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Overcoming Social Anxiety - A Journey Together!

reliablebunny23 July 13th

Hey everyone! I hope you're all doing well. 

I've been working on overcoming my social anxiety, and have made significant progress in reducing it. I wanted to share my experience and some strategies that have helped me in hopes that they might help you too. 

I know many of you here struggle with social anxiety too, I've seen numerous forum posts and group chats on this topic, and it's heartbreaking to see so many people going through this, especially because I've personally felt the profound impact it can have on one's life. 

That's why I really wanted to share this post. Feel free to share it with anyone here who might be dealing with social anxiety. My goal is for it to reach as many people as possible and offer support. 

Important Note

This post isn't a substitute for professional help, but I hope it can offer some support and guidance to those who, like me, are navigating this journey without professional assistance.

My Experience With Social Anxiety

Initially, I used to find it incredibly daunting to even think about leaving my house or being in public spaces. Even just being watched by people used to be so scary for me. I always avoided going to public places. 

But over time, I learned that avoiding situations that made me anxious only reinforced my fear. So, I decided to face my anxiety head-on, step by step. 

I began seeing each outing as a chance to work on reducing my social anxiety. 

Throughout this journey, I have learned numerous strategies that have helped me cope and grow. 

Additionally, gaining awareness, understanding, and consistently reminding myself about various aspects of social anxiety has facilitated my journey and made it more manageable. 

Insights And Strategies 

I'll be sharing these strategies and insights in the comments section, as listing them all here would make this post overly lengthy. Moreover, since I'm still in the process of overcoming and learning, new insights and tips continue to surface. Thus, I'll share them one by one in the comments. Please keep checking periodically as I will be posting them gradually, whether weekly, daily, or as often as possible. 

Sharing And Supporting Each Other

Feel free to share your experience with social anxiety in the comments below and express how it affects you and makes you feel. You can suggest any strategies that have worked for you, whether you developed them yourself or found them elsewhere.

Let's support each other by reading each other's experiences and responding with suggestions and encouraging words. 

Together, we can remind each other that we're not alone in this journey. 

Daliy Progress 

Feel free to share your daily progress too in the comments, detailing what steps you took to overcome social anxiety each day. 

It can serve as motivation for others who may currently feel unable to overcome their social anxiety. Sharing your progress can show them that gradual steps and community support can make a difference in their journey. 

Your ongoing engagement is greatly appreciated.

Personal Diary

Additionally, you can keep a personal diary to record & track your progress and feelings throughout this journey of overcoming social anxiety. Tracking your journey can offer valuable insights and serve as a supportive resource along the way.

Final Thoughts 

I believe overcoming social anxiety alone can be difficult, but together, we can make it significantly easier. While it may take time, consistent efforts within our supportive community can facilitate the journey and remind you that you're not alone. With our big and compassionate cups family, we can and will conquer social anxiety together.

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reallyoverallofit September 29th

My social anxiety isn't from any of that. My social anxiety is from being too depleted to give more to friends and strangers. I have to go out to a birthday party? But I'm already emotionally exhausted... ugh. That kind of thing. 

My suggestion for people worrying about what other people think of you is this:

Take a look at the overall situation from a nihilist viewpoint in that there are 8 billion people on this planet at any given time and ultimately none of us really matter. Not even politicians and celebrities. We are all going to be forgotten like the 108 billion humans who preceded our generation, eventually. Therefore, none of the petty ish people think actually matters. Petty thoughts contribute nothing to the greater good and come and go as fast as a breeze. Sure, people will think the thing but then two minutes later they'll be distracted with the new meme on ***. And their opinion truly really doesn't matter anyways because no one is an island. No one is perfect. So the judgement is moot.

Anytime I hear my thought of, "Oh they're judging me." Then I think, "Wait, but who's judging them? I know they're being judged too. And does the judgement really carry any weight or matter? Like, who are  they to hold any sort of opinion about me or anything really, anyway? What grounds do they even have? None. That person, like myself, is a no body and that's ok. We're all blips on the screen. None of this matters." <--- This is my counter thought to judgement. I take that person off the pedestal my brain attempted to put them on and move on with my day.

cheers.

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reliablebunny23 OP September 29th

@reallyoverallofit Thanks for sharing. 


I can imagine how challenging it must be to engage in social situations when you’re already feeling depleted.

It makes sense that realizing how little others' opinions truly matter can help ease the stress. ❤️
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