Is therapy scary?

@ilovemycat16

It’s completely normal to feel scared about therapy, especially after everything you’ve been through. Losing your dream job, your car, and having to move are such massive changes, and it’s absolutely okay to feel overwhelmed. Your emotions are valid, and it makes perfect sense that you reached that breaking point.

You’re not alone in this struggle. So many people feel that initial fear of opening up to someone, particularly when society has ingrained the idea that asking for help is a sign of weakness, but seeking help is one of the bravest things you can do. It takes immense courage to acknowledge when you need support.

Therapy can be a beautiful safe space where you can talk about anything without fear of judgment who genuinely listens and helps you navigate through the chaos. It’s a precious opportunity to unpack those heavy feelings you’ve been bottling up and to find a path forward.

Yes, it’s a big step, and it’s perfectly okay to feel nervous about it. This journey is about you, and you deserve to feel heard, understood, and supported. If you’re considering therapy, trust that it can lead to healing and growth. You’ve already shown incredible strength by reaching out and expressing your need for help. Embrace that power within you, and take this important step toward the care you truly deserve.

@ilovemycat16 hi i'm Lola ❤ welcome to our cups family ❤ that's a lot to be dealing with, bless you. I have depression  anxiety too, been seeing a psychologist for a few years now🙂 it's more like having a friend than a therapist, someone who will listen and wants to help. So don't be afraid honey, and please know there is no shame in asking for help ❤ and you know you've came to a great place here at cups, we are all here to help you any way we can, gives you a giant tiny hug ❤ goodluck with everything. Never give up on hope ok?

@ilovemycat16 it's not scary if you understand what it is

@ilovemycat16, a really great post which not only will help you but hopefully, will resonate and help others in similar situations. 

Like anything you have no direct experience of, it is normal to be nervous about starting therapy. However, it is a step towards you taking control of your life, getting things right for you and being able to accept other things. 

There are so many types of counselling and therapy, so finding what suits you is important. Likewise, finding the therapist that is right for you is very important. Just because a person is trained to a high level, doesn't mean that they will be able to connect with all clients. This is just human, not inability or an issue on your side. So it is ok to look around and change if you feel that they are not the right fit. 

I did EMDR and it changed my life for the better, but it is absolutely not for everyone. I had tried CBT before and standard counselling, neither which I felt worked for me. (in the case of CBT, I had zero connection with the therapist, it almost put me off going elsewhere, so please, learn from my experience to accept that it was not for you, rather than you are the problem)

Just think, if you had an issue with your digestive system, you'd see an expert who specializes in this area of the body. The mind is the exact same, if there is any issue, why would you not see a trained professional.  Everyone, EVERYONE, at some point in their life will struggle with their mental health. It is ok to be proactive in dealing with it, after all, it is your life and your future.

I really wish you well :) 

Even I do think so, I have been struggling for a year by now actually it was long years but my family doesn't cares about it and i just too like when want something do it by any force so I did forced them I am not sure when they do will find and get for therephy I am not sure abt that too either but one of the guy i knew was acting like one theriest and it was horrible i told him I am not feeling comfortable but he was forcing to answers his questions only because for him to feel good for him it was never about me.

An eitre day was ruined we'll all these years are ruined because of other things I am just feeling dead stick everyday , i don't evn like the sounds that people see i just wanted to in clam but people don't let me too.

I see the chaos of world now it's just about never letting others to be in peace .

But i don't like the way of them I want be in silence and be in a world of my world clam peaceful musics .

They are destroying me.

It's like i don't want a live like more .

Just dragging on hope.

I do evn want a see how therephy it works.

In my personal opinion, which is agreed on by many, professional help is the right way to go.

I despise help from people, but even though, for the first time in any part of my life do i wish this. I want professional therapy.

when ur dealing with so many things, ur body starts doing things which u dont fully understand, and believe me it will impact u negatively even more on long term. So if possible, have professional help, it wont be scary if u put ur mind to it, and those people know what they r doing. They r kind, they r good listeners, dont be afraid. Just take the first step and go, and then you’ll find help coming from every single corner. And we’re here to help in this app as well, strangers but friends we r.

i hope it becomes easier to u 🤍