SITUATIONSHIP!!

@Muskyy

You shouldn't think a lot about such things, this is for the first time you felt this way so it's natural to get confused. But in reality many people meet strangers, they become friends, then bestie, then sometimes lover and again stranger. So there is no harm in self doubting your thoughts, but you shouldn't go back to the same person who hurt you already, if you feel that it was misunderstanding by you, then I won't say to give him a second chance.

You will meet many people who will make you feel better and you will get attached to them, but that doesn't mean you can always spend your time with them. Wait for the right time and right person, for now don't play wrong moves because you wanna experience new things (sometimes people do with wrong person and suffer more) and you should focus on yourself !

Incase you find this insufficient to decide, feel free to share your thoughts 💭

@LazyTongue Yeah I totally agree with you, but how should I treat him? We are best friends so he knows if there is a behaviour change in me. I can't end my friendship with him. So how should I treat him?

@Muskyy

Nothing lasts forever, learn to say no to anything which you don't like or want.

Your whole life is waiting for you to enjoy every rollercoaster ride but if you like bumpy rides then choice is all yours!!

Still having doubts? you can tell .......

@Muskyy I am sorry you are in a complicated relationship. He seems to be making a relationship not possible by his hesitancy to have an LDR. I do not know what you should do.

If you had a friend with a similar situation like you have, what would you tell them?

Is this your first relationship or have you had others? How did those go?

What do you hope to get in a relationship? Do you think that is realistic?

Maybe thos questions will raise some points that may help you. hope you find something to focus on besides this frustrating situation with no easy resolution.

@soulsings Thank you so much for replying!!!

It definitely helped me!!

@Muskyy I've learnt it the hard way....but love is supposed to be simple. The relationship you have with a person should be uncomplicated and things should feel easy. A home where you feel safe, understood and comfortable. No boy is worth the effort until then. We often think about others so much that we forget to prioritise our own mental health. Sometimes we need to have the courage to take the hard decisions and just focus on ourselves. Do not lower your standards for friendships and relationships. Whatever decision you take, it should only help you feel peaceful. Life is a rollercoaster, where your decisions our your safety belt, and you get decide which person you are willing to make your partner, someone who makes the ride peaceful and safe.

@passionateSea2002 thanks for your thooughtful reply.

@passionateSea2002 Thank you so much for replying!!!

It definitely helped me!