I think I'm just weird
I've been trying to get out of the house a bit more lately. Going to events every once in a while, that sort of thing.
But when I'm there I always feel awkward. Like I don't know what to do with my hands. Eye contact is hard, I get tongue tied sometimes, I always feel like i am giving weird facial expressions. I try to gauge people's reactions, but I don't know if I'm connecting or not. Sometimes i just can't think of something to say.
I want to make new friends, but I'm finding it kind of hard.
@affableStrings4654 I can relate especially to the hand stuff 😆. I used to be in this situation all the time (actually I still am) . Just know you're not alone, I wish i could give you an advice honestly but I hope this helps.
I understand. This is totally normal for introverted people who might struggle with social anxiety. You're not weird just anxious. There are things you can do to help. Like focusing on your breathing, taking breaks from the crowd as needed, etc. You can find many different techniques online. Not everything helps everyone, so it might take a while to find something that helps you and suits your needs.
