Terrified of intimacy and a virgin
I have sexual trauma and i am a virgin. I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 months now and we're having a lot of problems because I don't do the sexual stuff. He's aware of what i went through but he gets so frustrated. sent him a text today while he was sleeping upstairs and i ended up watching his google history( what i know is very wrong) and there was a lot of "why my partner doesn't want to have sex with me" Posts and also a couple of porn videos,what is normal since he's not getting any sex. I don't think i make him happy anymore and I'm really sad about it. I upfronted asked him that but he keeps saying that i make him happy. I dont know what to do,i want to have sex with him but I'm so freaking scared i freeze and i just can't do it,I feel like the worst partner ever and i dont know how to solve it. I can't really afford therapy right now and i don't know.