how long have you been self harm free? (possible trigger warning: SH)
I've seen this sort of thing on a couple of other sites.
It's to put your accomplishments, relapses or anything you want it to be
you could post every day if you need to or once a month, no accomplishments too small.
and if you relapse, you are strong. and you can do this.
I will try get back to as many people as I can and if you need message me on here.
if this doesn't work oh well, but id like to see it work.
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been clean for 3 months but im getting urges now being in school
@turquoiseBunny2566 3 months is super!! How are you going now? Stay strong sweetie you are not alone x
Actually, it's been over a year for me!
Since going to college and finding the self I wanted to be (for the most part. There's still a lot I have to work on) I have been much happier. I got a new start without being labeled and I was/am given endless opportunities which I never would have got back home. And I don't feel confined.
I also had the chance to become involved in the community and make a difference, which really helped me stop doing such dark things and dark thoughts.
But because I base myself on my social worth (unfortunately I look for others opinions to determine my self worth.... :( but I'm working on that too) I've been very social and I've made many MANY friends which has helped me.
and since college, I haven't once wanted to cut or harm, or even think about suicide. But it's when I'm with my family and my hometown that I slowly fall back into that way of thinking.
But for those of you who still struggle with this daily or weekly or monthly, I just want you to know that I understand what you are going through; it's painful, I know. But you can move past that. You can start smiling genuinely and feel happy again. It's possible. You just have to be ready for the change that will be coming your way. Whether it be going to uni like me, or moving to a new house, getting a new job, etc. Embrace the change and it will embrace you.
Have a great rest of you day everyone!
@LyssaDarrien Hello! 
That's really great to hear and I'm really proud of you that you managed to walk out of this! Thank you for sharing your story with all our members and guests here and letting them know that it is possible to walk out of self-harm, and you have done it!
Yes, embrace the changes!
Almost 7 months!
@Booksareescape that's great! 7 months is a HUGE accomplishment! Keep holding on and staying strong! You can do this!
15 weeks
@Lexi1244 That is so wonderful to hear!! 15 weeks.. just wow! Keep going sweetie..
A week today.
@MyNameIsJosee A week!! Woo Hoo.. Awesome work.. You can do this!!
Thank you so much
4 hours
@Elinxs27 Sweetie you should be so proud of those 4 hours!! What an awesome job!! Way to go!!
2 weeks
@CrashingWalls Great work for the past 2 weeks! 
Keep it up and you can do it!
Way to go! Keep it up!
one day ://
@evaelmore15 You should be very proud of yourself, i know i am!! 1 day is awesome sweetie. Keep going you can do this!!
2 weeks
@tintin40298 So very proud of you!! 2 weeks is wonderful and i'm sure that number will keep getting higher!!
I will be a year clean November 1
@reliablePeach5281 Almost a year?? WOW!! That's so amazing.. You should be super proud of yourself for coming this far!! Well done
That's awesome. You're an inspiration
IM SO PROUD OF YOU
