Advice on depression making someone leave the relationship

@agreeableTortoise1748

for some reason, this past weekend was really hard for me. I started thinking about how everything was at this point last year and all my emotions came out like a damn breaking. I'm trying to channel it into anger at him so it'll hurt less.

@helpfulPond3973

this is me right now, I feel what you feel! Except I can't hate him, as much as I try

@agreeableTortoise1748

he blocked me temporarily on insta this weekend, I'm guessing because he posted he was with another girl. I'm trying really hard to hate him and be angry that he got back with her so quickly. It makes me think that he must've just fought with her and second guessed himself and came to me as a second option, then went back. He hurts me so much.

@helpfulPond3973

That is so hurtful. Thing is, if he has moved on then I guess you have no choice but to take the time to heal. Would you want this person back at this stage?

@agreeableTortoise1748

hes done this before, he can't be alone. He needs a distraction and forces himself into a new thing quickly to prove to himself he made the right decision. Last time I spoke to him he told me that he still had every picture I sent him. He probably still loves me but I decided I can't do this anymore. I blocked his texts and calls so that when he tries to come back it won't set me back in trying to get over him, again.

@helpfulPond3973

i think that's good for your mindset, at least for now. Otherwise you will be in a continuous loop and at his mercy. I am here to support you

@agreeableTortoise1748

thank you, it's helped a lot to talk to you knowing that you're going through the exact same thing.

How are you feeling?

@helpfulPond3973

well I have to collect my stuff from his next week, so l am panicking so much about it and don't know how to act

@agreeableTortoise1748

I know the anticipation must be so nerve racking! I think it'll be a good chance for you to get closer to finding a possible closure and peace so that you don't get stuck in an emotional limbo. You're really lucky you get a chance to do something like that.

@helpfulPond3973

hes made it clear it isn't to talk or anything though, so not sure how much closure I would get

@agreeableTortoise1748

sometimes just seeing the person can help you heal

@helpfulPond3973

will let you know!

@agreeableTortoise1748

how did it go?