Why can't I move on?
Hi community,
So I dated this guy for a year and I was stupid in love with him. Like crazy, head over heels, stupid in love. Well, we ended up breaking up because he had major insecurity issues and even after deciding to move in together he still had major issues. He would fly off the handle and scream and shout if there wasn't more than a quarter tank of gas in the car, or if I took a wrong turn or stole all the blankets in the middle of the night. Not the healthiest dude emotionally speaking. But I have an exceptional amount of patience so I over looked all of that. Anyway, we broke up over something stupid, luckily before we moved in together, and it has been 4 months of no contact. Well he texted me out of the blue last week. He said "how are you?". That's it! Nothing further even when I responded to him and asked why he had reached out and I even told him that I'm still in love with him. I'm not a complete idiot, I know logically that I probably dodged a bullet, but I just can't get over him. I can't imagine dating anyone else and for whatever reason I wanted to marry him. I think something is wrong with me.