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Member Oath - All Encouraged to Participate

Laura November 9th, 2014

Our member community is thriving! Now that we have our group support chat rooms, our members are able to interact and support each other in new and dynamic ways. You all have done a wonderful job adjusting to these chat rooms and supporting one another.

As a member of the 7 Cups community, you are all here for a variety of specific reasons. But one thing we all have in common is our love of the 7 Cups community. Our community is a safe haven, a place to find connection, compassion, love, and support.

Our community is only as strong as it's members. We ask each member to agree to these community guidelines and interact in ways that reflect these guidelines and the 7 Cups values.

Today, I would like all members of 7 Cups of Tea to take ownership of their home here. To show your commitment, we ask that you take the 7 Cups member oath. By completing this oath, you are promising to show kindness and support to all those you interact with here. It could be in the forums, with a listener in a 1-1 chat or in the group support chat rooms.

Below this post, type out your member oath. You could cut and paste it, but I feel like this takes away from it. Typing it helps you really think through what you are committing to. Next, at the bottom, sign in with your username like this:

I, ___________________, pledge a moral oath before my fellow community members, making them my witnesses, that I read and understood the community guidelines and ensure its compliance during my stay at 7Cups.

I will treat my fellow members and listeners with compassion, patience, open-mindedness, and being non-judgmental.

I will stay respectful of everyone I encounter in the community.

I understand as a community we are here to provide and seek support.

I will be thoughtful and compassionate in my conversations.

I will use the proper channels to escalate any concerns facing during my stay in the community.

I will be open to learning from others and sharing my experiences and learning with them to grow as a community together.

I will take ownership of my own behavior in the community and understand how I will react to any situation that is my choice.

I will follow the community guidelines and support each other in building the community better for everyone.

Signed: //LauraS//
Date: 11/9/2014

NOTE: Eventually, we will be able to give a badge to all those who take this pledge. The badge will come, as long as you post in this thread, you will earn it!

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(Edit; ASilentObserver, 01/10/2020)

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Pedro4TheWin1992 November 11th, 2017

I pledge an oath for being kind, respectful and honest with all, treating them exactly as I wish I was treated.

I commit myself to be active here, both as a member and as a listener, to dedicate myself to improve my well-being while helping others in their own paths.

CreativeFloof November 12th, 2017

I promise to always adhere by the 7 Cups guidelines, to show compassion and respect to all members of 7 Cups and uphold the values of 7 Cups to the best of my ability!

Signed: //Harieo//
Date: 12/11/17

MzBabie81 November 18th, 2017

I pledge to abide by the guidelines. The values of this group are my own also, they are part of my core.

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December 3rd, 2017

@MzBabie81

I pledge to abide

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December 14th, 2017

@scarletPear1945

what is this???

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NotYourAverageHuman November 20th, 2017

@Laura

I take the member oath!

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zee999 November 22nd, 2017

@NotYourAverageHuman hi

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delicatePeace November 21st, 2017

I pledge to be kind, helpful and give respect to others.

comfortingWhisper57 November 24th, 2017

My Member Oath

I ComfortingWhisper57 promise to give my help and support by listening to anyone who reaches out to me in distressed.

I promise to be kind, empathetic, supportive and respectful.

I promise to guide you in the right direction no matter what, to seek the help you may need.

I promise to be professional.

Signed:

ComfortingWhisper57

Date: 11/24/2017

TheListener7867 November 27th, 2017

Thanks everyone

brightPear1753 November 28th, 2017

I will use seven cupd

Ss

enlightenedIcicle75 November 28th, 2017

I pledge to the member oath

rebel11 November 29th, 2017

Could somebody better define what the following means on this site?

8. Use proper conflict resolution skills with every person on the site
Proper conflict resolution means dealing with conflict in a supportive manner that benefits both you and the other person involved.

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aquaticsky December 5th, 2017

@rebel11

trying not to fight but rather solve conflicts in a more productive / mindful way

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