I think I'm just weird

@affableStrings4654 don't give up. Keep trying. And we are here to support you every step of the way ❤

@affableStrings4654

Haha you are weird

No don't worry. You sound kind of cool

but like if you go looking for friends and have all this pressure then I think it's going to feel awkward

Have you considered what to do/be to make people gravitate towards you?

I don't have the answers but I feel this is the better approach

@affableStrings4654

It's completely normal to feel a bit awkward in social situations, especially when you're trying to make new friends. Many people experience similar feelings of uncertainty and self-doubt. The good news is that you're taking steps to get out there and meet people, which is a fantastic start.

Remember, making new friends is often a gradual process. It's okay if conversations don't always flow smoothly or if you're unsure about your body language. Building connections takes time, and it's perfectly fine to be yourself, quirks and all.

Don't be too hard on yourself, everyone has moments of social awkwardness. With time and practice, you'll likely find it easier to navigate social situations and build meaningful connections. Keep being yourself and keep putting yourself out there – you're taking positive steps towards making new friends. 🙏🏻

Some of that sounds like me, especially the part about being tongue tied and the facial expressions, I am not even aware of some of the expressions I make that keep people at a distance. I managed to get to know a few people here and there, one thing I learned is once I find out something they like talking about I ask a couple questions about that particular thing to keep the conversation rolling.while they are busy responding to my questions I find something else In what ever they are saying at that moment and that’s kinda what I do you can honestly find things to talk about in the company of others just look around use things that you see also to make small talk. No one expects you to keep talking and talking, a moment of silence never hurt anyone. The more you practice this stuff the easier it becomes. Seriously

Also I’m weird too but no one knows it but me, I sometimes fake my way through it just so no one feels uncomfortable

@affableStrings4654

Just take it easy and not worry too much when you socialite.

Well I am not comfortable too with people I am not familiar with.  But sometimes there people when you conversate with, you learn you both have a lot in common and small talks turns to friendship.

:)

@affableStrings4654 I understand where you’re coming from. I think it’s mostly social anxiety, for me at least. I’m sure you have your reasons too, why you’re nervous around others. It’s easy to be yourself around family members, because you’re comfortable with them. Now you’ve stepped out of your comfort zone, so it’s a whole new experience for you. It is nerve wrecking being around others, because you never know what their response is or how’d they perceive you. I struggle with the same thing, but lately when I go out, I try to be myself. I know some people might find something I say or do strange if they do have a conversation with me, but im learning not to care. It’s okay to have different views and perspectives. Everyone is different. We won’t all like the same things, etc. It’s okay to be nervous and it’s also okay to be yourself. The right people will come along :)  After all you can’t please everyone

You're trying to do your best and that is the greatest start. People will get to know you and will realize that you're awesome, keep doing your best as it is indeed the best of you, the best of us is always lovely and kind and lovable just like you.

@affableStrings4654 I can relate especially to the hand stuff 😆. I used to be in this situation all the time (actually I still am) . Just know you're not alone, I wish i could give you an advice honestly but I hope this helps.