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No one will ever love me ?

moonoquq August 24th

How to stop feeling ugly ?

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quickwittedHouse8347 September 1st

I don’t think anyone is ugly. Every person has atleast one beautiful characteristic about them, most cases, 99% it’s more than one characteristic. Believe me when I say, you are not ugly. Maybe you haven’t found the nicest things about your appearance yet. I know you will get there. This is how I used to be too until I found that my hair looked good and it’s just that I didn’t know how to style it… It happens to the best of us.

what helped me is getting an understanding of my skin color , hair texture and my body type and see how people similar to me dressed. It doesn’t have to be a celebrity or you don’t have to break the bank for it. I hope this helps ! 🫶🏾

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moonoquq OP September 1st

Tyysm!! I reallyy appreciate it thanks for taking the time to answer! I will take the advice! : )

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sweetgrandpa September 1st
@moonoquq Hello, look how interesting! You wonder how to stop "feeling" ugly. Do you realize that you are in the field of feelings? And they are independent of our actions, but more of our emotional issues linked to some past event or future expectation. What types of habits do you think you could add to your routine to increase your sense of self-esteem? Some people start practicing physical activities, others decide to change their wardrobe or a day of beauty in occasional periods. This all makes us realize that these feelings are not linked to reality, but to facts in our stories.
amicableox0685 September 1st

The world has enough bullies, don't be one to yourself.

hopefully18 September 2nd

Just remember that an entire nation loved Hilter, Charles Shobraj had 4 wives, the hunchback got Esmeralda - Ugly is a social construct. Even murderers and bigots and cult leaders have people who love them. Love and Ugly are not interested. Someone's ugly is someone's beautiful. That being said you are truly wonderful and brave and beautiful for asking these questions my darling.