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User Profile: ASilentObserver
ASilentObserver August 1st, 2018

Greetings from the Relationship Stress Community!!

Are you new to the Relationship Stress Community? Tell us some things about yourself and get to know others that joined the community this month!
Question prompts:

What brings you to the Relationship Stress community?

What is one thing you love most about yourself (or, perhaps, your loved ones)?


Benefits of being a member of the Relationship Stress Community:

Give and receive support from others who are in relationships.

Share your relationship journey (memories, struggles, challenges) in relevant topics comfortably.

Participate in community activities and events (eg. Check-ins, Icebreakers, Forum Discussions)

Plus, members who participate regularly could become part of the Relationship Stress team, as well!


Here are some quick links for you to check out:

our taglist! Join in to get updates on discussions and events.

check out this post for updates on weekly discussions!

check out our newest check-in here!

check this post with more information on how to navigate the community.

If you have any question, do not hesitate to contact KatePersephone (teens and adults) or reply on this thread!


Do not be a lurker! Join us and introduce yourself here!!


tagging our newest subcribers: @lovingGrapefruit8860 @raspberryKiwi4131 @turquoiseNest9943 @pluckyAcres9036 @patientMango4300 @peanut123456789 @Dash0 @PuffyCloud23 @understandingComputer9065 @MaCara @automatonic @sincereLion3371 @MuresanAndre @VelvetPoppy @GreenBlaze @persistentBalsam5393 @ggoidell @RamneetKaur  @charlenedelfin @skyraven02 @sereneMuse @Astraois42 @djadee @energeticShade4362 @loyalPeach3985 @pumpkincatmother @Mokuro @drowningmermaid88 @azureCoconut2121

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Are you new to the Relationship Stress community? Introduce yourself here!

Do you want to be the first to get updates on discussions and events? Consider joining the taglist!

Do you want to be updated on the weekly discussions in the Relationship Support Room? Subscribe to this thread!

Do you want to help out in the Relationship Stress Community? Consider becoming a forum supporter or a room supporter!


Edited by KatePersephone on 16.12.24

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User Profile: Teamworktohelp
Teamworktohelp April 1st

Hey I am Shabir here. I have been struggling in my relationships so I joined this platform. Hopefully I will learn how to develop good relationships by participating here. Good to see you all. Have a wonderful day.

User Profile: Teamworktohelp
Teamworktohelp April 1st

Hello everyone! I just wanted to ask why I am a failure in relationships?

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User Profile: KatePersephone
KatePersephone April 2nd

@Teamworktohelp hi there. to receive support, please log in from a member account and create a new thread to discuss this matter :)

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User Profile: Cherylblos83
Cherylblos83 April 2nd

@ASilentObserver hi I'm cheryl just here for some support on relationship stress.  

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User Profile: ASilentObserver
ASilentObserver OP April 3rd

@Cherylblos83 Welcome to 7cups Cheryl, glad to have you here with us. What kind of relationship stress would you like to talk about?


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User Profile: Cherylblos83
Cherylblos83 April 3rd

@ASilentObserver  hi silent domestic abuse .. financial abuse and mental and verbal 

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User Profile: kamrynk1224
kamrynk1224 April 3rd

@ASilentObserver

Hi!! I feel like I have experienced a lot in my relationships and therefore am happy to help anyone who needs it!

User Profile: CallmeSeven
CallmeSeven April 8th

Hello i came here since i just went 0 contact from a relationship that only was being fight for by me and moving on was a little bit too much hard

User Profile: yesiamHuman4855
yesiamHuman4855 April 10th

Hello good people!

I am new to 7cups and learning to navigate this site.

i have been married for ~15y. It has been quite the ride!

I am a giver, so very often I have learned, sometimes the hard way, I need to set limits, because takers do not.

i am a technician, so things are very black and white to me. Often when someone e tells me their problem, I give solutions. I am learning g to hear, first, and not offer until, and if, the request is made. That is difficult for me.

peace, YesIam

User Profile: astralight
astralight April 11th

@ASilentObserver

Hello! Im new here.

I've never been in group like this. I reach for help because i know and i feel that im in a toxic relationship with nothing to expect. He is so focused with his problems that i don't exist . 

We are 2 years together and the last 8 months we also live together. It was a mutual decision to live together. I have 2 kids from my first marriage and he has 3. His kids live with their mother and they visit us quite often. I never had any issue with his kids but I've noticed that he is happy only when his kids are at home. I don't exist. I give him space with his kids . But he never seems to be happy anymore. Everything I do is never enough. My kids bother him I can see it. He is always complaining about everything. 

I don't understand. We knew that we would had problems. I didn't sign for this . 😕 We suppose to help each other. Not fight for everything. I just cry all the time and he doesn't care.

In the begging he was loving and carrying. Problem's came and everything just disappeared. I started to believe that it was a mistake to live together almost in the first month. 

He killed everything beautiful i had inside me. 



User Profile: darknight2715
darknight2715 April 11th

@ASilentObserver Hi!

User Profile: Sapphorion
Sapphorion April 13th

Hello,


I'm Sapphorion (f30) and I'm married now for 4 years to my partner (f48)... There's a huge age difference and we share her biological kids 18 and 16.


Just looking for some support...

User Profile: RoccoG
RoccoG April 20th

Hi, I’m Rocco. I’ve been married for one year and my husband told me yesterday that he wants a divorce. His reasons aren’t clear to me and the whole thing has me so confused. We’ve also just had a baby. I found 7 cups today. I don’t really have much of a support system, so I’m hoping to get some support here.