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passionateSea2002
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Hey, there! Just a reminder: "you are the greatest project you'll ever work on."

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The turmoil of friendships.
Friendship Support / by passionateSea2002
Last post
 January 14th
...See more Throughout our lives, we think our friends are the ones we played with, studied with, or just met along the way. Were they really my friends? Did I really enjoy myself in their company? I'm grateful for the role they've played in my life, and I wish I could be a good part of their lives too. But I feel I have the tendency to leave. I can't hold on to connections that feel draining to me. I can't hold on to people who make me feel happy too. I let go of people easily. All I'm left with is grief, some memories, and a few shades of loneliness. Every phase of my life introduced me to new kinds of people, but who did I really connect with? What is friendship to me? I've been trying to understand it, and honestly, I think I'd love it if someone could help me understand what it is and how to make it a part of our lives. I'm not saying that I don't need friends. We are humans after all. Social Animals. We crave connection. A genuine one. Then I question myself. Should I try being happy alone, or should I adjust myself to feeling alone in a group of people? All these questions make me question myself. Is there something I've been doing wrong? Is there something I need to work on? I wonder how people who, at one phase of life, were a part of our lives, but the next phase, just turns them into people we just met at that time.
help me, god
Relationship Stress / by passionateSea2002
Last post
 January 26th, 2022
...See more As you grow up, you change. There are some friendships you don't like to maintain anymore. I have few high school friends who keep meeting every time everyone is in the town. We've met twice after highschool, but each time I visit them, I don't feel comfortable around them anymore. We've had some good memories, but now it's like I'm seating with them, and I feel lost or lonely. It bothers me that if they ask me to meet again, how will I say no to the plan? I don't even know how to say no. I don't want to hurt them, but I also realise that I have to do what makes me happy.
some random thoughts about my student life
Student Support / by passionateSea2002
Last post
 January 19th, 2022
...See more "habits make or break a person" -me. Relying on motivation or deadlines is not really helpful in the long run. There are times when I don't want to do stuff even when it's important to do. I've read that the solution to all of this is maintaining discipline and doing your work consistently without worrying about the result. All people go through a phase where they feel lost or don't know how to start. I suggest to not overthink everything. Just start with the first thing you can think of. Take small steps, and complete it. Focus all your energy on it. Try to remove all distractions for the period of time you work. Some habits which help in student life. -7 hours of sleep to prevent brain fog and maximize focus. P.S. Einstein use to sleep for 10 hours - Eat well and healthy. A happy and healthy stomach makes a happy and healthy mind. - Stretching and walking/running or any physical activity again for an active brain and dopamine boost Hoping to reset my routine and get back on track. I'll have my semester end exams next month. Please share your thoughts about this and also tips for getting back on track. Cheers, Sea :)
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