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soulsings November 12th
  • When I say the term self-care, what do you think of?
  • Please feel free to share some examples of self-talk from your own experience that is caring and kind to yourself.


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Zeraphim November 12th

When I say the term self-care, what do you think of?

Securing basic needs, safe and meaningful social connections, participating in something meaningful

Please feel free to share some examples of self-talk from your own experience that is caring and kind to yourself.

"I'm trying my best. If I fall through the cracks, at least the nutrients in my body will probably go on to nourish new life in my absence."

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soulsings OP November 14th

@Zeraphim you are a courageous person going through difficult times. We appreciate your fortitude and kindness. 

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amiablePeace77 November 12th

@soulsings

  • When I say the term self-care, what do you think of?

To me it means taking time for myself to focus on my needs and making sure that my inner balance is maintained or restored. 

  • Please feel free to share some examples of self-talk from your own experience that is caring and kind to yourself.

"You have a reason to feel upset and it's okay to feel sad about it, let's sit down and have a nice cup of tea and chill out".

"Things happen but you will get through this, I will be here for you"


Tinywhisper11 November 13th

@soulsings self care well that means to relax, to do something that makes you happy, take a break when you need to. But most importantly whatever you do, make sure it makes you happy ❤❤

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soulsings OP November 14th

@Tinywhisper11 we all want to be happy and free of suffering. 

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akunknown November 13th

@soulsings

  • When I say the term self-care, what do you think of?

Whenever the term self care is said by me, what I mean is to prioritize yourself first over everyone else, take care of yourself in every way you can. 

Prioritize yourself first, for example, means if someone asks you for help with something but you’re too sick, too exhausted or whatever to help, tell them that honestly instead of helping them when you’re not 100%. 

Taking care of yourself in every way you can, for example, means:

Physical health 

Emotional health

Dental health

Mental health

Social health

Financial health 

and every other form of health that exists 

Live how you want to live your life but in a healthy way and be happy. Appreciate what you have. Especially if it benefits you more. Sometimes certain things might bring you more or longer lasting benefits than some other things you have. That’s what I meant when I said if it benefits you more. 

  • Please feel free to share some examples of self-talk from your own experience that is caring and kind to yourself.

This is too private or too personal for me to share. It’s between me and myself. Hope that’s understood by all of you and ok with you all. If not, I’m truly very sorry about that. 

BlueDarkAurora November 13th

@soulsings Self care to me is knowing what I need and taking the steps to get it. It's allowing ourself to be instead of barking orders of how things should be. It's the patience while we figure out the next step and the acknowledgement that right now maybe we need a break.

whimsychaser99 November 13th

To me self care is taking a moment to assess what needs you currently feel aren’t being met for you by others, and doing what you can to provide yourself with that. I try to take a general need (such as, “I’m craving physical comfort”) and find small things I can do for myself to meet it. (In that scenario I’d light a candle, put on a pair of soft pajamas, turn on low lighting and play a comfort movie or game). It looks different for me every day because every day some of my needs are met but not all of them. So it’s important to assess what I’m actually craving first.

amusingWest5360 November 13th

@soulsings self care to me means...putting all of my attention and focus on things that I really enjoy and taking walks by myself

WorkingitThrough2 November 13th

@soulsings

  • When I say the term self-care, what do you think of?
  • Please feel free to share some examples of self-talk from your own experience
  • that is caring and kind to yourself
  • Selfcare= taking care of my own needs anything that helps to pamper me.
  • self-talk is when my brain is talking to me in a positive  such as "It's okay to be yourself, "You are not broken or damaged goods, you are human,

BubListens November 13th

Caring less about everything.

AffyAvo November 13th

First thing that comes to mind is s lot of work with doing things to manage chronic illnesses. There's the more fu self-care aspects too