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Here's the thing about love...

brightAvocado3528 July 29th, 2019

I know in my heart of hearts i found the one. The perfect man for me...but it didn't work out because of things we both did. Regardless we stayed friends and that truly was enough for me, because despite it not working out for us, I couldn't imagine him not in my life.

He is now moving on, and as much as it hurts my heart, I truly want him to be happy. I love him so much that his happiness means everything to me. I want him to live happily ever after and if that is not with me by his side that is ok with me, because his happiness means everything to me. Love is selfless and pure and honest. I will pray for his happiness every single day of my life. And maybe one day...I'll be happy as well...

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ASilentObserver August 26th, 2019

@brightAvocado3528

Hello Bright <3, Welcome to Relationship Support Space. Thank you for reaching out and sharing your thoughts with us. But, we apologize for the delay in responding to you.

As I see we are late in supporting you, can you please help us with the current status of the concerns you have and if you still would like to discuss and figure things out together with us?

We would be glad to listen and support you, if we could be of some help. I am looking forward to hearing from you.

Sending virtual hugs!

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brightAvocado3528 OP August 27th, 2019

@ASilentObserver I could really use the support. We have decided to be friends, but I'm the one initiating all communication. Losung him feels like I've lost a part of my soul...

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Popitzik August 27th, 2019

@brightAvocado3528

I loved what you wrote there.

I wish all people had this kind and loving mindset.

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brightAvocado3528 OP August 28th, 2019

@Popitzik Thank you so much. Real love is selfless...it has to be, otherwise what is the point??

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wanderingskies August 27th, 2019

@brightAvocado3528 sometimes the soulmates we meet are meant to stay temporarily in our lives. And it hurts becaue i felt that. I felt the kind of connection and love with someone that no one else can compare. But dont worry girl, we keep trying to love again because we are meant to meet new people. And when we meet someone else, I hope that by that time, they get to stay for real.

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brightAvocado3528 OP August 28th, 2019

@wanderingskies Yes maybe that will be in the cards for me, but right now I want no part of it. I can't go through another heartbreak. I'd rather live the rest of my life alone rather than risk hurting like this ever again.

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jazmine1986 August 27th, 2019

@brightAvocado3528

i can relate you because this is how i feel for a married man i know , knowing he won't feel the same way for me as long i see him happy i'll feel the same i just don't want to lose him as a friend ..

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brightAvocado3528 OP August 28th, 2019

@jazmine1986 I'm sorry you're going through this. I hope you find peace...I hope we all do...

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