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agreeableTortoise1748
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Fall out of love because of depression vs actually don
Depression Support / by agreeableTortoise1748
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 June 17th, 2020
...See more Thoughts ? context my partner left me stating he didn't love me anymore when in the same day had been planning our future....(he is depressed but refuses to seek any help)
Fear of not finding true love, getting older
Anxiety Support / by agreeableTortoise1748
Last post
 June 12th, 2023
...See more I am 32years old and recently broken up with my partner who l had believed would be married shortly and children etc. He pulled the rug from under me and eft unannounced during lockdown. I have anxiety over whether I will ever be able to find true love, as l have had bad experiences in the past, and wondering how people generally manage negative thoughts in this area?
Imposter syndrome?
Anxiety Support / by agreeableTortoise1748
Last post
 June 21st, 2020
...See more I am starting a new job soon and keep feeling like l will fail, as though I blagged my way through interviews and they will realise l am a fraud, that l won't pass probation etc. I know l am highly qualified for the job, but an overwhelming sense of panic is coming over me. anyone experienced this or have any words of support how to deal?
Advice on depression making someone leave the relationship
Depression Support / by agreeableTortoise1748
Last post
 June 29th, 2020
...See more Could anyone explain to me whether depression makes someone leave you? Context- my partner of 2 years left me - he was depressed for years and when we started dating kept changing his mind about things eg didn't know if wanted a relationship, had family issues, etc etc. Eventually l snapped and had a mini breakdown as l suffer from anxiety and the months of upheaval and his indecisiveness took its toll. In response to me breaking down he said that in fact it was ME who caused all his depression (even though he had it since his teens) and that he was leaving me. However all the while before this point up until 2 hours of him leaving he was telling me he loved me and planning our future. On his way out he said he wasn't in love with me. complete mind f**k and he's made me feel guilty as though everything is my fault Can anyone advise me on if they've experienced this or any insight from people who experience depression? I don't know if this is just a blip and he will come back after a while....
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