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Looking for Health Buddies!

beneaththepines September 18th, 2017

I weigh 265 lbs at the moment, and I am actively trying to change my lifestyle for the better. I've already lost 20 lbs in the last four months. I'm looking for friends to share in this journey with. I want to eat healthier and begin exercising. I believe having friends for accountability, support, and motivation is a key factor in a successful journey of any kind.

Let me know if you want to be buddies! Accountabilibuddies. :)

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bubbleCat8701 October 24th, 2017

@beneaththepines

It seems like a long time has elapsed since you posted your request... How has it bee going since ?

I am new to 7 cups and I do not know how the buddies system works. I also have eating and exersice habits to improve myself...

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LoveOfJesus November 21st, 2017

@bubbleCat8701

hi bubbleCat8701 and thanks for your post!

could you tell me more about the eating and exersice habits you want to improve upon...

it's joy that's our strength! ^^ :)

angel

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LoveOfJesus November 21st, 2017

@beneaththepines

hi beneaththepines and thanks for your post!

sure, it would be great for us to be accountabilibuddies!

it's joy that's our strength! ^^ :)

angel

Lexloveslife November 23rd, 2017

I would love to have a health buddy too if anyone's interested in taking me on ahah. I'm a very picky eater and love to exercise but I haven't done so since July and it's November... as much as I'd ove to blame college I think I've just gotten lazy and unmotivated. Depression kicked me in the face harder than it ever has before.

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LoveOfJesus November 23rd, 2017

@Lexloveslife

hi Lex, I'm ever so glad you love life, me too :)

sure, we can be health buddies, can you tell me a little more about your health situation, like what foods are you picky about?

I'm looking forward to hearing from you :)

take care and stay healthy always

angel

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Lexloveslife November 23rd, 2017

@LoveOfJesus

Hi! Thanks for offering to be my buddy! I'm picky about everything. I worry about calories constantly and today, I binged at thanksgiving dinner and dessert. Now I feel disgusted with myself and sick to my stomach. I have no idea how many calories were in the foods I ate and I'm disappointed that I just lost control like that. I was doing well, had 2 servings veggies, a serving of turkey, a slice of tofurkey, a half slice of cornbread. And then dessert came... and it was goodbye healthy eating. Literally had two or more servings of chocolate pecan pie, pumpkin pie, and homemade banana pudding. Almost every day I try to only eat foods I know the calories in. If I don't know, it usually doesn't pass my lips.

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LoveOfJesus November 24th, 2017

@Lexloveslife

Hi! You are ever so welcome! Wow! I see you had quite a feast! I'm also a lover of chocolate pecan pie, pumpkin pie, and homemade banana pudding, so I know the feeling! Your type of slimming diet resembles that of Weight Watchers, always weighing everything and counting all the calories, at least it's good for improving your maths! My type of slimming diet is not just for slimming, it's just a healthy way of eating, and it's called "Fit for Life". What I like about this is that you don't have to weigh anything or do any counting of any calories at all! It's all based on good digestion, by avoiding mixing food together which isn't well combined for good digestion. For example, proteins don't go well together with starch (carbohydrates), so I eat them separately, allowing sufficient time (3-4 hours, depending on the food type), for good digestion, between the two. Have you ever heard of that way of eating?

angel

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Lexloveslife November 24th, 2017

@LoveOfJesus

Yes, I've heard of it. I'm very iffy about it because if the human stomach was not able to digest food combinations together, we would always feel sick. When I eat a salad with protein such as turkey, this simply isn't the case. I feel great afterwards and my digestion does not seem to suffer from the combination. I just don't agree with or believe in the idea that keeping food groups separate is the key to good digestion.

All my life I've been taught in school that a well-rounded meal includes foods from the major groups: veggies, fruit, dairy, and protein. Though, for those with intolerances, separation may be needed. And I don't mean the health trends, like going gluten free, for example... most people aren't actually intolerant & suffering from Celiac disease; they're just following a trend because they THINK they are. Willing to bet most haven't even been diagnosed professionally. Gluten free doesn't mean healthier and some gluten free foods are higher in calories, which could lead to eventual weight gain. I digress...

anyways, thank you for getting back to me. I don't think separating my food groups from each other will be beneficial for me. I'm sorry I went off on a tangent there.

Lexloveslife November 24th, 2017

@LoveOfJesus

Also, I realize you said starch and protein don't mix, but I seem to be fine after eating the two together. It's foods that are high in refined sugar and fat that don't sit well with me, especially when I eat a lot at once after a long period of not eating them at all. Shock to the system, I guess.

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LoveOfJesus November 25th, 2017

@Lexloveslife

Thanks for your two messages, Lex! It's good that you've heard of this way of eating. When you say that when you eat a salad with protein such as turkey, you don't feel sick, that's because salad can be combined with everything, except with fruit, just as green vegetables can also be combined with everything, again except with fruit. Then you can combine all starch (carbohydrates) together. With protein, it's a little different, as there are four different protein groups which shouldn't be combined together, but as meat, poultry and fish are all part of the same protein group, these can be combined together.

I understand how you feel about this way of eating, but it has been clinically proven by nutritionists and dieticians all over the world, for the plain and simple reason that it's just a question of basic body chemistry.

Here's an article, in which I wrote about this, for the 7 Cups Forum, when I first joined 7 Cups:

How can I maintain a healthy body weight?

The "Fit 4 Life" diet is not only 4 slimming, it's also 4 those who need 2 gain body weight.

The main priniciple is simple: "avoid mixing starch with proteins". Why? Because, if u do, u'll have 18 hours of indigestion! The reason is, ur stomach secretes different digestive gastric fluids 4 both, 1 acidic, the other alkaline (a base).

Now, when these 2 fluids mix 2gether, any1 who's studied even basic chemistry knows what pH value that gives u . . . yes, pH 7, which is completely neutral, just like water, which won't digest a thing!

So, the badly combined food ends up stagnating in ur stomach, just rotting there, making u feel rotten 2, whilst the body desperately pumps more mixed fluids all the time, making u feel totally exhausted, from doing nothing!

Finally, after 18 hours of horrible indigestion, the body just throws it's arms up in despair and simply gives up altogether, expelling from the body all the badly digested waste products, together with all the good elements the body wasn't able 2 digest and absorb, whilst at the same time, all the bad stuff, like bad cholesterol, etc., instead of being properly broken down and disposed of, ends up as unwanted excess fat in the most unsightly places!

I don't know what you think of my forum article. But if you don't think separating your food groups from each other will be beneficial for you, then that's fine, there are lots of different ways of losing weight and staying healthy, some methods work better for some, and others work better for others. Just as you say, you seem to be fine after eating the two together (protein and starch), and you also say that it's foods that are high in refined sugar and fat that don't sit well with you. I can just say this method of eating works well for me, and I've already lost 50 kilos, three times, from 120 kilos down to 70 kilos, but as soon as I stop eating this way, and I no longer properly combine my food, I put the weight on again! ^^
angel

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Rebekahwriter13 December 5th, 2017

I'm 5ft 270. I'm seeking a health buddy. I'm 34 (I'm 35 in a week.)
I'm seeking a health partner.

However I have many issues that fight me losing weigh.
Endometriosis hyperplasia (hormonal imbalance) this causes anemia
I have sleep apnea vs insomnia
Diabetes (but I get dizzy, weak, tired, no focus if I get blood sugar under 100)
I can't breathe in cold weather (called winter asthma making it hard to exercise living in ohio)
I also have depression, anxiety, and ptsd.

I'm hoping to get indoor plan (sit ups, push up, jump exercises, etc)
I try to eat well, but due health it's been impossible to find work.

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LoveOfJesus December 6th, 2017

@Rebekahwriter13

hi Rebekahwriter13,

we can be health buddies, if you like :)

have you read my post just above your post?

angel

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Booklover95 December 20th, 2017

So interesting! If anyone here is still interested I can be your health buddie!

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LoveOfJesus December 22nd, 2017

@Booklover95

sure, that would be great, Booklover95, I'd love to be your health buddie! ^^

angel

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Zulegirl April 1st, 2019

@beneaththepines.

Hi!!! I am strugglining and would like to be a health buddy. More like a workout motivation buddy..I am open to talk about anything. Reply or message me