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Member Oath - All Encouraged to Participate

Laura November 9th, 2014
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Our member community is thriving! Now that we have our group support chat rooms, our members are able to interact and support each other in new and dynamic ways. You all have done a wonderful job adjusting to these chat rooms and supporting one another.

As a member of the 7 Cups community, you are all here for a variety of specific reasons. But one thing we all have in common is our love of the 7 Cups community. Our community is a safe haven, a place to find connection, compassion, love, and support.

Our community is only as strong as it's members. We ask each member to agree to these community guidelines and interact in ways that reflect these guidelines and the 7 Cups values.

Today, I would like all members of 7 Cups of Tea to take ownership of their home here. To show your commitment, we ask that you take the 7 Cups member oath. By completing this oath, you are promising to show kindness and support to all those you interact with here. It could be in the forums, with a listener in a 1-1 chat or in the group support chat rooms.

Below this post, type out your member oath. You could cut and paste it, but I feel like this takes away from it. Typing it helps you really think through what you are committing to. Next, at the bottom, sign in with your username like this:

I, ___________________, pledge a moral oath before my fellow community members, making them my witnesses, that I read and understood the community guidelines and ensure its compliance during my stay at 7Cups.

I will treat my fellow members and listeners with compassion, patience, open-mindedness, and being non-judgmental.

I will stay respectful of everyone I encounter in the community.

I understand as a community we are here to provide and seek support.

I will be thoughtful and compassionate in my conversations.

I will use the proper channels to escalate any concerns facing during my stay in the community.

I will be open to learning from others and sharing my experiences and learning with them to grow as a community together.

I will take ownership of my own behavior in the community and understand how I will react to any situation that is my choice.

I will follow the community guidelines and support each other in building the community better for everyone.

Signed: //LauraS//
Date: 11/9/2014

NOTE: Eventually, we will be able to give a badge to all those who take this pledge. The badge will come, as long as you post in this thread, you will earn it!

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(Edit; ASilentObserver, 01/10/2020)

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SkyGuy12345 January 10th, 2020
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@Laura

I may not be a listener, but I take an oath to abide by the rules of Seven Cups. Here, i will only provide helpful and appreciated advice.

BadTwin January 10th, 2020
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I swear to follow 7 cups guidelines and be honest and kind to all members.

Freedomsong777 January 10th, 2020
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@Laura Yes, will do as requested.

myrra January 10th, 2020
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Ive understood these rules since ive got here but i take this oath anyways because it affirms to others that i follow the guidelines and rules and thats okay

xSaintx January 10th, 2020
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@Laura I take the member oath into my hands and will try my best to adhere to the desired outcomes.

xsaintx

1/9/2020

999jwrld January 10th, 2020
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@Laura i agree with the oath

LotustheGamer January 10th, 2020
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@Laura I hereby pledge to follow all of 7 cups guidelines to the best of my ability, and to additionally be kind, respectful, compassionate, and encouraging to anyone I meet.

Signed ViatheGamer

Lovesar13 January 10th, 2020
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Ok I agree

MammuthusPrimigenius January 10th, 2020
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Talking in group chat helps Ellie and me when we are not able to find a listener. Sometimes hearing other people talk about their struggles helps me to get a new and better perspective on my challenges, and I hope I do the same for them. I try very hard never to dismiss someone else's struggles and realize that we all need each other's support.

kingofblackcobras16 January 10th, 2020
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@Laura I take an oath to follow its guidelines.

graceeee January 10th, 2020
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I agree to the oath!

Hazalbean January 10th, 2020
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@Laura I promise to follow the guidelines of 7 cups and to help in any way possible.

SimplyMe357 January 10th, 2020
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@Laura

Signed: //SimplyMe357//

Date: 1/9/20

January 10th, 2020
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@Laura

I will go according to the rules!! 😀😋

AdorableGuineaPig January 10th, 2020
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I take my oath

KassBear January 10th, 2020
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@Laura I pledge to work hard to try and get better, I pledge to be polite and accepting of everyone else's trials and will remember that we all have our own struggles, and we're all just trying to find support, and get better.

MotivationalSong January 10th, 2020
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@Laura I, MotivationalSong, pledge to follow the rules and guidelines and uphold the values of respect and positivity when participating in the group chats.

Girl1980 January 10th, 2020
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@Laura

I promise to follow the 7cups community guidelines and values.

Signed: //Girl1980//

Date: 1/9/2020

Wayward7Good7Intentions January 10th, 2020
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@Laura

I promise to respect, support Members and Listenters here on 7 Cups.

We all need help and we are all here to help each other, in one way or another we are able to do so here on 7 Cups.

7 Compassion, Understanding, Patience, Supportive

Signed: //Wayward7Good7Intentions//

Date: 1/9/2020

Pebbles247 January 10th, 2020
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I promise to follow the 7cups community guidelines and values.

JennaJazz January 10th, 2020
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@Laura I take the oath with a will to adhere to it fully and use it to illuminate my time around here. enlightened

thatswhereillbewaiting January 10th, 2020
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Oath

Laura4563 January 10th, 2020
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I promise to be kind to everyone.

BrokenandRuined January 10th, 2020
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@Laura

I promise to follow the 7cups community guidelines and values.

1-9-2020

minnnnnnnn January 10th, 2020
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@Laura

i take an oath to follow the 7cups rules and guidelines.

signed minnnnnnnn

intuitiveMelon4864 January 10th, 2020
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@Laura

melon

starryskiez January 10th, 2020
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@Laura I, StarrySkiez, promise to adhere to the guidlines and try to be a more positive person.

Signed: //StarrySkiez//
Date: 1/9/2020

12345678aabbccc January 10th, 2020
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@LauraI'm not a "listener" on here, I am a member, and I take an oath to adhere to all the seven cups goals and values.

Seasons of Virginia2

1/9/2020

xxxHOWuglyXXX January 10th, 2020
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@Laura

I agree to the othe and promise to be kind and to all the people in here

We all have problems and where here to overcome them

Love you all ❤❤

SolusPrime23 January 10th, 2020
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@Laura I hereby pledge to always stick to the guidelines and boundaries set by the moderators on 7cups. I will additionally always try my utmost to be wise, kind, and insightful in all my conversations on 7cups. And to try and bring more joy to others and be at peace with myself.

Ashatteredheartandadepressed2 January 10th, 2020
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@Laura I, ashatteredheartanddepressed2 pledge to follow the rules and guidelines and uphold the values of respect and positivity when participating in all group chats. I also pledge to try to help others if I can and remind everyone they're important

46guyNY January 10th, 2020
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@Laura I take the member oath into my hands and will try my best to adhere to the desired outcomes.

Arisa46 January 10th, 2020
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@Laura I've been a member for sometime now and have had both good and not so good experiences. I agree to adhere to the 7 cups values and solidify my commitment in this oath

maeva January 10th, 2020
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I take the oat!

Arisa46 January 10th, 2020
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@Laura I've been a member for sometime now and have had both good and not so good experiences. I agree to adhere to the 7 cups values and solidify my commitment in this oath

RhinoDino777 January 10th, 2020
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@Laura

I take the member oath and will do anything in my power to help everyone and follow the rules unless helping someone does break a rule or two which it won't unless it's for a durastic measure of help is needed

signes rhinodino777 or what ever my username looks like now

1/09/2020

LAngel January 10th, 2020
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I promise to always do my best to uphold the values and goals of 7 cups.
//LAngel//
1/9/2020

WiltedRosepetals January 10th, 2020
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@Laura

I pledge to treat all other members of 7 cups with compassion and respect, and to adhere to the community rules and guidelines. I'll try my best to be a positive contributor to this website and to support my fellow members and listeners however I am able.

Workingonabetterme23 January 10th, 2020
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@Laura

I promise to adhere to the guidelines set by 7cups.

Workingonabetterme23 January 10th, 2020
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@Laura

I promise to adhere to the guidelines set by 7cups.