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Anxiety Judgement. (what is the worst you have been told....)

politeSun October 12th, 2017

Its so easy for people to judge and say hurtful things...

share here the worst you have been told about your anxiety :

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Talone10 December 12th, 2017

All my life I have been told that it is all in my head. Just deal with it. No one ever really listened or believed me. One of the reasons why it is so hard for me to open up about myself now.

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politeSun OP December 13th, 2017

@Talone10

I am sorry you had to face that kind of treatment all your life without anyone ready to even listen to you. I can understand why it has effected you so deeply that its hard to share even now.
just letting you know... if you ever feel like talking out, you can always message me :)

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akweyah December 12th, 2017

"there's nothing to be afraid of" - my mother every time i try and explain something related to my anxiety. i mean it's not supposed to be rational you know ._.

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politeSun OP December 13th, 2017

@akweyah

ofcourse its not supposed to be rational:)

though i know its hard, i hope your mother can understand . and i think its really great that you try to talk to her and explain things you are going through heart

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limegreenTalker4976 December 13th, 2017

"This is your fault."

"You did this to yourself"

:"You got yourself into this s***hole of a life, now get yourself out!"

"You were warned, why didn't you listen?"

"You could be happy right now. You're deciding not to."

All courtesy of my own brain.

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politeSun OP December 13th, 2017

@limegreenTalker4976


Thank you for sharing and bringing this up , coz definitely the worst judgement always comes from our own mind

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politeSun OP December 14th, 2017

5apparatus5 December 14th, 2017

"Just stop thinking about it"

"How are you going to live your life like this"

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politeSun OP December 21st, 2017

@5apparatus5

its hard to believe people think it helps to say "Just stop" . and I am sure you care about your life more than who ever told you that.heart

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SilentWhisper4 December 14th, 2017

'It's all in your head', 'Think positive', 'Crying like a baby won't solve anyhing'

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politeSun OP December 18th, 2017

@SilentWhisper4

I am sorry you had to go through people blaming you for something you had no control over. i hope it helps to remember what you are feeling is real.

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imaginativeShip1845 December 14th, 2017

I have been called a pussy and made fun of becuase of my lack therof emotional abilities.

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politeSun OP December 18th, 2017

@imaginativeShip1845

please dont believe what they say. you are really strong! are you are dealing with this in the best way you canheart

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amiableOwl9068 December 14th, 2017

"Come on!!!!! Aim already!!!! Locate the target and fire or do I need to do it for you!!!!!"

You can probably understand how anxiety can be a problem when you're a combatent soldier. And i am not looking for pity i just... i just don't know what to do...

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ReservedExcitement December 16th, 2017

@amiableOwl9068

I hate that, when others rush me and then say, do I need to do it for you. Makes me feel incapable upon already being anxious. Yuck people!

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TakenbySleep1 December 16th, 2017

My mom telling me "get over it" like if it was so easy??? or thinking im just shy when that has nothing to do with social anxiety, it's completely different. Or my father not believing me like if i could ever joke about that.

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ReservedExcitement December 16th, 2017

@TakenbySleep1

Hearing that from parents is deeply upsetting, feels like an up hill battle at times. Unfortunately they are human too and have limitations in understanding. You can't help people that refuse to learn. Every human has faults and working around that is fustrating at times.

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TakenbySleep1 December 21st, 2017

@ReservedExcitement yeah they are the ones that should understand and support me the most. It was hard cause they seemed not to care about it and I know I would help my daughter if I was in their place. But my social anxiety is so much better now :)

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neonBalsam6014 December 16th, 2017

'You're just shy, it's nothing to worry about. Come back to us if you're suicidal.'

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ReservedExcitement December 16th, 2017

@neonBalsam6014

Ouch, that is bad. People need to honestly think before they speak. Prevention is always better then trying to help when people are at their ends wits. Sometimes people don't realize how valuable others are. You are very valuable!

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neonBalsam6014 December 16th, 2017

@ReservedExcitement Thank you. I think I need to remember that more often!

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