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Distortion 8. Labelling

Hope November 29th, 2023

Hi everyone! I hope you are doing well. Time for another cognitive distortion post. Today we will be talking about ‘Labeling’. Labeling can be seen as a more extreme form of overgeneralization. As the name suggests, it involves assigning labels to yourself, others, and events.

Examples of labeling:


  • Classifying someone as innocent or sneaky based on one interaction. 

  • Thinking you are stupid for not doing well in a specific field 

  • Believing someone else is not competent based on one or two skills alone. 


Like most cognitive distortions, it will at times overlap with other distortions such as generalization and binary thinking (black-and-white thinking). What makes it stand out is the focus on labels. 


What we can learn from this distortion is to pause when we put a label on ourselves, someone else, or something, especially a negative label, and truly reflect on the validity of that label. Is your friend really awful for ignoring you or is he struggling to cope with his changed environment and as a result unable to respond to you?


You may think why you would want to stop labeling. Because it paints a false picture of reality and stops you from seeing things as they are and many times makes you more miserable than you have to be. When we label someone, something, or even ourselves, it really disrupts our peace and at times makes it hard for us to appreciate people and even our own selves. People and situations are often too complex to fit into these labels.

A better way of seeing things is to label behaviors rather than individuals, this way you can actually provide constructive feedback or even work on fixing those behaviors within you. If you believe you suck at making friends, that's not helpful but if you reflect on it and realize you have trouble starting conversations, you can now work on it without feeling poorly about yourself. It's also more specific and therefore more actionable.

Let us again practice reframing our thoughts! For this distortion, it is helpful to reflect on why you gave it the label and what facts/observations can oppose the label so you can see the whole picture
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We will use the same technique we have been using in other posts:
📢Points of Action:

  1. Find out your personal hit rate (how accurate your negative assumptions are), don’t just assume, look into your past and get an accurate percentage. (You can skip this if you recall yours from our last posts)

  2. Counter your negative thoughts with counter-positive thoughts based on logic/facts/experience. 

Reflect on a time when you labeled something or someone and later changed your mind. Please share with us! 


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daydreammemories October 17th

@Hope

  1. Find out your personal hit rate (how accurate your negative assumptions are), don’t just assume, look into your past and get an accurate percentage. (You can skip this if you recall yours from our last posts)
    ten percent 

  2. Counter your negative thoughts with counter-positive thoughts based on logic/facts/experience. 

Reflect on a time when you labeled something or someone and later changed your mind. Please share with us! 

i hate university >>> just because i failed a course doeant mean i hate it 
Sparkle8888 October 26th

@Hope

  1. Counter your negative thoughts with counter-positive thoughts based on logic/facts/experience. 

Reflect on a time when you labeled something or someone and later changed your mind. Please share with us! 

I have experienced this and it kind of changed my mind. I ended up developing a positive mindset towards people.

Negative thought:

I can't work or do my assignments in pairs or as a group.

Counter-positive thoughts:

I might learn a thing or two about the other person in the process. It can be helpful for me to do the assignments.

Phoenixthepoised 3 days ago

@Hope

Thanks for this post on labeling. I really resonate with how you described labeling as a more extreme form of overgeneralization. 

I once labeled succulents as “easy to care for” after seeing them everywhere and assuming they wouldn’t require much attention. I decided to get one without doing much research. However, my succulent ended up struggling because I didn’t realize it needed specific light conditions and care. After it didn’t thrive, I wrote off succulents altogether. Later, I read more about different varieties and their needs. I decided to give them another try with a bit more knowledge and this time, I found a type that thrived in my home environment.