Making It Alone...Making It Work

I Can Do It

With first husband and his family I had become a big spreading mushroom I was almost completely dependent and they enabled helplessness.

This all changed when first husband fell to addictions and I had to run for my life with clothes on my back, my purse, phone and laptop. 

I never saw him or that house again. It was terrifying. I moved out of state it was the single biggest leap of faith in my life. My legal family wanted me close by to maintain control ensure I kept their abuse a secret.

In the new state I got my own apartment. I was not that responsible but I was growing fast and shrinking in size as my life depended on it!

Husband and I finalized divorce they wrote the decree 9/11.

I ran for my life 2nd husband years later on 9/11; not planned!

Now on third best final marriage; now I can say I have lived in five states and I know I can fully care for myself as I do it daily.

No regrets!!