worth it. I send you hugs and kissis in hope you feel better.❤️🌺
I just need someone to talk to... And if you can, hug me.
@Amandagdy Hugs and kissis ❤️
@Amandagdy Kisses and hugs for you baby. Be strong, dear.
