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Member Oath - All Encouraged to Participate

Laura November 9th, 2014

Our member community is thriving! Now that we have our group support chat rooms, our members are able to interact and support each other in new and dynamic ways. You all have done a wonderful job adjusting to these chat rooms and supporting one another.

As a member of the 7 Cups community, you are all here for a variety of specific reasons. But one thing we all have in common is our love of the 7 Cups community. Our community is a safe haven, a place to find connection, compassion, love, and support.

Our community is only as strong as it's members. We ask each member to agree to these community guidelines and interact in ways that reflect these guidelines and the 7 Cups values.

Today, I would like all members of 7 Cups of Tea to take ownership of their home here. To show your commitment, we ask that you take the 7 Cups member oath. By completing this oath, you are promising to show kindness and support to all those you interact with here. It could be in the forums, with a listener in a 1-1 chat or in the group support chat rooms.

Below this post, type out your member oath. You could cut and paste it, but I feel like this takes away from it. Typing it helps you really think through what you are committing to. Next, at the bottom, sign in with your username like this:

I, ___________________, pledge a moral oath before my fellow community members, making them my witnesses, that I read and understood the community guidelines and ensure its compliance during my stay at 7Cups.

I will treat my fellow members and listeners with compassion, patience, open-mindedness, and being non-judgmental.

I will stay respectful of everyone I encounter in the community.

I understand as a community we are here to provide and seek support.

I will be thoughtful and compassionate in my conversations.

I will use the proper channels to escalate any concerns facing during my stay in the community.

I will be open to learning from others and sharing my experiences and learning with them to grow as a community together.

I will take ownership of my own behavior in the community and understand how I will react to any situation that is my choice.

I will follow the community guidelines and support each other in building the community better for everyone.

Signed: //LauraS//
Date: 11/9/2014

NOTE: Eventually, we will be able to give a badge to all those who take this pledge. The badge will come, as long as you post in this thread, you will earn it!

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(Edit; ASilentObserver, 01/10/2020)

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patientVase6936 January 13th, 2018

I pledge an oath to use seven cups.

GingerSunshyne January 13th, 2018

I pleadge to do my best to adhere and uphold the spirit of the rules and regulations of 7 Cups. I will do my best to aways be encouraging to others and helpful in any way I can be. I hereby pledge to always stick to the guidelines and boundaries set by the moderators on 7cups. I will additionally always try my utmost to be wise, kind, and insightful in all my conversations on 7cups. And to try and bring more joy to others and be at peace with myself.

GingerSunshyne

friendlyChestnut4964 January 13th, 2018

@Laura I promise to be kind and compassionate in all my interactions within the 7 Cups community. I will do my best to uphold the 7 Cups values and follow the guidelines.

@friendlyChestnut4964
01/13/2018

Greywolfm8 January 14th, 2018

As a Member of 7 cups I pledge to give the best feedback to others as if I were a child in need of help. It is of great pleasure to do such a good deed of helping others overcome their situations. I'm glad to be a part of the team who's making it come to life! ♥

braveKitten4951 January 14th, 2018

I am not a listener, but I do come here for help

honestTortoise7644 January 14th, 2018

My Member Oath:

I, HonestTortoise, pledge a moral oath before the entire community, making the community witness that I will fulfill to the best of my ability this covenant and undertaking.

I will show kindness and compassion to all those I interact with.

I will work towards bettering my health every time I log on.

I will show respect and never violate the boundaries of my fellow members or listeners.

I will take ownership of my mental health and be forthcoming to build supportive relationships which encourage this endeavor.

I will respect the time, love and commitment my volunteer listeners bring to 7 Cups of Tea every day.

I will use the resources provided to me to continue to learn and grow.

I will believe in myself and understand that everyone's personal journey is unique.

I will take every interaction I have on 7 Cups of Tea as an opportunity to grow and learn.

I will honor the challenges presented to me in my life, believing in my soul, that no matter, how challenging, I can overcome.

I will lean on the community in my time of need and I will let others lean on me in their time of need.

I recognize that my behavior is a reflection of me. I take ownership of my actions and will be thoughtful in all my interactions.

I will keep these promises as a means of showing myself and the community that I am dedicated to my personal health and the betterment of the entire 7 Cups community.

Signed:

HonestTortoise
Brittanyred January 14th, 2018

I promise to bring compassion and caring and love and light into everything I do. I want to help others see the best within themselves just as I want for myself.

Lilysnoopy January 14th, 2018

Signed: // Lilysnoopy //

Date: 2018/01/15

Darkmemories January 14th, 2018

@Laura

I pledge to show kindness in all situations and to adhere to the rules no matter how tempting it is not to.

Darkmemories.

IcecreamBadger January 14th, 2018

@Laura I hereby pledge to always stick to the guidelines and boundaries set by the moderators on 7cups. I will additionally always try my very best to be wise, kind, and insightful in all my conversations on 7cups. And to try and bring more joy to others and be at peace with myself.