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Guidelines: Age Regression in Rooms

Heather225 September 18th, 2023

As our platform evolves, we occasionally need to revisit our guidelines and make adjustments for the sake of our community as a whole. The topic of age regression and age as it relates to alters has posed some challenges within group support rooms, impacting both moderation efforts and the ability to facilitate supportive and inclusive conversations within the rooms. To address this, we are implementing the following rule, in line with our age policy:

All members must have a host age and current alter age that falls within the established age requirements for participation on 7 Cups.

Teen hosts need to be between 13-17 and alters need to also be between 13-17.

If a teen has an alter or age regression that is out of that range (13-17), that alter or age regression cannot be (participate) on the site. This is because there have been repeated conversations about how alters and regressors are considered individuals, and so the site guidelines need to apply to them too.

Adult hosts need to be 18+ and so do their alters/regressors.

Main reasons for this rule:

Safety: Ensuring that members and their alters/regressors are within the specified age range helps protect individuals from exposure to age-inappropriate content and interactions.

Support Capabilities: Our volunteers may not have the training or expertise to effectively support members who present as children. Sticking to the age guidelines ensures that our support remains within the scope of our capabilities.

We understand that these are coping methods beyond the control of the individual. Still, ultimately we feel these limits are necessary to maintain a safe and supportive environment for as many members as possible in the group spaces. Note: These rules apply to interactions in the group rooms and anyone not in the correct age group. You may continue to utilize the support of 1:1 chats.

For further DID support, there is a dedicated forum space to share and make connections with members and listeners under Dissociation & Related Disorders.
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Update September 30Co-fronting (when users with DID have two of their alters "on" at the same time) is the equivalent of two people using the same account and is prohibited in rooms.


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TheSpiderSystem October 19th, 2023

some of our alters are cgs to littles and it feels wrong to just abandon them especially if they're friends and being in the dms is NOT a safe space for littles considering many reports of inappropriate conversations sure they can report and block but they will do it again and again to others making it easier and safer to regress in groups where a mod is present in case someone is being inappropriate 

and an idea how about littles can't be let into support room and only in tcr until they're in the right mindset. Not everyone needs support all the time some people just need friends to be around and laugh with to help cope stripping them of this ability is like taking away their coping mechanism age regression isnt something most people can control along with switching alters in a system it's just disgusting that the mods would try to enfource this rule that limits people.

Along with this it's extremly dissrespectful to single out people with DID who have many alters that age regress and have friends in the groups now not being allowed in again. This is honestly just disgusting as I've said before.

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SmollPeridotsBreakdown October 19th, 2023

@EchoTheDragon

100% agree

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TheSpiderSystem October 25th, 2023

the fact that members who aren't sober can participate but age regression a COPING MECHANISM is banned thats just wrong

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LoveMyMoonflowers October 25th, 2023

@EchoTheDragon

Fr 

WendyBird14 October 25th, 2023

@EchoTheDragon

I didn't even think about that, but yeah that's insane.. 

AvyIsKing October 25th, 2023

Preach brother 

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HopieRemi May 13th

@Heather225 I am wondering if by chance we could discuss the potential of a badge locked room for Littles and offer specialized training on the topic. @Asilentobserver so that individuals who front as little can support each other and find similar people.

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WendyBird14 May 13th

@HopieRemi

Love that idea, we have been asking for this for years unfortunately without success:(

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HopieRemi May 13th

@WendyBird14

It would be amazing. I know it won't happen tonight or any time soon, but hopefully one day.

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mytwistedsoul May 14th

@HopieRemi I like this idea too tbh 

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HopieRemi May 13th

Hey to anyone subscribed to this thread. I am looking for feedback on how you want to be supported in your chats. You can go to the thread here to tell me!