@bluelemon6419 ! Trying to talk to you and set up communication
@bluelemon6419 sorry I’m not sleeping but i found a glitch in the matrix! I’d like to continue our conversation.
I did try sleeping and have utilised methods that will kick in soon. Glad and hopeful though since stumbling on a place I’d have thought wouldn’t be permitted.
@LabeledBPD
Hey hey Holly,
I love you, just checking in to see how recovery is going for both of you? I hope feeds are improving. I'm glad it went better than expected and I hope that is the trend for you for 2025. Better than expected. I'm just here. Existing I think. I will keep you updated. My therapy resumes on monday so I will be back to doing the work, fortunately or unfortunately I don't know. I have slacked all the way off with homework so I'm waiting to see how we move forward from that. Most likely I'll cut back on cups as well then just to force myself to focus and engage without running from my thoughts so much. Be well Holly and speedy recovery to your little one.
@blueLemon6419
hey great to hear from you! Unfortunately the general anaesthetic was masking things but thankfully paracetamol has so far sufficed. Maintaining dislocations progression is the goal and well it takes more than just surgery.
Monday, you feel you slacked off? Why is that?
Do you find cups to be detrimental or hamper your progress?
When do you move? How do you think that will affect you and I guess are you looking forward to it?
Blue you clearly impact so many here but it’s not about that it’s about you and I hope you take the worthiness boost it signifies while also finding balance in what’s best for you ultimately x
@LabeledBPD
I am relieved to hear paracetamol helped. How is recovery going? What is wound care like up there does someone come to help or do you go back to them every few days? How are the feeds going? Sorry if too many questions only answer what you are comfortable answering. I hope he is healing well.
In terms of mondays I did next to no homework over the break but today was ok. It wasn't a big dressing down like I expected and we really got into coping skills for difficult emotions and how Im avoiding things. All I can do at this point is get back up and keep trying.
Do you find cups to be detrimental or hamper your progress? In a way yes. I'm really happy I met you on here but I know being here isnt the healthiest for me. We talked about that to and I have a plan for replacing some of my time here with something else so we will see.
When do you move? In just over 3 weeks, we paid the first month and security deposit already. We discussed whose name which utilities will be in and its looking up if a bit overwhelming. I don't feel ready but I figure no one ever does. And its not just the emotional stuff, its all the practical things that need taking care of too. I need to get a washer because it comes with it's own laundry room but it's completely unfurnished and where I am now already has one. So we are going to link up this week and look for somethings. Most likely Im going to wash by my Mum until I we can get our own. I like my space but living with someone is probably healthier right now instead of hiding away all the time.
How are you feeling? (Work and proposed travel and sibling relations)
Holly I really appreciate you and thank you for everything and always always supporting me. I figured out another glitch so check your tags. I'll listen out for you💛
@blueLemon6419
hey so great to hear from you!
wound care, ha, even the nurse found it comically idiotic. Two waterproof bandages 20% within the nappy location. Told to keep dry?? Hmm? Kid don’t urinate for 2weeks! It’s impossible. So when pointing it out I was given more replacements. I’ve changed it already as it has withstood somewhat…small incisions?!? Huh… no… not quite.
His not crossing his legs and is tolerating cushions keeping them apart which is great. Feeds all go down a tube that permanently installed in his stomach so tolerating is all that’s required and his doing well. The professor did point out his missing a testicular ball… she was cutting so close on both legs and she’s right, idk when it must have retracted back inside, but it’s not come back and we’ll just another problem to a already big list. Anyways his smiling and seems content, I ask for no more.
im glad Monday went well with full understanding and care on the therapists part. Correct me if I am wrong but it seems that you are making progress identifying what you may not have been aware of? Unhealthy coping strategies and working on healthy ones suggests progress to me.
How are you feeling about how therapy is going overall?
moving is a big deal especially when wise and you take into consideration the more mundane but ever more important day to day aspect without just riding the adrenaline and enjoyment of moving in with a friend.
Do you think having your friend for company will help when outweighed with the loss of things like washing clothes and everything else?
it’s responsibility, and could how either way. I trust you have chosen good friends so am very happy and hopeful for you.
New glitch? I’m a tad slow on the uptake sometimes and am still yet to see it but trust I am looking out for it. Those notifications multiply without doing anything so I really hope it doesn’t get lost in the ether. Will say hi soon as i figure it out x
