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The Richness of Love and Support: Member Appreciation Week

CheeryMango May 24th, 2021

Hello community ❤️

This week is member appreciation week. We’ve set up this event especially for each of you. You make 7 Cups the special place it is, so we’re taking this week to honour your experiences, your empathy, your compassion, your support, and your honesty. 7 Cups is for you, and we want to take this opportunity to touch on a very special topic: love ❤️

Love can be a confusing thing to talk about, because of how abstract it can be. Perhaps you’ve wondered: how is it supposed to feel? Is it when you do something for other people? Is it something you chase?

So let’s break it down a little. Let’s start with you. If you’re not ready to open your heart to other people, then self-love is a good place to start learning about what love means to you.

Self-love means something different to each person. This means that love isn’t just a feeling. Love is a choice too. We might not be able to fully control our emotions, but we can certainly control the actions and routines we choose to have in our lives. No matter where you are right now, you can love yourself by choosing to do the things you know are good for you.

For you, maybe that looks like going for therapy. Maybe that looks like taking a break, or cutting out a negative influence in your life, or setting some healthy boundaries. Maybe it looks like ice cream and pizza for dinner (or breakfast, if I’m being honest with myself). Maybe it means taking a walk or reading a book or staying off the news and social media for a day or two.

You are the one who knows you best. Perhaps your heart is already whispering to you about some things you try. No matter what, I want you to know that this community is here for you ❤️ We’ll walk through this together, okay?

Take care, and I hope you’ll have a great week ahead ❤️

Written by: Trauma Support Team

Questions:

1. How are you? ❤️

2. What are some of your favourite things to do on a rainy day?

3. What is one thing you want to treat yourself to today?

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friendlytortoise898 May 26th, 2021

1. I'm feeling great. 2. I love the rain especially the sound of it and how fresh it makes outside smell afterwards. I love to snuggle up and either read or watch a movie when it's raining. 3. Precious time with my wife, we don't get much.

Optimisticempath May 27th, 2021

I am okay thanks

I like rains only when I am inside home

I will treat myself with something sweet today

scw727 May 27th, 2021

i’m doing okay staying in bed to watch netflix, getting coffee a good dinner

Rebekah May 28th, 2021

@CheeryMango

1. How are you? ❤️ - I'm great, thank you!

2. What are some of your favourite things to do on a rainy day? - curling up in a quiet corner, hot chocolate on the sideboard, with a good book!

3. What is one thing you want to treat yourself to today? - self-care! 🌞

Beartohug4u May 28th, 2021

How are you?

I am doing better today. Thank you.

What are some of your favorite things to do on a rainy day?

I love to listen to the sound of rain as it falls on tin. I had a piece of tin put outside my bedroom window so I could hear it when I'm resting.

What is something you want to treat yourself to today?

I will enjoy 5-6 double stuffed Oreos and milk.

May 29th, 2021

@CheeryMango

1. I am good I guess

2. Probably, staying in, watching anime or stand in the balcony watching the rain. And ofcourse a mug of a hot drink.

3. Umm, some pasta.

intuitiveFig5483 May 29th, 2021

@CheeryMango

1. I'm okay; better than I've been in the last few days, but there's definitely room for improvement.

2. Honestly I love watching/listening to it. Oh and getting my soup on. Bonus points for thunderstorms <3

3. I think I'll have myself a cannoli at work later.

krazeniks May 29th, 2021

@CheeryMango

1. I am doing good and feeling excited tbh!!

2. I'd love to walk in the rain with someone I love and get drenched. It's a whole different type of feeling.

3. I'd like to treat myself to a hamburger cause i am having this craving for it.

sunnyBraveheart7877 May 29th, 2021

I am ok today. I like to listen to the rain whenever I can it’s very peaceful!!!!! Going to get A BLT with extra crunchy bacon 😂

FallenStarss May 30th, 2021

hi hi every one : )

im doing fairly good

my favorite rainy day activity is too read a good book or watch a movie

one way I will treat myself today is too go to bed early tonight