overthinking

@independentSailboat3979 I think humans are taught to believe that our thinking is the most advanced and wonderful thing. The narrative goes something like, “look at all we have achieved and how we are just so much more advanced than animals.” I believe thinking is a tool that has advantages but it shouldn’t be viewed with such high regard. Concepts from mindfulness meditation have formed my views on this. There is much wisdom to be found in non-discursive thinking, on body-focused meditation. If you look into this you may find a way to quiet your thinking mind somewhat. To avoid the habit of overthinking. It might be good to enlist the help of a therapist if trying it on your own doesn’t help or help quickly enough. 

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hello ❤️ this sounds really rough, I’m sorry you’re going through all of this. I think it’s great you’ve reached out for support. I would never blame you for your coping mechanisms, we do what we can to survive, but it shows real strength to see that you’re recognising that you want to change and improve. I am here for you if you want to talk more about how you’re feeling and what’s going on. Send me a message if you feel like it, you are more than welcome. 

@independentSailboat3979 I'm so sorry you're going through this, I really struggle with overthinking too, and we all have our own coping mechanisms. I think it's amazing that you've picked up on what's causing these issues in your life, and hope you have the motivation to change them. Mindfulness resources have really helped me (after I stopped thinking mindfulness was ridiculous), and there's a lot of them out there. If you need someone to talk to about it and help you let your feelings out, I'm more than happy to chat to you one on one.

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Hi sailboat, We are glad to have you here!

Sorry to hear that you're in a lot of pain and feeling overwhelmed. It's a lot to carry, dealing with overthinking and the impact it's had on your relationships. It's completely understandable to feel exhausted and to want to make changes but not know where to start. Your desire to get better and to connect with someone is a sign of hope and resilience.

Remember, it's okay to feel like you can't put everything into words right now. Your feelings are valid, and there is exactly the space for you to express them here. We are always here for you.💞

@independentSailboat3979

Hello 

I am really sorry that you are going through that .

It sounds like you’re feeling really overwhelmed, and it’s understandable to want to change but not know where to start. Acknowledging that you want to get better is a significant first step🌷.  It can also help to find healthier outlets for your feelings, like journaling or engaging in activities that you enjoy. Remember, you’re not alone we are all here for you 🙏 and taking small steps can lead to positive changes.

@independentSailboat3979It sounds like you’re going through a really difficult time, and it’s brave of you to reach out. Overthinking can be overwhelming, but it’s great that you want to change. Consider starting with small steps, like talking to someone you trust about how you feel. You don’t have to go through this alone; seeking support from a therapist or counselor can also make a big difference. You deserve to feel better and reconnect with your friends. I’m here to listen whenever you need to talk.

@independentSailboat3979

Im sorry to hear that you are going through this. It must be really hard to live with extreme overthinking, especially when you don't have your best friend to support you through this difficult time. Dealing with difficult things like this often leads us to rely on unhealthy coping mechanisms like smoking and drinking. I completely understand why you do it, and if im being honest I would also fall into the same cycle. The most important thing is for you to know that you are not alone. Here on 7 cups we are like a family. We all look out for each other and we all support each other. Feel free to pm me if you need to talk to someone. I am here for you🌸❤️

@independentSailboat3979

Hi. Overthinking can be tough to handle. I'm sorry to hear your best friend and some people in your life stop talking to you because of this issue. It can be frustrating with wanting a friend but yet also pushing people away.

Acknowledging you want to get better is a good step, in my opinion. Thank you for sharing these thoughts. It can be difficult to share these things and be vulnerable, but I'm proud you're able to do it <3.

I'm a listener, and if you want to talk about these feelings, do not hesitate to message me :). I would like to provide a safe space for you to process your emotions and thoughts. In the meantime, if you want to, we can also brainstorm some plans. I don't give advice as I don't fully know what you're dealing with and I'm not a professional, but I can help reflect your goals and offer some online support along the way :). Take care

@independentSailboat3979

Hey, my name is bee. I am sorry to hear that you have been going through a hard time and i am proud of you for staying strong despite all the challenges. I see that you have alot to talk about if you don't mind how i would love to hear all about it. I hope we can talk soon.

Yes stopping drinking and smoking can be difficult but I know you can do it..