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Elinxs27
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PathStep 123 Compassion hearts92 Forum posts163 Forum upvotes178 Current upvotes178 Age GroupAdult Last activeJanuary, 2019 Member sinceJuly 29, 2015
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Is it me, him, or us? Please help! :'(
Relationship Stress / by Elinxs27
Last post
 May 15th, 2017
...See more I consider myself to have been emotionally and verbally abused by my mother and younger sister. I never learned how to stick up for myself because if I did, I was considered a brat or b-ch but if I didn't- couldn't, then I was a wuss. I am already an overdramatic and emotional person with depression, anxiety, and ocd. My bf of over 1yr knows this. While i am stubborn and cry easily he is hypocritical, but despises that word. Today i got upset because his brother insulted me and then walked away but i wasnt supported by my bf - he assumed i wouldn't care even though I'm a listener and that's who i am. So i got upset at him for not caring about my feelings and my anger kind of pooled over from his brother to him and i lightly punched him in the chest (i say lightly because I'm small and could barely hurt anyone). I think he may be right to say that I'm abusive because when my sister attacks me sometimes i can only fight back physically. I'm not too good with words to begin with. My parents never hit me though - my mom just theeatened to hit me and almost did a couple of times is all. How do we fix this? Please help. I'm tired of feeling like I can't defend myself and when i do, it was the wrong thing to do.
Falling out of love?
Relationship Stress / by Elinxs27
Last post
 February 16th, 2017
...See more How can i tell if either he or i am falling out of love? We have been fighting a lot and we almost broke up last time. We've been together over a year now and i get jealous and I'm emotional and sensitive. It breaks my heart thinking of not being together, but i wonder if I'm holding him back and vise versa. What if we arent meant to be together? I had a dream last night that he broke up with me to get with his best friend. Now it feels like heartache as if we had actually broken up all day so far. Please help :(
fear of rejection?
Anxiety Support / by Elinxs27
Last post
 September 24th, 2015
...See more Anyone else have this and if so, is there a name for it? I do things even unconsciously because I'm afraid of being thought weird or stupid. I say and do things at the wrong time sometimes so I've grown to feel afraid of being myself kind of if that makes any sense
misuse of money? suicidal/homocidal patients released
Depression Support / by Elinxs27
Last post
 August 3rd, 2015
...See more So i recently just watched a 60 minute episode on how people admitted into hospitals are released without appropriate permission because insurance companies are attempting to save money by releasing patients who immediately go back to their unhealthy lifestyles (many committed suicide) rather than pay for their fees. Now I'd understand if they were low on income, but they showed this one case where the guy had a computer sign the approval forms twice without looking at the patients actual background (turns out he's pretty wealthy and making plenty of money per month how convenient for him). If someone has a say on this please feel free to comment or if perhaps you can provide insight to why they are allowing patients to go home knowing their mental state and high suicidal tendencies, then also please share, thanks.
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