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Peer Appreciation Program

October 27th, 2021

We present to you Peer Appreciation Program where you can observe and appreciate good qualities in a 7cups peer. The peer could be any fellow cupser- a fellow member, a fellow listener, anyone on cups basically or yourself, yes, you can appreciate yourself as well. Read more about it Here (clickable). โค


If you take time to observe and talk about a good quality in another, then that quality starts becoming a part of your personality.


Is that not amazing?!!


Use this form to Appreciate a fellow cupser or yourself:


Peer Appreciation Form (clickable)


The appreciation submitted through the above form will be posted in this thread!


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Want to join our team? Click here to apply.

Need tips for writing an appreciation message? Check out this wonderful post by @Hope

Got questions about the program? Read the FAQ here.

Have feedback for us? Write to us in this thread. We are all ears.

Appreciated someone or yourself, And/ Or you're a smile spreader who posted an appreciation? Please share your experience by clicking here. We'd like to encourage you more.

(Sunisshiningandsoareyou last updated this thread with additional information on 03/28/2023)


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SophTheListener2022 May 3rd, 2023

๐ŸธHey hey amazing people! Here's an incoming appreciation from @autumn1100winter to @FineFrog15


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Note from me:

autumn1100winter: You are amazing for sending in this heartfelt appreciation. Keep being amazing and kind!


FineFrog15: You deserve all the happiness, and you have so much positivity. Keep spreading positivity!


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(Sent by autumn1100winter) ๐Ÿธ๐Ÿ’š

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FineFrog15 May 3rd, 2023

@SophTheListener2022

@autumn1100winter

I cannot thank you enough! big big *hugs* โค๏ธ Interestingly enough, resolution to what that was weighing heavily on my mind has been found. I'm feeling pretty darn fantastic right about now. I can't wait to see you in the MCR!

๐Ÿ˜Šโค๏ธ๐Ÿ˜Šโค๏ธ Thank you for being so very kind to me! โค๏ธ


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OnlyWinter May 4th, 2023

@FineFrog15

Yayy, Froggy!! ๐Ÿธ big hug ๐Ÿซ‚

What's the resolution? ๐Ÿธ


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FineFrog15 May 4th, 2023

@Autumn1100winter

Hi Winter! ๐Ÿ˜Šโค๏ธ The resolution is that we as humans are fallible (including me). Ultimately, I have to take ownership in the situation that made me sad. In the end, the fault lied with me.

I'm happy to admit when I am wrong. I'm happy to apologize to others if I misjudged. Not that it ever justifies anything.......we bring to the table a past, past hurts, experiences, etc. Sometimes I guess we can just get a little scared? We, as people, can have "knee jerk reactions" that maybe have to do more about us than the other person. I know it's wrong to do so and someone else should never have to "pay for the sins of others".

I wonder even if there are moments where we are so happy that something feels just too good to be true? I can't "wait for the other shoe to drop" and go "poking holes" into things that were never there to begin with. That's no way to live and we can miss out on so much joy by doing that.

Sometimes communication can be difficult, both parties can misread signs. Maybe a few of mine were misunderstood at first blush. That would be minor comparatively speaking and I didn't have to let it snowball that's for sure. With relationships, and any type of "ship" it may be, can come adversity. Just a fact of life. Aha moment....many times it's how you find resolution to it all, how you do your personal best to apologize and in the right way, take responsibility for it so that things can get back on track. Mission accomplished!

I'm actually glad that it was my fault (interesting concept to explore). It's hard enough as people to change ourselves. Herculean feat to try and change others (I don't suggest trying to change others). Glad that they aren't the one that needs changing at this moment. It's me. This is the good news! ๐Ÿ˜Šโค๏ธ๐Ÿ˜Š

Today, this Froggie is a most happy one! Thank you for caring about me. I send big *hugs* โค๏ธ I care about you to. Thank you for being such a good friend to me! ๐Ÿ˜Šโค๏ธ๐Ÿ˜Š

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OnlyWinter May 4th, 2023

@FineFrog15

I think it is not your fault. ๐Ÿ˜ฎ and you have the right to feel upset.

But I don't know the whole story, like they were being pushy, then days later apologized for it? Some people apologize just to get away with things, but their true character is revealed already.

But it's not that I don't support you finding peace, but I think you are not the one to blame, Froggy ๐Ÿธ

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FineFrog15 May 4th, 2023

@Autumn1100winter

โค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธ

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OnlyWinter May 4th, 2023

@SophTheListener2022

The froggy background is cute!! ๐Ÿธ

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FineFrog15 May 4th, 2023

@Autumn1100winter

@SophTheListener2022

I think so too! Thank you! I am most grateful that both of you gave me a smile when I might not have had one for myself. *hugs* โค๏ธ


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Linnnn do you now see what I was saying just today lol xD got another amazing hooman aka @Sirenofserenity to confirm it for us!๐Ÿ’›

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Your dedicated, compassionate, inquisitive, resourceful and enthusiastic approach towards everything you do is super appreciated! Thankyouuu for being a gift to the community @richuyulin, as Siren said too! So proud of you always!๐Ÿ’›

Can say the same for you too, Sirennn, your extremely proactive, committed and supportive presence isn't any less of a gift hehe, and is super valuable to the community, thank*you* for being absolutely fantastic at being you!๐Ÿ’›

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May 3rd, 2023

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou Thank you so much for taking the time to post this!

@SirenOfSerenity thank you so much!! Group chats is where I shine and I love helping others level up. ๐Ÿ˜ƒ You're an amazing leader yourself too! One whom I've always admire, you take on so much, and yet always find the time to show gratitude to those who help. ๐Ÿ’œ

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VictoriaLove7 May 3rd, 2023
Hey everyone! ๐Ÿ˜Š

We have a special appreciation for
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou ๐ŸŒž

From @confidentRabbit7311 ๐ŸŒธ

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These are the qualities that Lani find in you

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From me

@confidentRabbit7311 Thank you for giving this appreciation. Hope you be kind to yourself. (maybe send self appreciation!) ๐ŸŒธ

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou Thank you for the numerous things that you have done for Cups. You are an incredible gift for life. I'm truly grateful to have you in my life. โค

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@VictoriaLove7

Such a sunny and sunflowery post hehe, thankyouuu, Viccc, you make me smile always!โค

@confidentRabbit7311

Aww this is super unexpected and just what makes it extra special for me, Laniiii, thankyouuu for such a sweet, encouraging, appreciative message. You've made my entire week hehe. You're awesome-sauze!โค Sending ๐Ÿฅ•๐ŸŽ‚ :P

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confidentRabbit7311 May 3rd, 2023

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VictoriaLove7 May 4th, 2023

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou

That is in my favorite to do list, the most important one, to make you smile, Sunshine ๐ŸŒžโค

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amiableBunny4016 May 3rd, 2023

Heylooooo Beautiful People,

Today we have an appreciation for the lovely @HealingBeams!

@HealingBeams has been appreciated by @confidentRabbit731!

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You have been appreciated for showing the following qualities:

Having the Ability to Delegate, Motivated, Coachable, Supportive, Patient, Respectful, Great Communicator


Wohooo! You are both amazing and I am so so so proud of you both!

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Bunny


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Healingbeams May 3rd, 2023

@amiableBunny4016 thank you for this colourful postโค๏ธ


Thank you for your kind words @confidentRabbit7311 โค๏ธ

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SophTheListener2022 May 3rd, 2023

Heyoo! I've got a very positive and joyful appreciation from @toughCup4675 to @Mariposa8

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Note from me:

toughCup: Thank you for this amazing and sweet appreciation. Keep spreading kindness!

Mariposa8: You are so awesome for spreading smiles and laughs all around. Never stop laughing and smiling!

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AnnaSilverberg May 3rd, 2023

๐Ÿ’Ž How amazing! ๐Ÿ’Ž

๐Ÿ’ฎ Hay @JAYListens ๐Ÿ’ฎ

๐Ÿ’™ You have just been appreciated by a Secret Friend ๐Ÿ’™


๐ŸŽ They think you are ๐ŸŽ

๐Ÿ”นMotivated๐Ÿ”นEmotionally Intelligent๐Ÿ”นAccountable๐Ÿ”นInquisitive๐Ÿ”น
๐Ÿ”นEmpathetic๐Ÿ”นGreat Communicator๐Ÿ”นRespectful๐Ÿ”น

They have left you a wonderful message
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"He helped me dearly through our chat and shows great support as a listener.
He deserves some credit!"

๐Ÿ’™ You sure sound like a wonderful listener Jay, we're glad to have you here ๐Ÿ’™
๐Ÿ’Ž I took a peek at your profile and you have wonderful reviews ๐Ÿ’Ž
๐Ÿ’ฎ We're happy to see you get some credit ๐Ÿ’ฎ

๐Ÿ’™ Secret Friend, thank you! ๐Ÿ’™
๐ŸŽ To take a time out of your day to appreciate someone is a wonderful thing ๐ŸŽ
๐Ÿ’ฎ You brought a smile and that's wonderful! ๐Ÿ’ฎ

๐Ÿ˜Š We wish you both a wonderful rest of your day ๐Ÿ˜Š
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YourCaringConfidant May 4th, 2023

๏ปฟThe following appreciation note has just blown me away. It amazes me that there can be so much beauty in one person. Ok, maybe not-- because it's a known fact that this person is just as beautiful as they come. This person is truly beautifully made and is so deserving of all the love sent her way.


โค๏ธ ๐ŸŒน โค๏ธ ๐ŸŒน โค๏ธ ๐ŸŒน โค๏ธ


@calmMango9611 has sent the sweetest note to someone who possesses such amazing qualities!

๐ŸŒŸ Supportive ๐ŸŒŸ Empathetic ๐ŸŒŸ Great Communicator ๐ŸŒŸ Cheerful ๐ŸŒŸ Emotionally Intelligent


@TinyWhisper11

That's you, beautiful! And this is the note Mango left specially for you. Happy reading.

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@calmMango9611

Talk about writing a note from the heart. You put your all into it and it clearly shows. As weird as it may be to thank you, I have to thank you for appreciating Tiny. Tiny has truly gone through so much and it's time she get all the love and happiness and joy she missed out on. Thank you for showing her so much kindness. It seems we both have 1 thing in common-- our love for the most beautiful Tiny. I've got to hand it to you, Mango... you know how to pull at people's heart strings. The fact that you are loving, kind, and accepting makes you amazing in my eyes! โ˜†โ˜†โ˜†โ˜†โ˜†

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Tinywhisper11 May 5th, 2023

@YourCaringConfidant๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜โคโค๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜ญ awwwwwww mango โคthanks so much. I love you โคโคโคgives you great big tiny hug โคโค and caring I love you too โคโคโคgives you giant tiny hug Thank you Thank you thankyou โค

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Rubylistens22 May 4th, 2023

Heyo:) An anonymous member wanted to share this amazing appreciation message for @DarkerPlaces

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A little bit from me: @DarkerPlaces congratulations on the awesome message you got! You most definitely deserve it, and all of the things you've done for the 7cups community has not gone overlooked at all<3

Secret teen member, thank you so much for being a light in this community, and appreciating @DarkerPlaces with such kind words! You deserve appreciation as well, and everyone on cups greatly appreciates you!

Both of you please keep being the fantabulous humans you are!๐Ÿ’™

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DarkerPlaces May 4th, 2023

@Rubylistens22

thx so much secret member ๐Ÿ˜Š

@Rubylistens22

Aww love the pastel vibe here, topping it with your sweet and encouraging words. Great job, dear Smile Spreader, welcome to the team!โค

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Rubylistens22 May 4th, 2023

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou

awww thank youuu๐Ÿ˜Š everyone on the team is just amazinggg๐Ÿ’™

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@Rubylistens22 I know right?! Hehe! Thankyou for making it even more amazing!๐Ÿ’—

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victoriousblue17 May 4th, 2023

๐Ÿ’šโค๏ธ๐Ÿค @encouragedsoul , you have so many wonderful qualities. ๐Ÿ’šโค๏ธ๐Ÿค

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Here are just a few:

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Thank you for being you, and bringing your positive mindset to everything that you do. It's great that you took the time to appreciate some of your achievements.

Hiya @lightprune1000, I hope you're doing well. I'm delighted to share another post for you, and ofcourse, nothing's better than a self-appreciation here!๐Ÿ’›
Enjoy your cup full of self-appreciation with a side of kindness cookies!๐Ÿ’›

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And the picture quote you sent:

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lightPrune1000 May 4th, 2023

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou

Hiya, thanks you making this graphic!! It looks awesome!

There's a picture I included in my submission, would you post it too?


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@lightPrune1000

Hiya! My apologies for the delay, the picture kept showing error earlier in the forum :') so I had to try posting without it and thought I'd update it after.

Yes, it's the same words! I'll try updating again, hoping it works! And glad you like the graphic!^^

(It worked yay)

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lightPrune1000 May 5th, 2023

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou

Yay! Thank you, Sun! The graphics you made is awesome, thanks again for making this post!

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@lightPrune1000

Really glad to hear that!๐Ÿ’›

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lightPrune1000 May 4th, 2023

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou

This is the picture that I submitted, I think, maybe not exactly the same but the words are the same.

Thanks again for making the graphics, Sun! It looks awesome!

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