@bluelemon6419 ! Trying to talk to you and set up communication
@bluelemon6419 sorry I’m not sleeping but i found a glitch in the matrix! I’d like to continue our conversation.
I did try sleeping and have utilised methods that will kick in soon. Glad and hopeful though since stumbling on a place I’d have thought wouldn’t be permitted.
@LabeledBPD
Hey hey Holly,
I love you, just checking in to see how recovery is going for both of you? I hope feeds are improving. I'm glad it went better than expected and I hope that is the trend for you for 2025. Better than expected. I'm just here. Existing I think. I will keep you updated. My therapy resumes on monday so I will be back to doing the work, fortunately or unfortunately I don't know. I have slacked all the way off with homework so I'm waiting to see how we move forward from that. Most likely I'll cut back on cups as well then just to force myself to focus and engage without running from my thoughts so much. Be well Holly and speedy recovery to your little one.
@blueLemon6419
hey great to hear from you! Unfortunately the general anaesthetic was masking things but thankfully paracetamol has so far sufficed. Maintaining dislocations progression is the goal and well it takes more than just surgery.
Monday, you feel you slacked off? Why is that?
Do you find cups to be detrimental or hamper your progress?
When do you move? How do you think that will affect you and I guess are you looking forward to it?
Blue you clearly impact so many here but it’s not about that it’s about you and I hope you take the worthiness boost it signifies while also finding balance in what’s best for you ultimately x
@LabeledBPD
I am relieved to hear paracetamol helped. How is recovery going? What is wound care like up there does someone come to help or do you go back to them every few days? How are the feeds going? Sorry if too many questions only answer what you are comfortable answering. I hope he is healing well.
In terms of mondays I did next to no homework over the break but today was ok. It wasn't a big dressing down like I expected and we really got into coping skills for difficult emotions and how Im avoiding things. All I can do at this point is get back up and keep trying.
Do you find cups to be detrimental or hamper your progress? In a way yes. I'm really happy I met you on here but I know being here isnt the healthiest for me. We talked about that to and I have a plan for replacing some of my time here with something else so we will see.
When do you move? In just over 3 weeks, we paid the first month and security deposit already. We discussed whose name which utilities will be in and its looking up if a bit overwhelming. I don't feel ready but I figure no one ever does. And its not just the emotional stuff, its all the practical things that need taking care of too. I need to get a washer because it comes with it's own laundry room but it's completely unfurnished and where I am now already has one. So we are going to link up this week and look for somethings. Most likely Im going to wash by my Mum until I we can get our own. I like my space but living with someone is probably healthier right now instead of hiding away all the time.
How are you feeling? (Work and proposed travel and sibling relations)
Holly I really appreciate you and thank you for everything and always always supporting me. I figured out another glitch so check your tags. I'll listen out for you💛