What did you let go of that you really needed to let go?
It can be a thought, a habit or even a person.
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@amiablePeace77 I’ve been letting go of a lot of things lately. It’s a slow evolution each day. The biggest thing lately was letting go of the idea that I kept needing to think of something else to change about myself to make a relationship work.
@amiablePeace77 i used to put alot of energy into a friendship but I felt that I was just getting hurt in the process because of the choice in being mean and dismissive at times. Which the behavior made me question him in my mind all the time, so I put distance and limit the amount of how much I reach out
@amusingWest5360 in doing so my questioning as lessened
@amusingWest5360 I’m glad you were strong and did what you needed in that situation, and that you can see how it’s helped!
I've let gone of attachment with people in general (internally). Before I was like how normal people used to have relationships. [Relationship here is just a bond like father, mother, sibling, friend etc. I have not been in any love/partner relationship in my life.]
I still have that bond of parents, friends etc. I do my duty. I have college friends too, luckily. I laugh and have fun with them. But when I am back at my home, I am kinda my original self where I try to focus on my goals. I don't talk with my family much and say I am busy or have assignments.
The reason is that- Firstly, no one really listens much, they all only talk and make me the listener. Secondly, I am the youngest so no one takes my advice. Thirdly, they fret over simple things etc, and are usually in some or the other irritated mode.
So if I am close to them, I get more irritated. I have kinda become formal with them.
Basically, Internally I have become detached. Outwardly I use the excuse that I am busy, and am a bit formal.
I have become like this because, no matter how good you are to the person, they will crush you or break you if at all they are irritated. No matter what good you do, they will ignore that and focus on our weakness or mistakes.
It happens in my family usually.
In college, it doesn't happen. I am friendly with others and I am formal.
@SoulwithGoals That’s really painful to go through, especially with your own family. I understand people being this way. I think it’s really great that you are putting that internal distance for yourself.
Thank you😅. It is kinda difficult though ...but somehow I am managing through God's grace.
@SoulwithGoals It is extremely difficult, I know what you mean. Stay true and kind to yourself. I’ll be praying for God’s continued strength for you, and for your healing. ❤️
@amiablePeace77That my family is ruined and thst my son will never be happy
@amiablePeace77 That badgers with rabies lol
@genericbeing
Glad you protect yourself! Rabies can be quite dangerous.
@amiablePeace77
What did you let go of that you really needed to let go?
we let go of family by moving away from them. this was very hard to do at the time even felt in away like we was giving up on them. we moved away on may 17th 2017. but we see now that by letting go of the belief that we was to stay within the abuse they was doing to us and always had done to us. that we was letting go of their control over us. becoming free from the abuse and control by them. yes many who not get this do not believe us. have talked about us in bad ways too. but letting go of them was best thing we ever done. we have freedom from abuse now. can heal more too
@stormieandpaws
It takes a lot of strength to do what you did! 💪👍
@amiablePeace77
thanks we know we had to do this even with it being so hard. but today we know was worth it too. we hope by posting that others still in abuse will learn it ok to leave family and others to be free of abuse.
@amiablepeace77
A toxic person who cuzed so much damage to me.
@BlackBlueWhite
Some people just do not belong in our lives. I hope all your wounds will heal soon.💙
@amiablePeace77
I have let go of some bitterness I was holding against a few people. However, it still surfaces at times🤷♀️
@WorkingitThrough2
Some wounds that have been inflicted on us need more time to heal than others. I hope that you can release that last bitterness and feel free and happy.
My marriage. After being separated and alone for 7 years, it was time.
@courageouspanda2006
You showed courage!
@amiablePeace77i am letting go of my hubby who passed away 1 year ago today.
@BookishWendy
I'm sorry to hear that. May your husband rest well 🫂