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Announcement: Group Mod Challenge

ASilentObserver April 14th, 2021
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Hello Moderator Team

I’ve got a challenge for you! Are you ready?

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  • Take a look at the communication styles as shown in the image above. Which four of the styles fit your communication style best? Let us know that in the comments below!
  • Find a mod to partner up with to go mod and foster healthy conversation in the chat rooms for half an hour at least 6 times in a two-week span.
  • Observe and take notes on the communication approach of your mod partner and the mod partner will be doing the same for you. (Please note that communication styles and approaches can and will vary and that’s alright!)
  • Participate in the Group Mod Zone Room and compare your notes and share with fellow mods to learn about each others’ communication styles. Also, share the vibe of the room you both were modding to share in the Mod Room. The vibe of the room here means how was the room environment at the start of joining and when you left. You could share it on a scale of 1-10 where 1 would be “Meh” and 10 as “Awesome”.

Your mod partner can be:

  • Any community moderator on shift (just let them know 1-1 before you join as a partner with them on their shift).
  • A fellow community-centered chat room moderator of the same community who could be present at the same time as you will be able to participate in the room.
  • A global moderator who could be present at the same time as you will be able to participate in the room.

To complete the challenge of visiting and moderating the rooms at least six times in a two-week span, your mod partner can be different if the same mod partner can’t be present. If you have more than one partner, you will simply take notes of different mods' communication styles and approaches and share them with them and fellow moderators in the group mod zone.

Every time you complete one session, drop it in the comments of this thread to log your active participation.

The goal of this challenge:

  • Identify your own communication approach in the group dynamics and how it changed/evolved as the situation in the room changed.
  • Identify how having a partner with you changed/ helped to foster a supportive and compassionate environment in the chatroom.
  • What were the challenges? What surprised you? What type of communication approach works best for you?

At the end of this two-week challenge, you will receive information for the next one! And at the end of the quarter, the top 3 chat room moderators who complete all the challenges successfully will be awarded the most prestigious award: Award-Winning Mod!

Criteria of Award-Winning Mod

  • Being passionate about group support chat rooms
  • Being compassionate and engaging with the community members
  • Being professional and ensure the safety of the room
  • Using active listening and de-escalation with all chat participants.
  • Being supportive to the fellow chat room moderators and room supports
  • Being an open-minded communicator
  • Being yourself and having fun while being there in the rooms.

Fun fact! To this day, only 12 chat room moderators have earned this exclusive award! And for extra incentive, every chat room moderator will be awarded 100 cheers per activity they complete.

I am signing up for the challenge and I invite every moderator to accept the challenge too! May we grow together as the best moderators of the community!

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ASilentObserver OP April 14th, 2021
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Tagging & Inviting Mods for the Challenge!
@AlwaysEli @amiablePeace77 @Amy @AnnaListens06 @AnnaTess @Anusha @Asherwolfice @ASilentObserver @Azalea98 @azuladragon34 @BlindGrapefruit @blitheEmbrace27 @bookworm4 @bouncyVoice4149 @brilliantTurtle89 @CaringBrit @caringPanda45 @CheeryMango @Clara139175 @ColorfuldogsofParadise @CommunityModAlex @CommunityModAnne @CommunityModCharlie @CommunityModEllie @CommunityModElliot @CommunityModJennie @CommunityModLynn @CommunityModMorgan @CommunityModParker @CommunityModRobin @CommunityModSage @CompassionateDreamer8522 @compassionateTree4567 @competentParadise6344 @crystalclearnow @cuteOrange213 @DonaldDraper @DreamTouch @EmmaE @enchantedlove @Erica @gentleSun78 @glowingHeart4796 @Gozzil @Greenchoice1 @hopedreamlove @Ines1229 @Isentropic @Jenna @JessHobson @jovialButterfly6752 @KateDoskocilova @kieran000 @KimsonTheSteveFundYPOC @kindSoul10 @leafycup @Listeningsarinn @LoveLilly @LuLuRings @Mankka @Mimi @MistyMagic @musicalHarmony @optimisticDay8079 @pamharley003 @PeaceLoveandPaws @PoliteOcean @rachsxo @rebecca947 @RebekahRoyal @Rhlexia520 @rhlvrma94 @richuyulin @River @RumpleSteeleSkin @Samar27 @Sher217 @shiningSky3745 @SoulfullyAButterfly @soulsings @Starmedia @starryskies108 @SummerBreeze00 @Sunisshiningandsoareyou @SuryanshSingh @Tyedyedbutterfly65 @VerseArt @vivelespatates @WeedyGarden

Kieran000 April 14th, 2021
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@ASilentObserver

Challenge Accepted!

I think I'm a Relator!

easyPear394 April 20th, 2021
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i think im a relator!

pamharley003 April 14th, 2021
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@ASilentObserver

I would say i am a relator

Amy April 14th, 2021
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I accept the challenge!

I think I'm the relator.

brilliantTurtle89 April 14th, 2021
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I'm a socializer with hints or relator

vivelespatates April 14th, 2021
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@ASilentObserver how do i sigbing?

Who want to do with me?

April 14th, 2021
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How do we sign up and track our activities for this challenge?

Sunisshiningandsoareyou April 14th, 2021
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@ASilentObserver

Wow awesome haha, this challenge is fun and exciting! 😄

I feel I am a relator with hints of Thinker and socializer! 😊

Fellow mods , if you'd like to partner with me, drop me a message please and let's be amazing at group support together ! Cant wait, woooooo😎❤

vivelespatates April 14th, 2021
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Thank you richuyulin for doing this with me!
I sure love modding with you and think we have a very similar styles.

session #1: 14 april @ 12pm
partner: @richuyulin
room: support room 24/7

i keep identifying my style as thinker after this first of 6, it makes it very pleasant work with people with so similar style.

April 14th, 2021
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Activity #1

Partner: @vivelespatates

Session date: April 14th, 2021

Session time: 12:00pm-12:30pm

Room: Support Room 24/7

Notes: We both have a similar moderation style, as we focus on our 'duty' to keep environment safe, but a little less on building relationships. We were both thinkers during the session. Though I may be more of a director depending on the situation as my moderation style adapts to situation. I would say the vibe of the room of the room was about a 7 when we joined, and probably remained the same when we left. But overall really good. Having open communication in DM throughout the session certain helped made things a bit easier as I didn't have to worry so much about responding to every message during the active session.

EmmaE April 14th, 2021
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i accept the challenge!! i think my modding style is a mix between the relator and socializer!

vivelespatates April 14th, 2021
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Thank you Clara139175 for doing it with me!

Partner: @Clara139175
Session #2 : 14 April @ 13h10
Room: teen community room
notes: I think our styles are opposite (im thinker and i have a feeling they are more socializer), and its very interesting when modding because it creates more balance. they focus more on relationships and make the room fun for members. its super important and its things i often forget about. I think i should work more with people of their style because i need to learn to be more connected to members and a bit more flexible/less strict sometimes.

I maintains that my style is Thinker after this session 2/6.

Clara139175 April 14th, 2021
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@vivelespatates thanks for modding with me!!

Partner: @vivelespatates
Session #1: 14 April @ 13h10
Room: teen community room
notes: Our styles are vastly different in that they identify as a thinker while I lean toward socializer. I tend to be a bit more flexible and I like to mod in a way that isn't as strict toward members while they focus on the rules more and maintaining them. I got pulled in to another mod duty in another room halfway through so I relied a bit more on VIve to take care of the spam problems in tcr. For next session I think I need to do it at a time where Im not as stretched thin.

I suspect my style is a socializer with a mix of relator after this session 1/6.

Chloe563 April 14th, 2021
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I accept the challenge. I think I am a Relator

Anna April 14th, 2021
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Partner: @Rhlexia520
Session #1: April 14th 2021, 2:00pm
Room: Teen Community Room
notes: The room was moving very fast, so we both took a back seat to observe and chime in when needed. Lex appeared more of a Relator - very welcoming and relaxed, while chiming in now and then. They described me as bridging both Relator and Socializer, going in between the roles. This was really interesting to get another person's perspective on modding styles!

Chloe563 April 14th, 2021
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@AnnaTess, thank you for doing this with me 😀

Partner: @AnnaTess
Session #1: 14 April at 14:00
Room: teen community room
notes: the room was very fast, so I struggled to know lots about their style but they seemed a bit of a relator and a bit of a socializer. They were calm, welcoming but also I could see they focused a little on friendships too. I think this is great cause It means I get to see how another person mods a room and what our differences and similarities are! 💜

April 14th, 2021
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Activity #2

Partner: @CommunityModElliot

Session date: April 14th, 2021

Session time: 2:30pm-3:00pm

Room: Support Room 24/7

Notes:Our styles are very different but we work well together as we're able to find a balance and focus on supporting members. ^_^ I am a thinker while Elliot is a socializer. I've noticed that having a partner in modding is really useful when you may be unsure of how to respond. Chances are that your partner would write a response and you can add on to it.

April 14th, 2021
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Activity #3

Partner: @Gozzil

Session date: April 14th, 2021

Session time: 5:00pm-5:30pm

Room: Support Room 24/7

Notes: The room went from quiet to super active in a really short period of time. I struggled to keep up with it. Thankfully Gozzil was there to help out with replying to some of the messages. We discussed and came to the conclusion that no one category would be an accurate representation of our style because we contain traits from different 'categories'. But the best fit one for Gozzil would be relator, and I'm still a thinker. ^_^

LoveLilly April 14th, 2021
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Session #1

Partner: @AnnaListens06

Date of Session: 14th April 2021 (EST)

Time of Session : 5:20 - 5:50 pm (EST)

Room: Support Room 24/7

Notes: We are both similar when it comes to listening . The room was reasonably quiet during this time so we had a few people in and out. What I learned is that Anna is definitely a socialiser, who can adjust easily to a faster paced environment where as I need a little more time to assess a room before jumping right in. She was lovely to moderate with and I would say the room say at a 5 1/2. It was postive and supportive when their was people to support but as the room was very calm I would not rate any higher. Being able to use the mod zone was very handy when it came to communicating throughout our session. There was not much in the way of needing to keep anyone extra safe due to the calm and quietness of the room but in future I know both of us would be very into keeping the room under control and safe for all.

Anna706 April 14th, 2021
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Thank you @LoveLilly for being my partner!

Partner: @LoveLilly

Session date: April 14th, 2021

Session time: 5:20pm-5:50pm

Room: Support Room 24/7

We are both quite similar in our listening styles, I learnt that I am definatly as Socializer, as I'm very fast paced and quick to react to situations, whilst lilly is more a relator, calm, approachable, makes sure an assessment of the situation is made before jumping in. Which is awesome as this makes sure its dealt with properly.. The room itself I would give a 5 out of 10, it was a little quiet but those who needed support were given it and hopefully left feeling better. The use of the mod zone was great as it was an easy place to share notes and hopefully aloow others to see out thoughts too. Thanks Again @lovelilly you're amazing!

Azalea98 April 14th, 2021
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I am definitely a socialiser! 😋

Jili April 14th, 2021
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Activity #1

Partner: @AnnaTess

Session date: April 14th, 2021

Session time: 2:44 pm

Room: Teen Community Room

Notes: @AnnaTess told me that I was a socializer. Super energetic. Issued gentle warnings, and made sure the chat was staying supportive for all.

kindSoul10 April 14th, 2021
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Activity #1

Partner: @richuyulin

Session date: April 14th, 2021

Session time: approx 19:00

Room: Support Room 24/7

Notes: very calm, attentive, reflective and prompt in responding. Compassionate listening style.

I can relate to it. I was more passive to focus on learning about their listening style and I didn't want to interfere. They communicated well, it was great team work.

We discussed later what we observed and we learned we both mender between all 4 roles but mostly avoid the director role as it is described here. I see myself and Lin as mending in the areas "open relationship" and "slow paced to fast paced"

April 15th, 2021
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Activity #4

Partner: @kindSoul10

Session date: April 14th, 2021

Session time: 6:45pm-7:15pm

Room: Support Room 24/7

Notes: During this session, I kinda took the lead on the situation and was quick to join in on the conversation. Where as Soul was a little more reserved and took their time to assess the chat before joining in. I learned that Soul's style was relator and I was told that I'm a socializer. ^_^

Gozzil April 15th, 2021
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Activity 1

Partner: @Richuyulin

Session date: April 14th, 2021

Session time: 5:00pm-5:30pm

Room: Support Room 24/7

Notes: This was a great experience for me as I normally spend my group support time in Sharing Circle, but given that SC may be too structured to really see someone's style of moderating Lin suggested that Support 24/7 might be a good idea (which it was!). We came to the conclusion that although Lin tends towards being a thinker and I tend towards relator, we both have traits from other categories (e.g. Lin can work well cooperatively as well as alone).

April 15th, 2021
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Activity #5

Partner: @AnnaTess 👻

Session date: April 14th, 2021

Session time: 8:30pm-9:00pm

Room: Member Community Room

Notes: After discussing, I came to the conclusion Anna was a socializer during the session. And I was bridged between thinker and relator. I've noticed that I'm someone who tend to observe and adapt my moderation style depending on who I'm modding with. ^_^

( Sunisshiningandsoareyou [forum mentor] edited the activity number from 4 to 5 , as Lin mentioned the mistake )

April 15th, 2021
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Oops this is meant to say activity 5 not 4. Forgot to edit.

Sunisshiningandsoareyou April 15th, 2021
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@richuyulin

Will edit this for you, lin❤

April 15th, 2021
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Thank you Sun!

April 15th, 2021
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Activity #6

Partner: @CommunityModLynn

Session date: April 14th, 2021

Session time: 9:30pm-10:00pm

Room: Sharing Circle / Support Room 24/7

Notes: During the 'activity', I was hosting Healthy Habits session in Sharing Circle room with Support Room 24/7 open in another tab watching how Lynn moderates. I could be wrong but my impression is based on what I saw during the 'activity', I think that Lynn's style would be thinker. And I would have been socializer. ^_^

IceCream4IceCream April 15th, 2021
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Activity #1

Partner: @richuyulin

Session date: April 15th, 2021

Session time: 12-1 am EDT/EST

Room: Sharing Circle

Notes: Richy joined me for the SC which I regularly host. Richy is one of the sweetest people I know, and is always wiling to lend a helping had. I think both of us were relators during the SC. Really grateful to Richy because they've been helping me navigate modding: I've only just become a mod myself. I think having a partner made me feel a little less stressed because I'm still getting the hang of this.

April 15th, 2021
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Activity #7

Partner: @jovialButterfly6752

Session date: April 15th, 2021

Session time: 12:00am-1:00am

Room: Sharing Circle

Notes: We both have a similar style, as we both are relator during the session. We even 'jinxed' each other a few times during the session. It was like we were in sync with each other without communicating haha. But my results surprised me this time, as this would be the first time I've been told I'm solely a relator in style. Thank you so much for hosting with me! It was a great supportive session. Looking forward to working with you when we can. Timezones can be annoying. XD

April 15th, 2021
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Activity #8

Partner: @jovialButterfly6752

Session date: April 15th, 2021

Session time: 1:30am-2:00am

Room: Support Room 24/7

Notes: It was interesting to see how the difference in room brought out a different side of our moderation style. In this room jovial's style was socializer, where as I was a thinker. I struggled to keep up with the chat as I was confused as to what's happening with multiple conversations happening at once. But jovial was amazing and responded to everyone. It was a pleasure hosting with you!

IceCream4IceCream April 15th, 2021
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@richuyulin

You're the best heart Thank you!

IceCream4IceCream April 15th, 2021
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Activity #2

Partner: @richuyulin

Session date: April 15th, 2021

Session time: 1:30 -2 am EDT/EST

Room: Support Room 24x7

Notes: Richy was super nice and said I could join them as a mod in SR 24x7. Thanks for the opportunity Richy :) I haven't actually "mod-ded" in that room before so I'm glad I had Richy's support! I think I was a Socialiser? I guess my ADHD can be useful in situations where is a lot going on at once because I can pay attention to many things and react fast.

Richy seemed to be a combination of a Thinker and Relator. I could see them being methodical and deliberate which is important: good to read the room! They also thought about the task - whether we should host a topic specific discussion or provided continued support as mods as members were chatting. I'm not familiar with being a mod in SR so they showed me the ropes which was very helpful. We work well together as mods! Look forward to doing it again soon <# waffle heart

April 15th, 2021
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Activity #9

Partner: @Sunisshiningandsoareyou

Session date: April 15th, 2021

Session time: 2:15am-2:45am

Room: Support Room 24/7

Notes: It was nice to know that we both thought the session went well. laugh We worked well together. I noticed that Sun's style was relator. Mine was a mix between thinker and relator. Hopefully the members we supported during our session felt that we did a good job as well. ^_^ Thank you for co-hosting with me. Looking forward to doing another session with you in the future if possible. I know time zones can make it tricky to coordinate.

Sunisshiningandsoareyou April 15th, 2021
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@richuyulin

Aww thanks so much, lin ! I agree also ! It was great ! And I'd certainly love to pair up with you again ! Let's do it soon haha😎❤

Sunisshiningandsoareyou April 15th, 2021
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Activity #1

Partner - @richuyulin

Date - 15th April

Time - 2:15 - 2:45 am ET

Room - Support Room 24*7

Notes - I've been a little cautious about support room 24*7 , as a challenge I identify there always is that many parallel conversations take place and sometimes it seems that members are fine on their own and don't need prompting or any external support from Mods or listeners in general, it's great to see so many supportive members in the room though, and with a little structure and support from time to time, the room works nicely. Was lovely to moderate with lin today, they are right on in their mod role , also very compassionate and use active listening skills in the room while supporting members, I feel we both had similar modding and room supporting styles, I've been told I was a relator today,and i feel lin was both a relator and a thinker in their modding style .

Overall it was a nice experience, and I hope, we were able to provide some support and structure in the room too . ❤

IceCream4IceCream April 15th, 2021
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Activity #3

Partner: @CheeryMango

Session date: April 15th, 2021

Session time: 9:30 -10 am EDT/EST

Room: General Support Room

Notes: Mango was super enthusiastic and was happy to join me for the icebreaker I had planned today! thanks so much for joining me Mango :) First time modding in GS too so this was great! I think Mango and I were socialisers, which made sense in this setting because icebreakers are usually face paced and a lot of fun overall! Mango did a great job at engaging the crowd and I think we both had fun hosting an event which was a change of atmosphere from some of the other stuff we do! :) Would love to mod with Mango again <#