Relationship issues
Okay well here goes. I have been with my fiance since July of 2018. I have had issues with being too clingy and jealous. I have had relationships without this, but in this 1 I am obsessive and about the stupidest things. I follow him around like a lost puppy most of the time he is home.
My most recent relationship was a mess... He was with someone but wanted to join another in the relationship... He destroyed me emotionally because he told me they were done so we could explore a relationship and I don't believe it ever was. I eventually ended it.
The other significant relationship was with my ex husband whom I was with off and on for 12 years. He was extremely abusive both emotionally and physically. We have been divorced for almost 3 years.
My dad was also very controlling and verbally and emotionally abusive.
I haven't been around a healthy relationship, but want to learn to fully trust my partner... Any tips or advice would be seriously appreciated. I don't want to lose him, I know he is meant for me and our kids (my boys call him dad and his son calls me mom).