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Hope August 19th, 2020

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edited by ASilentObserver as of Feb 17, 2021

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Mayita874 October 29th, 2022

You guys are so welcome!!!

I hope you feel good here.

Cassanthemum October 29th, 2022

Good morning. I am new here. My name is Lisa but go by Cass.

I have a long history, being 58, of trauma, mental and physical health issues including CPTSD. I've tried to get help (professional) but most of it hasn't helped as they just threw meds at me that weren't for what I needed. I've tried counseling but I really didn't feel listened to or got any real advice on how to improve.

I am married (20 yrs), five kids - all adult. I tend to find myself with people who want to control, keep me in a box, as it were and not improve myself. A lot of sabotaging and, in the past, blatant abuse of all kinds.

I am at the point now that I am not allowing people to hold me down. I got a new job that keeps me active. I am going to the gym (that way I can do what I need and want without anyone bothering me or keeping me from exercising). I am finding things I want to do, for myself, not just what others want and tagging along, such as hiking, biking, dance, gaming, etc. I am not allowing people to verbally dump on me about things that are triggers and cause a lot of stress.

It's hard to break away from the person I have been who goes along with everyone to feel accepted. Even those I am close to. It's hard to take care of me, without feeling selfish. I was raised by parents who were manipulative, abusive, and narcissistic. This led me into several relationships as an adult that were the same. I'm in a better one now, but there are concerns. It may be me and paranoia, it may be them, it may be both.

Thanks for listening.

Cass

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Novelist October 29th, 2022

@Cassanthemum

You are a nice and a great person .

politeLand6818 October 29th, 2022

@Cassanthemum thank you for sharing...I really identified with feeling guilty for choosing to be true to myself instead of just following along to be liked. I'm determined to be my true self and I'm getting stronger; however, I still have fear attached to telling the truth about myself and how it means pain or death or abandonment...woah...sorry TMI I only ment to thank you for sharing...

calmMango9611 October 30th, 2022

@Cassanthemum Welcome to 7cups. We are so glad to have you here.

Welcome to the family.

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amazingFriend8070 October 29th, 2022

@Hope Hi everyone, I am a new listener to 7cups and excited to be part of the community here!

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comfortableNight4463 October 29th, 2022

@amazingFriend8070 Hi! Welcome to 7cups! We're so glad to have you here!

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politeLand6818 October 29th, 2022

@Hope I'm here to learn about myself and how to love myself unconditionally, stop suppressing my shadow and implement healthy boundaries to live my purpose filled life.

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comfortableNight4463 October 30th, 2022

@politeLand6818 Hi! Welcome to 7cups! I hope you achieve all of these goals! We're so glad to have you here.

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HereToHelp8611 October 29th, 2022

Hi, all! I'm new here and excited to start my listening journey!

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comfortableNight4463 October 29th, 2022

@HereToHelp8611 Hi! Welcome to 7cups! We're so glad to have you here! I wish you luck on your journey!

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SpiritualPrincesa October 29th, 2022

I have a lot of life experience so I can relate to a lot of people here.

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comfortableNight4463 October 30th, 2022

@SpiritualPrincesa That is wonderful! We're so glad to have you here at 7cups!

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joyfulStrawberry6318 October 29th, 2022

@Hope Heloo

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comfortableNight4463 October 30th, 2022

@joyfulStrawberry6318 Hi! Welcome to 7cups. We're so grateful to have you here!

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YourConfidant01 October 30th, 2022

Heya! I'm a Psychology student and an aspiring psychologist. I'm always open to conversations without judging anyone. I would love to be confidant and a listener over here.

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comfortableNight4463 October 30th, 2022

@YourConfidant01 Hi! We're so grateful to have you here at 7cups. Thank you for all you do for this community!

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AlkaidHe October 30th, 2022

Wow

Bunny1637 October 30th, 2022

Hello, I hope you're doing well. Please remember that we're here to listen whenever you need❤️