Blocked everywhere
I’m still in a shock that she has left me and blocked me everywhere like I don’t mean anything to her.
She emotionally abused me and I lost my self respect
Hey similar happened with me and need some to talk about it and understand female perspective
I feel so alone. I’m literally suffering. We can talk if you want, you can text me anytime
How can I text u
@healme2 I am very sorry that this happened to you.
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I hope to see you in the support rooms from time to time.
I hope things get better for you.
@healme2
well , I think you should never regret losing someone who emotionally abused you and made you feel bad aboout yourself , her loss is a win , thank god she left
I wish the ones we loved looks us the same way we loved them. If they only knew how much we loved them and suffered when they left us alone. Our lives would’ve been better
I keep checking up her profile and this feels so unhealthy to me. How do I stop it?
It’s like I’m torturing myself. I miss her a lot and my absence doesn’t even affect her. Reading my old texts really makes me sad from how beautiful our conversation and how heartlessly she texted me in the end when she’s done with me..
@healme2
oh god
that seems to be really hard on you
I'm really sorry you had to go through that , you think it's impossible to solve things ?how did things end? it sounds really bad
oh god it is heartbreaking to hear you're still struggling because of it
@healme2
I don't know how long have you been doing that ( checking her profile ) but I guess It's normal at first , we all did it 😅
but as time goes by you'll see yourself moving on , If I were you , I would make a ( fact sheet ) where I list all the bad things that happened in that relationship
or maybe use a pin and a paper and write a letter as if you were to send it to her ( but please never do it ) , express ur emotions as if she's ahead of you and just listening
and when you're done , tear the paper and get rid of it
@healme2 healme I am sorry you had to go through that, you really don't deserve to be left without an explanation like that, you deserve better than that, and I hope that over time you will come to see this
@healme2,
breakup can be tough.
Often the other person involved made the decision to break up months ago before they broke up. And you didn't see it coming.
That is tough but doesn't mean the other person didn't love you. She just decided it didn't work out and started to move on time ago.
It's life. It is tough. It's got nothing to do with you, neither with her.
Allow yourself space to process. To use this as a time to get to know yourself better. To learn. To grieve, to accept, when you are ready.