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moonoquq August 24th

How to stop feeling ugly ?

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kindShoulder80 August 25th

@moonoquq Take one day at a time. You’ll find someone. Don’t be sad. 💙

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moonoquq OP September 1st

Tysm! 🫂

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pinkSea7682 August 25th

@moonoquq 

I think you just gotta embrace it


pinkSea7682 August 25th

@moonoquq

You don't know me but i don't think you're ugly I don't think anyone Is ugly you're perfect the way you are 

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moonoquq OP September 1st

Tysm sea! I appreciate it!

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Zhakk August 26th


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moonoquq OP September 1st

This really help me out Tysm for taking the time to answer!

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quietlistener2023 August 29th

@moonoquq.

I don't believe any person is ugly...I believe God created all human beings in the best  way and I assume that God would be happy with His creation and not regard it as ugly.  Human beings have types and preferences - so what is beautiful and attractive to someone my not be to another.  

Also looks are not everything and I have not heard of a person love or marry a person only due to looks but often their inner qualities and personality.  I see many people that don't look beautiful or attractive to me in relationships and marriages.  

Yet you say you feel ugly and wonder if anyone will ever love tyou. .this is just a feeling not a fact...but caused by what? 

Maybe some self care and taking time for yourself would make you feel more lovable and attractive? I think sometimes we have issues with ourselves but we can address them and feel better.

Sometimes when we do not feel lovable we actually prevent people from being and to love us and get close.

I guess also that feeling unlovable and ugly would make you feel depressed and unhappy...what would happen if you replaced these negative thoughts with positive ones, such as I am beautiful and attractive and I am lovable.  How would you feel differently? You could try this.

Sometimes we can be harsh on ourselves and say things to ourselves that we would never say to a friend or loved one...would we tell them they are ugly and unlovable? 

We can be a friend to ourselves by showing kindness and looking for the good while giving any necessary advice for improvement.  If you were your friend what would you say to you?

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moonoquq OP September 1st

tysm! I really appreciate your response! Tc

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You aren't ugly and you deserve to feel that you are beautiful and worthy ❤️❤️

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moonoquq OP September 1st

ð¥²hugs Ty!!

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pamharley003 August 29th

@moonoquq

I have learned my looks are not what others want it is what is in my heart I may not be pretty like I was when I was younger but I accepted that 

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moonoquq OP September 1st

Tysm Pam! I really appreciate your answer and I’m sure you are a wonderful and really pretty person! I send a hug 🫂 ty!

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gentlePresence7879 August 29th

@moonoquq  Somedays  you just feel ugly on the outside.  On the days that you don't... I know you 7cups listeners all or nothing thinking.  "I feel ugly everyday".  On a day which you look in the mirror and you can admire a few of your features work on cherishing them gently.   Find organic beauty products and soaps.  Like organic coconut oil that you can leave on for a few moments to motorize.  Whatever is one of your better features work on bring it out and showcasing it for the world.  Start with your authentic smile.  Start with good hygiene and smelling good!

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moonoquq OP September 1st

Tysm presence! I appreciate that you take the time to answer!! I will take your advice Ty!

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tealLion9329 September 1st

@moonoquq fake it till u feel better meaning for me I force myself to think I'm attractive even when I'm deep into thinking I'm disgusting, ugly, gross, extra. 

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moonoquq OP September 1st

Tysm! Lion 🫂💗 great advice I will take it! And I appreciate it Ty! I send you a big hug 🤗

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OhHelloThereImHere September 1st

Moon you’re awesome. Simply awesome. Ugly is an opinion and not a fact so don’t worry about it. Some people may find slugs cute and butterflies ugly so really it’s based on personal preference 💙 maybe this could help you a little bit?

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moonoquq OP September 1st

Tysmmm :, ( you’re so sweet! It did help me and I really appreciate it!! Tytyyy I send you a biiig biiig hug! Hope you are doing oki friend!

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