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CoVID-19 Support Room- Update

ASilentObserver March 22nd, 2020

Hello Community, I hope you are doing well.

As I wrote in my earlier post "7Cups Support & CoVid-19" to join hands and support each other in this challenging time.
We opening CoVID-19 Support Room w.e.f March 22, 2020. The room will be dedicated to supporting anyone and everyone facing a tough time due to the CoVID-19 outbreak.


Some DOs and DON'Ts to keep in mind -
Dos:

  • Everyone is welcome to share their stories and experiences
  • Validating and respecting everyone's situation as a fellow user
  • Respecting general chat room rules

Don'ts:

  • Passive political and religious statements. Also no racial or discriminating comments
  • Sharing wrong statistics and information which is not valid
  • Advising others
  • Forcing others to follow any specific rule/guideline related to quarantine and precautions regarding CoVID-19 prevention
  • Blame

Also, all support sessions related to CoVID-19 will be hosted in the CoVID-19 Support room.
To ensure you get the right information about it, stay tuned with cdc.gov for the most current updates and information. Also more information available from Johns Hopkins Medicine & University at Johns Hopkins Coronavirus Resource Center
You are not alone and none should be. We all are here with each other. Let's work together to get through this challenge.


Keeping you updated

We are extraordinary together!! Please stay safe, healthy and support each other.


A few posts you might want to check-

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amusingSea2728 March 22nd, 2020

@ASilentObserver

I hate how the media is all doom and gloom. I cannot find about who recovers, good deeds, anything like that except for like the last 30 seconds on local news. We need more like that. I'm trying to block myself from the media but it's there. I try to go into my meme and fandom groups and the bad news is in the feed. I just want this to go away and go back to normal

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helpfulEast3953 March 22nd, 2020

@amusingSea2728 completely agreed, I woke up to news notifications saying how may people were dying each hour, and people taking advantage of those in need. It's frustrating, but once I went outside I saw families outside and walking together, spending time with one another, so that canceled out a good chunk of the bad that the media focuses on in my book!

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JagVinDee March 23rd, 2020

I can't shake the overwhelming feeling of dread and anxiety about this. I'm really having a hard time controlling my emotions about it. This is the third I'm time I've cried today and I'm having trouble sleeping. I'm so scared. Keep trying to rationalize my way out of the emotions. This just is so terrifying. It's the bigness of it and all the unknowns.

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gentleAcres1520 March 23rd, 2020

@JagVinDee i totally empathise with this, it feels like reality is closing in and everything is so overwhelming. nothing is certain and it feels like an apocalyptic movie.

HenrietteK March 23rd, 2020

@JagVinDee I totally agree with you and I share your feelings so much. I keep crying about this too... it's just so much to handle I keep minimizing it but then it keeps coming back to me and I just find myself crying again. And I have anxiety and I'm so afraid for my mom and each person I know who's at risk and who I care for :( I am really really scared and really really sad about all this.

Tessme March 24th, 2020

@JagVinDee it's overwhelming isn't it? I too am feeling my anxiety ramp up and am having trouble sleeping. I'm trying to look after myself but really struggling not to overthink everything. Try to be kind to yourself heart

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resourcefulOcean7882 March 23rd, 2020

I dunno if I want to be comforted or comfort others :( very scary situation. May God have mercy on us. Please text me if you wanna chat 🤗 I'll be happy

mandabella March 23rd, 2020

Im of course, in quarantine. Its hard, my anxiety is so high Im actually finding myself contemplating if its anxiety or me dying a lot more than usual. I feel trapped and like Ive lost all control. Being stuck is a lot worse than the fear Of getting Covid-19. I need people to distract me and cheer me up. Being alone is scary because I can only think, theres nothing and no one to help me. Im scared of losing my mind, my chest is always hurting and my jaw and neck are so tense, my stomach is all woozy and I feel like Im 13 again. All my process and all my good has been thrown away in a matte of seconds. I just feel so out of control, lost and trapped. Anyone else?

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kindLake1485 March 23rd, 2020

@mandabella I am so glad I am not the only one who feels this way. It is a very rough time and I know we all can get through this but I just wanna be out in the world seeing my people. Ever since covid-19 was discovered all of my friends stop talking to me and reaching out to me and I feot like i was going insane. I can't see my boyfriend and my anxiety keeps making me think he is going to leave me. I can barely sleep. I always have nightmares about the zombie apocalypse and my brain makes me wonder if this virus is what my dream was "talking" about. I just wish everything would go back to normal.

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infinitas March 23rd, 2020

@ASilentObserver

Great work Obs and 7 cups team. We really needed a room to vent about this global pandemic and the difficulties being in quarantine! Previously members were not allowed to talk about it freely in other rooms and were given mutes and warnings for the same, which was really suppressing and distressing during such anxious times.

Glad you took all the feedback and considered users needs in these hard times and made sure their worries are heard!

averagejoe5 March 23rd, 2020

Hello my dear 7cups usee family.

I totally understand the level of panic and anxiety which probably everyone one of us are going through. I won't sermonize anything. All I wanna say or rather humbly request is that all of you and I must abide by the guidelines/directives of the respective governments. Perhaps for this once, unity is not our strength.

Just try to see the better side of things.

Keep yourself updated but there's no need to delve deep into the details.

Music and sitcoms might just come in handy as detachment and distraction.

GOD BLESS US ALL. THIS TOO SHALL PASS.

Jaeteuk March 23rd, 2020

Out of curiosity, is it possible to make a support group for Healthcare workers?~

@ASilentObserver

decisiveTalker8434 March 23rd, 2020

I'm just finding it all so, so difficult. I'm just recently recovering from a really difficult time with my mental health (or at least thought I was recovering). I quit my previous job with the intention of finding new work as a receptionist as my old role was just too stressful for me to be able to deal with what with my really ill mental health, and I was just starting to feel like I was healing from the breakup of an almost 8 year relationship to someone I was engaged to. I had my plan, I was going to the gym, jogging, exercising lots, and now I'm housebound, terrified, can barely get out of bed, crying all the time. Everything in the world just seems so awful and sad. So many people are dying and I know I am so lucky, but without being able to go out and see my therapy friends and go the gym and use those coping mechanisms I'd built up I am just slipping further and further back down the rabbit hole, and the self harm and suicidal urges are just getting stronger and stronger again when I thought I had just got them under control. I have no idea how I am going to do this for the next however many months 😭

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HenrietteK March 24th, 2020

@decisiveTalker8434 Hey there :) Thanks for having the strength to share all this with us. I hope you find new ways of coping and take it as slowly as necessary (one day at a time, one hour at a time, one minute at a time :) ). This too shall pass, even if it sucks big time and it means (yet again) to adapt. Adapting is tiring. My sister told me something smart the other day, she said start a task and finish it and mark it as done. I liked this idea, that's what I do to stay sane now. Hope you can find solace. I'm stuck at home and feel like crying too now that I've written this... Lots of love to you.

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Tinglytoes March 23rd, 2020

I am so worried about all of this COVID-19 stuff, I have a compromised immune system and worry about my health to begin with. To top it my mom has stage 4 COPD and I can't see her.

Life feels so surreal and I just feel like crying all the time.

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Akul March 24th, 2020

@Tinglytoes

I hope your mother will get better!!!

i've got also a compromised imune system because of injections i have to give myself to control my disease.

it's a scary thing going on, i hope you can vent and talk to someone, on skype, or within your family... feeling supported is important in these days

wish you the best

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Tinglytoes March 24th, 2020

@Akul

Thank you for your kind words, I have come to accept that she will soon leave us but with this plague going on it makes it more unsettling.

I'm sorry that you go through a compromised immune system too, it can be pretty stressful at times.

I had the option to do home infusions çalled sub-q, but the way they have always done it works so why fix it.

I hope you are well during all this!

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Miau5115 March 24th, 2020

I've been feeling very stuck lately. Stuck between emotions, stuck in my apartment, in my relationship, and in this lifestyle that was suddenly forced upon me. Usually I would go to the gym just to get out of the apartment and not have to think for just one second, but the gym is closed, and it's so much harder to find the motivation to workout or do anything here in my apartment. It feels like it doesn't matter as much right now. I'm angry lately, and frustrated and upset. I just want to break out of these feelings and there are some moments I can, but mostly all I can do is just sit in my feelings and do nothing about them. It's making my boyfriend more and more frustrated with me as well and I hate to feel like I'm pushing these feelings into him and making this harder for him than it needs to be. I just feel like these feelings have stuck themselves to me and I can't shake them off because there's nowhere else for them to go in this small apartment.

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HenrietteK March 24th, 2020

@Miau5115 Hi :) thanks for sharing, I'm really sorry you're feeling stuck. I know this really well, and I know it is difficult to really listen to one's thoughts when stuck in an apartment with another person (at least in my experience). I hope you find your calm and your motivation heartsmiley

Akul March 24th, 2020

@Miau5115

I'm feeling the same as you, only difference is that I'm alone and can't share all these feelings to anyone in real live. I've had it difficult to reach out my friends and tell them that i needed more contact from them cause being alone all the time is hard to deal with, especially with a brain like mine. at first they didn't reply, but the day after i've had reaction from all of them, they want to skype as much as possible. that gave me the strenght now to feel better and to do something useful today. I hope you can talk also to your friends and not only with your partner, so you can vent a little about whats going on. This isn't a normal situation, everyone is struggling.. wish you two the best x

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