@moonoquq
I think you just gotta embrace it
@moonoquq.
I don't believe any person is ugly...I believe God created all human beings in the best way and I assume that God would be happy with His creation and not regard it as ugly. Human beings have types and preferences - so what is beautiful and attractive to someone my not be to another.
Also looks are not everything and I have not heard of a person love or marry a person only due to looks but often their inner qualities and personality. I see many people that don't look beautiful or attractive to me in relationships and marriages.
Yet you say you feel ugly and wonder if anyone will ever love tyou. .this is just a feeling not a fact...but caused by what?
Maybe some self care and taking time for yourself would make you feel more lovable and attractive? I think sometimes we have issues with ourselves but we can address them and feel better.
Sometimes when we do not feel lovable we actually prevent people from being and to love us and get close.
I guess also that feeling unlovable and ugly would make you feel depressed and unhappy...what would happen if you replaced these negative thoughts with positive ones, such as I am beautiful and attractive and I am lovable. How would you feel differently? You could try this.
Sometimes we can be harsh on ourselves and say things to ourselves that we would never say to a friend or loved one...would we tell them they are ugly and unlovable?
We can be a friend to ourselves by showing kindness and looking for the good while giving any necessary advice for improvement. If you were your friend what would you say to you?
@moonoquq Somedays you just feel ugly on the outside. On the days that you don't... I know you 7cups listeners all or nothing thinking. "I feel ugly everyday". On a day which you look in the mirror and you can admire a few of your features work on cherishing them gently. Find organic beauty products and soaps. Like organic coconut oil that you can leave on for a few moments to motorize. Whatever is one of your better features work on bring it out and showcasing it for the world. Start with your authentic smile. Start with good hygiene and smelling good!
Moon you’re awesome. Simply awesome. Ugly is an opinion and not a fact so don’t worry about it. Some people may find slugs cute and butterflies ugly so really it’s based on personal preference 💙 maybe this could help you a little bit?
