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amiableBunny4016 November 20th, 2022

Hi everyone,

Im gonna be posting here every week. So.. you may or may not have seen my poems across 7cups or my writing. Anyways, if you have not then thats okay.

Let me introduce myself. You can call me Bunny/Violet/Bun Bun. I am from the UK and I am 13 years old. So I came here to inspire, to love, to show kindness and to be respected. The biggest power on this planet is love and kindness. Humanity is in a state of disaster. Panic. Hatred. But hate never beats love. Because love has more power than hate.

I was bullied for over 6 years. I learnt alot across the years. I learnt to overcome. Learnt to love. Learnt to forgive. I am human. I am not a robot. I am not a stranger anymore. I am me. And if people wanna judge me for who I am then I say.... I forgive them. And I know that they can change.

Like Martin Luther King once said, “Returning hate for hate multiplies hate, adding deeper darkness to a night already devoid of stars. Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate, only love can do that.”

Humanity is changing. The world is awakening. And more and more people are realising the reality. The reality of social media. The reality of trauma. The reality of life. This is who we are. And together we form as 1.

We live in a big world. Scary. Isn't it? But its to beautiful. Its so beautiful how the sun rises. How then stars glimmer every night. How the wind howls. Isn't it? and we dont realise how beautiful it really is until..... we think about it. Think deeply about it and you will find how beautiful it is.

If your feeling alone right now. just know that.....

Your strong. Even if you dont believe it.

Your worthy. Even if you dont believe it.

You can get through this.

I am here for you.

We are here for you.


Thanks for reading, This is me, Bunny and this is my world.

Take care,

Bunny

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amiableBunny4016 OP January 18th, 2023

Hey friends,

Hope you all are doing brilliantly. There are some delays in my post but I have some free time to post something today hehe. Feel free to comment, heart and share messages! Whatever you feel comfy doing!❤️If you are struggling, please reach out to someone. You deserve support and love! ❤️

❤️ Today's post is reflection about my time on 7cups and outside of 7cups ❤️ ❤️ ___________________________________________________________________________

My message in today's world is only one single message:

Just be kind. Be kind to yourself and the people around you. Everyone is fighting a harder battle.

In the past few months of being a member of 7cups and throughout my life I have had lots of people say kind, beautiful words to me and it makes me so happy and loved. And I am immensely grateful to a lot of people here and outside of 7cups! Over the years, many people wonder about how I write my forum threads (I will be posting about my format and how I write inspirational stuff soon) and many people have made beautiful comments over the months and years.❤️


This is why I always try to show kindness back to these people, whether it be through filling in the Peer Appreciation Form, just sending them a message or simply tagging someone through the wonderful technology we have today! ❤️ Today's world is filled with wonders and beauty. Once we truly find our purpose and our dreams we find hope and light. But when something cracks us down or breaks us we melt down and everything goes all over the place and we just want to scream and cry.

I truly understand that everyone struggles and that everyone is fighting a battle of their own. This is why I try to respond to people as soon as I can so that everyone feels welcome and happy in here. Not only in here but everywhere. ❤️

Over a very long period, I was struggling to find myself. I was in blurred lines between the outside world and me as a human being. I was almost stuck into my thoughts. But writing here has almost been part of what people call my "Healing journey". The scars and the bruises and the fighting was all worth it. Because all that I fought for in my life has made me who I am today. And its beautiful how we change so easily.❤️

*next part coming*

amiableBunny4016 OP January 18th, 2023

The next few paragraphs may be triggering to some. Trigger warning: bullying, crisis, lonliness

Despite all these positive and mindful occurrences, I have found myself in quite a struggle as well. And its completely okay to struggle no matter who you are. Recently across the school, I have been bullied, picked on, laughed at, made fun of, and attacked. It hurt me so much once I come back home from school I almost end up in a crisis.❤️

It's hard to find ourselves or to love ourselves when everyone keeps telling us that we are weak or something we just don't wanna be told. But even then, I have told to you all 10000 times, that I have forgiven my bullies and the people who hurt me. Because everyone deserves a chance. People change. So to give them chances even when they don't apologise to me is almost a way of forgiving myself too. This is also part of the reason I have not been posting because there is so much name-calling and hurt I don't find the motivation to do things. But the only thing that matters to me now is that I'm struggling and I need support and I am doing my very best. And thats all that matters to me right now. ❤️

I really hope this gives a good summary to you all and its good to reflect upon different things we wanna talk about!

Feel free to leave a reflection by replying to this thread.

Bunny



amiableBunny4016 OP January 18th, 2023

trigger warning: abuse, lonliness....

Anyone who was in teen support room today, i dont know if your reading this but:

I am sorry. I am sorry if I triggered anything or anyone. I am sorry if I am just a crap person that keeps letting my pain out. I am sorry for the fact that I am so sensitive and such a useless person. I am sorry for the fact that everything I say doesn't help. I am sorry that I messed up. I am sorry I live with abusive people and I cant get rid of it. I am sorry that my mess cant be fixed. I am sorry that you all thought i was in a crisis but I wasnt. I am sorry everyone hates me. I am sorry. Sorry for every word and action and thought and feeling. I am sorry i feel this way just because I do. I am sorry it was all just a huge mistake I made. I am sorry


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JustMeUwU January 18th, 2023

@amiableBunny4016 you are not useless Bunny. You don’t have to apologize for letting your pain out, you don’t have to carry your *** alone. There is nothing wrong with being sensitive. Some people don’t value other people and the problem is not you, it’s them. You are allowed to be yourself.

I don’t pretend I know everything you’re going through but you are not alone. You deserve good things even if you don’t believe it. I hope one day you can see all this.
Love and hugs (if accepted of cause)
-Just
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amiableBunny4016 OP January 19th, 2023

Every Flower is beautiful . But some flowers have hidden thorns. That's What causes hurt and scars. That's What fills out Heart with hatred. The art of hate is simple If you Hate you hate. If you love You love. That choice is Only yours .

Bunny

amiableBunny4016 OP January 20th, 2023

Another one of those dark bleak days with a tiny ray of sunshine :/

tw:/ i want to be gone

bunny


amiableBunny4016 OP January 20th, 2023

Heya all,

I wrote something today that I wanted to share so I hope y'all enjoy it.

Nighttime

When the darkness fills the sky. When the moon glistens in the distance...And the stars loom and shine hanging in the sky trying to fill the gaps and wonders of life with their beautiful light. Like little dots in the sky. We almost forget our existence. Forget our wonders and dreams. Forget everything around us. Everything in the world just goes so quickly. We forget everything. And just remember all the bad damn stuff. The trauma. The hurt. The stress. That's all that goes through our minds. Every time we close our eyes, or pull the blankets over our heads and cry in the night when no one can hear us. Silence falls. When the intrusive thoughts keep hurting our brain and we can't figure out what we should do or when the light will ever come again. Or when we will ever feel again. When we feel like no one or nothing.

But the sun does rise every day. Right? I have come to depend on that

Whoever you are. Girl or boy. Teenager or not. Whether you are someone I don't or do know. I just want you to know one thing, is that you are loved and you are beautiful and I want you to believe that. Every time these words come out I write these words with tears in my eyes honestly. Because the deep darkness of the world keeps looming over you and me, I just want to be able to see us smile and hug each other. I want to tell you that the sun will rise again and darkness will fall. And we will be together again. Together. Again. We will hold each others hands. We wont let anyone fall. We will cry through the bad times and we will smile and laugh in the good times. We will be there together. Maybe one day...

Just one day, Humanity can get together and do that. Just do it together.

People have known me as @amiableBunny4016 for the past few months, but I am no longer just a username and a few numbers. I am much more than that. I am a human who lives with beautiful words and inspiration every day. I am a person who wants to make a difference and conquer and fight the world no matter what it throws at me. I am me. And so are you, you are more than just the food you eat and your clothing and your username. You are you. And that's why I am proud of you.

Bunny



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mytwistedsoul December 30th, 2023

@amiableBunny4016 

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amiableBunny4016 OP December 30th, 2023

@mytwistedsoul

Reading through this post I had written makes me want to giggle 🤭 so cringy. Hehe. Thank you soul. Your kindness means so much to me! 

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mytwistedsoul December 30th, 2023

@amiableBunny4016 💙💙 I'll probably make you giggle and cringe more as I make my way through. You're amazing Bunny. I know you probably don't see it - but you have some really beautiful thoughts 💙💙

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amiableBunny4016 OP December 30th, 2023

@mytwistedsoul

Notice how positive and joyful I act at the start of this thread 😭 this was me attention seeking. I remember telling myself if I posted positive things people would like me. 13 year old me 😭😭😭

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amiableBunny4016 OP January 20th, 2023

Since a very young age my dream was the become an inspirational speaker. I always had a passion for writing and speaking. My voice was too quiet in the huge world. No one heard my voice. So I am using this place to speak...... Speak from typing. Speak from using the digital world. No one believes us in the digital world. Some people just assume I "just say these things". Because the digital world is harsh. It's hard to trust me or anyone else here. I know you won't believe me when I say I care. Seems like my dream has already came true. I think I have already accomplished enough to inspire. Its just a matter of "keep going". Lets see what the future ahead brings us........

Bunny

amiableBunny4016 OP January 21st, 2023

Dear Person reading this,

I am so proud of you for coming this far. Keep going! Lots more adventures are coming!

Bunny

amiableBunny4016 OP January 21st, 2023

Heyaaaa, heyloooo,

How you doingggg? ee.. I love posting here ehehe. This is like my little comfort zone where no one is gonna judge me. *huggles if ok* Aaa... Soooo.... I have been doing quite alot of stuff lately. Thinking of leadership roles on 7cups but im scared of failure which is quite normal. Dealing with some leadership stuff at school because my campaigning never ends lolllll! And just getting on with life really. Having my ups and downs . Hehe.

I am a bit all over the place today. My mind wants to say a lot of things loll.

Soooo.... From being on 7cups for quite a while I have realised......

That everything I wrote was just a huge blob of writing. You see.... I have been quite obsessed over this sort of stuff... But how do I really write my magical stuff. Well, I am just gonna share a bit of my inspirational writing journey with you and how I write my poems and the amazing things I wrote here lolll. Okay, the reason I am doing this post today is not to act cool or anything> i just want you all to know what my process is like. *Tries to be nice to self* My other side is not being nice to me but I am gonna try to ignore that side. Hehehe. I am in a very happy mood today #moodswings #happycrying #buddiesfriendspeople hehe. I don't know what I'm saying to be honest. Just being the happy, weird self I have always been.

Usually I do first drafts elsewhere. But sometimes I just cut right to 7cups and start writing lol.

Anyways.... lets get to the main topic here. So how do I write so magically? lol. Well it actually takes quite a while to find something or a topic. So most of the inspirational stuff I write in this corner is mostly just words that come into my mind. When I actually first started writing this sort of thing, I actually did not do quite well. I was never actually quite good with words or vocabulary. But this was just a process of learning. you know....

*Remember, everyone is different. Do not critisize yourself for writing or how it goes. We do not all have the same style. Your style is unique just the way it is. This took me years.... to get used to. You can doo thiss!*

Usually, when I write inspirational things. I often start to think about tough points in my life. Or "turning points" that made me realise something. Let's take this example:

Let's say..... The time when I was hurt my lots of words people kept saying to me.

(Now we have to figure out a message or something to bring this topic into the post)

So lets say the message. would be...... "Be kind" or something like that. Or lets make a better society together by showing love and kindness together.

I think its good to bullet point a few ideas and messages you can spread about 1 small thing.

After that, its just a matter of putting it together. And writing the whole thing. This is when people tend to struggle. I understand that because thats exactly me. I struggle too. I think a good idea is to have a look at other people's writing and to get inspired by other people's work. I would defo use some quotes from famous people since these sort of things grab readers attention.

Lets have a look at an example post:

Sooo... a good idea is to start with an introduction just saying hi or to let them know how you feeling.

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*next part is coming for this post . Long post is not allowing me hehe*



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Sunisshiningandsoareyou January 21st, 2023

@amiableBunny4016

Aww if weird equates to being you, then be the best *you*, you can be! Bunny deserves to have some unfiltered space, and be happy self! Yay to shushing the not-so nice side of you, sometimes that side is not even ours ya know? It's what the world has told us about ourselves, as we start internalizing this voice, it grows, and continues to grow, slowly making it feel like it's ours or that it's us who feels this way about ourselves. Which isn't always true and doesn't have to be.

I'm super proud of you for taking the steering in your hand, bun bun, you get to decide where to drive and how, yes, the these voices and the rest of the world be a passenger, not the driver; that'll always be you!

And woohoo for sharing your wonderful tips, you're allowed to sound cool lol. ❤

Peeking for another post! :P

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amiableBunny4016 OP January 21st, 2023

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou,

Aaaa Sun buddy, i missed you sooo much. I love your little replies you amazing human. THank you for making my day. Yayy. #Weirdpeopleclub. hehe. Thank you so much Sun. I really appreciate your support. Your posts are amazinggg too!

Eee... aaa.... *sends huggles if ok*

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I used to love My little pony hehe.

Bunny

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amiableBunny4016 OP January 21st, 2023

Okay sometimes i start with a few positive quotes or I just get right into it. Use quotes that are related to the topic is a good idea. This is one of the images i used in that post.

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After that we just start writing... Now the problem is some people write and delete write and delete. I do that too. Its just not good. No matter how long the post is, every word matters. And your writing is good just the way it is.

I am gonna use a piece of writing from a different post hehe.

Here are some examples of pieces of writing:

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Some of these images arent quiet clear but you all have read most of my posts.

Here are some tips to get you started:

Start with small interesting quotes or use short snappy sharp sentences like "We humans are like glass.." or something interesting.

Explain your own experiences is a good idea but yeah of course you dont have to.

Write whatever comes in your head.... Dont worry about perfectionism. As long as its related to the topic.

Try to use sources from elsewhere. Like watching videos is really useful for me for new ideas.

And yeah. I dont have much to say really. Writing process takes time. and No one is perfect. Just try your best and thats what matters.

Anyways.. thanks for reading.

Have a good day/eve

Bunny