Should I just settle?
So there is this rlly great guy that asked me out and turns out we have a lot in common. We read the same books, like the same music and overall seem to rlly match. He is genuinely interested in me, asks me non superficial questions and respects my boundaries. I know this is the bare minimum but realistically seen its not often a guy puts this much effort into getting to know a girl.
I just can't get myself to like him. Objectively seen he's perfect, literally all I wanted, but I don't feel it. I don't feel excited around him, nor do I feel at ease or calm. I just feel nothing. I don't feel the need to see or text him, I couldnt care less if he'd stop texting me or not but on the other hand I'm scared I'm expecting too much from a relationship. But shouldn't u be a little excited over someone who fits perfectly to u?
I feel bad, but I've never been in a relationship before so I think I should just settle because there might be no one else, maybe I'm also missing the perfect person for me if I decide to throw it all away already.
I feel like smth is wrong with me lmao
@diplomaticOcean2966 hey nothing is wrong with you i am in the same situation im talking to this guy who ive met before and he lives in tennessee and he wants to come and visit but i dont really like him so i think you should just tell that person how you really feel dont let it drag out
@diplomaticOcean2966,
if there is no chemistry then he is not a perfect fit.
He might be a good friends and that's it.
@diplomaticOcean2966 No don't settle for less you might regret it later and it seems like you are better off as friends just how I see it😊 merry Christmas
Thanks, merry Christmas to u too !
@diplomaticOcean2966 Np good luck
@diplomaticOcean2966
Never settle if it comes down to that. At least that's how I feel. I dunno, best options might be confiding that in different words, or finding something you can connect on.
