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What’s the Most Hurtful Thing Someone Has Ever Said to You? Let’s Laugh (and Cry) Together!
Alright, folks, let’s stir things up a bit. I’m calling out those soul-crushing, jaw-dropping, “did they really just say that?” moments—the ones we still think about in the shower 10 years later, plotting our ultimate comeback. What’s the most hurtful thing someone’s ever said to you?
I’ll start, because fair is fair. One time, someone looked me dead in the eyes and said: “You have the personality of an overcooked potato.” AN. OVERCOOKED. POTATO. Like, excuse me?! At least compare me to mashed potatoes or something versatile and comforting. But no, they went straight for the dry, flavorless insult that haunts me to this day.
Or there’s my friend, who once got told by a teacher: “You’re the reason I drink.” The TEACHER. Imagine doing your homework and still being blamed for someone’s Merlot habit.
But here’s the thing—those words hurt then, but now? Now we laugh about them (and also secretly hope karma got those people back). That’s the beauty of sharing these moments: they lose their power over you when you can throw a little humor at them and share them with people who get it.
So, hit me with your stories. Let’s turn this into a group roast of the most ridiculous, hurtful things we’ve ever heard. You can go deep if you want, but even the small, dumb insults count—like that time someone said your new haircut made you look like a “vegetable emoji” (that one hurt a little, not gonna lie).
And hey, if your story is truly wild, I’ll pin it as the Hall of Fame Hurtful Comment. So, let’s hear it: What’s the thing someone said to you that still makes you go, “WOW, okay, thanks for that”? Bonus points if it’s funny, weird, or just downright petty. Let’s keep it light, and maybe—just maybe—we’ll all feel a little better after laughing at the absurdity of it all.
Alright, your turn—don’t leave me hanging! Btw i will post this in another forum just to reach more people.
Ohhhh this post is !!! Like last night only I had someone say such nonsense stuff to me !!!
Ugh, it’s like they all come out of the same playbook, huh? Some people just love to throw shade when they can’t handle someone’s light. Whatever they said, it’s their insecurity talking, not your reality. You’re way too awesome for that nonsense! Keep shining and remember, they don’t deserve a second of your time or energy.💪❤️
Thank thank you ð©·ð©·ð©·means so much
One of the most hurtful personally was my mom saying that it's her biggest life mistake to marry my dad and have me as her child. She apologized after a while but, I sometimes wonder if I can ever truly get over the fact that she said that at the heat of the moment.
As to a lighter one, it'll probably be my grade school friend who stopped sharing snacks with me one day because I never had pocket money when I was young and was never able to buy snacks that I can share with him as well. It wasn't hurtful, but I think it taught me an important life lesson.
That first one is seriously tough. A mom’s words should be the safest place, not a place that cuts so deep. But hey, her apology shows that even she knows how wrong it was. It’ll take time, but trust me you are not a mistake, and you deserve all the love and respect in the world. You’re better than those words!
As for the snack situation what a wild turn of events! Sometimes life’s little moments teach us more than we realize. You might not have had pocket money, but you clearly have a heart full of gold. And hey, now you can totally buy your own snacks and share them with someone who actually appreciates you!❤️❤️❤️❤️
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when my child was born someone from my family told me we don’t care about you .. we care about the baby ..
when I took maternity leave from work - I was told I am getting free money for doing nothing
Ugh, both of those are harsh. First, “we care about the baby, not you?” That’s just cold, especially from family! But you know what? You were the one carrying and bringing that beautiful little person into the world you’re the real MVP here, not them.🙌
And as for the “free money for doing nothing” comment, please! Maternity leave is earned, not a vacation. Maybe they should try parenting for a day or two, see how much “nothing” you’re doing. It’s a tough job, and you’re doing it like a pro! Keep shining, because you know your worth those comments don’t define you.❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much for these words love … although I felt so broken when I heard that person talk like this … it felt like a sharp pain inside and I still can never forget it …
but like you said.- they don’t define my worth! Just shows their shallowness 🩷
Some people are clearly just morons.
My coworker told me he knew I was a depressed gal. He was like, "I can just tell".
Kinda broke my spirit.
Ugh, “I can just tell”? Like he’s some sort of emotional detective. If he’s got such great powers of observation, maybe he should consider a new career in mind reading. But seriously, his comment was unnecessary and unfair. You’re way more than someone’s quick judgment. You’re a complex person with your own strength, and no one gets to define that for you. Just keep being your awesome self, and if he tries it again, maybe hit him with, “Wow, are you always this accurate, or just today?”🙌❤️
Not that he could, but if that was the case, then he should know better than to say something so insensitive.
I'm still surprised by how clueless people are and that they don't consider how hurtful their words could be.
what did you say to him ??
I was told by an ex “you think love is like a fairytale, all pink and glitter but it’s not” - i was sending him those couple posts that come up on ***. I hated love after him and I kept having this sentence repeat in my head over and over and over. And then years later eventually i met my current partner whom i’ve been with for over 4 years, and our love is exactly like a fairytale full of pink and glitter, I felt that way again without feeling like a stupid child, because it was reciprocated <3
Wow, what a turn of events! That ex clearly didn’t understand the magic of love he was too busy dimming the sparkle for no reason. But look at you now, proving that love can be beautiful, fun, and yes full of glitter. It’s amazing that you found a partner who not only understands you but also shares that fairytale like love. Sometimes, the best comebacks come when you’re living your truth and finding something so much better than what others told you was possible. You’ve got your own happily-ever-after, and it’s better than any fairytale. Keep sparkling! ❤️🙌
Reciprocating and acknowledging to very important things we often forget in relationships
I am so happy for you ð©·
Gosh there's so much. I've suffered a lot of body shaming and I'm truly sick of being told I look like a stick or that the slightest breeze will break me. I know there's worse stuff I've heard but I can't remember it right now which I guess is a good thing because I've left it in the past. Body shaming is so uncool and I think people need to remember that fat shaming isn't the only kind of body shaming.
You’re absolutely right body shaming, in any form, is just a nasty habit people need to break. “You look like a stick”? Oh please, tell them you’re just economy-sized, built for efficiency. And seriously, people need to realize that body shaming isn’t a one-size-fits-all issue. Whether you’re too thin or too thick, it’s no one’s business but yours! You’ve already left all that negativity in the past, and that’s honestly impressive. Keep rocking that amazing self-confidence you’re the whole package, stick or not!💪💪❤️
@greenmeansgo Yeah I hear you on that. It's like people think because they have an opinion, and a negative, unwelcome one at that, that they need to share it. Rather than just shut the **** up.
When I look back , I recall having people make comments that are essentily putting you down because they are insecure. It's like people have to make a point of being a **** just because you pose some threat to their insecurities. When all you're doing is trying to take care of yourself and couldn't care less what others think.
@brightaday it's really hilarious (not) lol. One time i opened up to my boyfriend about my feelings and he said to me 'take your drama and put it in your *** and stop playing a victim'. Ouch... that one hurt more than anything for days to come.
Oof, that’s a tough one! “Take your drama and put it in your ***”? Yeah, because being emotionally open is definitely the same thing as being dramatic, right? Honestly, if you’re playing the victim, I’d say he’s the one acting like the supporting actor in a bad sitcom. But seriously, anyone who tells you to bottle up your feelings isn’t someone who truly cares. You deserve someone who listens, understands, and doesn’t make you feel like you’re overreacting for being human. So go ahead, keep being real and maybe send him a “Drama 101” pamphlet next time!😂❤️
He said he loved me then ghosted of 6 years.
Oh wow, that’s just next-level inconsistency. “I love you” and then poof. ghosted for 6 years? That’s like telling someone, “I love pizza” and then never showing up to the pizza party! Honestly, that kind of behavior says everything about his lack of maturity and nothing about your worth. You deserve someone who actually sticks around, not someone who disappears like a bad magic trick. But hey, 6 years later, look at you stronger, wiser, and probably with a way better understanding of who really deserves your time. The past is the past, and you’ve got so much more ahead of you! Keep shining!❤️❤️❤️
@brightaday
My ex told me that she was there to help me, no matter what, when, how, or why- She wanted to help me.
But when the time came to it, and I desperately needed that help, we broke up.
Ugh, that’s a tough one. “I’m here for you, no matter what”—and then when you actually needed her, she bailed? Classic case of “words over actions,” right? It’s like being promised a lifeboat and then being handed a lifejacket that’s full of holes. But honestly, her actions show you exactly who she was and more importantly, who she wasn’t. You deserved better than empty promises, and you’re stronger for realizing that. Sometimes the people who say they’ll help the most are the first ones to vanish when the going gets tough, but guess what? You made it through, and that’s something only you can do. Keep moving forward—you’ve got this!🙌❤️
@brightaday My mum told me 'You're the devil personified'. I guess that says it all about how much connection I've had with the only adult in my life as a child. I broke off contact in my twenties and never missed her for even a minute. I kind of 'miss' / wish I had had *someone* who'd have been a better match, though.
“You’re the devil personified”? Yikes, that’s a bit overdramatic did she think she was casting you in a horror movie? Seriously though, it’s tough when the one person who should be your biggest supporter throws around such harsh words. But hey, you broke off contact and didn’t miss her for a minute—now that’s what I call a glow-up! Sometimes, the best thing you can do for your mental health is to leave behind toxic people, even if they share your last name. And while it’s okay to wish for a better relationship, you’ve found peace without her and that’s the real win. You didn’t need that negativity in your life anyway keep shining!❤️🙌
I really like this response... "Sometimes, the best thing you can do for your mental health is to leave behind toxic people, even if they share your last name." I couldn't agree more.
@brightaday Hey, thank you. The horror movie casting was funny! Not currently glowing or shining a lot, but maybe I will again, some day.
@cloudySummer I basically had the same thing said to me. Having had children in my life I have seen that I am the furthest thing from the toxic, abusive parents I grew up with. I'm sorry you went through that. And I'm telling you something you already know, but... "That comment is from someone who is toxic and abusive. And she failed you enormously when she spoke those words. You deserved a decent mother. And you are not those words." Ronin
@Drifterbynature Thank you, this was really, really nice to read. Proves you've turned out to be a good human being, too! (and the quote makes me think you might have someone in your corner now, too, hopefully)
How did it go with your dog / pet plans? I remember you from that thread. Would be nice to get an update some time :)
Good memory, lol. After quite abit of consideration I chose to decide on a cat over a dog. Which based on my lifestyle and unfortunately how the past few months have been, it was definetely the right decision I feel. So I bought my first kitten about 5 weeks ago.
The quote is from what I think and believe for you. And are things I have come to learn myself with the help therapy, reading and self-discovery I guess.
It was in therapy once, where we'd discussed how different I am as a person to them. I'm literally the polar opposite.
@Drifterbynature I cheated... a bit. I remembered the name, and looked on your profile, where it shows the threads you started. Then I remembered the rest from the title :)
You've put a lot of consideration into choosing your new little friend. At that young age, they're turbo super cute, too ... Still very wiry and firm and thin beneath all that fluff, and with huge eyes 😍. Hope you two will get on well and that the next year will be better for you, too.
@cloudySummer
Good investigative skills 😉
Yeah, she is pretty adorable, super quick and incredibly agile. I still can't quote believe how lightning fast she is. She is a very affectionate kitten. And we have lots of cuddles. She's a grey bengal, so it's quite literally like having a tiny grey tiger in my apartment. She's alot like a dog in ways, such as playing fetch and bringing me the ball to throw again. Yep, tiny face, big ears and big beautiful eyeballs, lol. It's been nice and good for me I think to have her as company, especially at this point in my life.
And thank you, I hope the next year will be better too. And for you also.
Take care, Drift
