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Mega anxious working mama of 4 teens here.... long history of time in counseling- so I know what to do, but the 'doing' is hard. At a place right now where I am so maxxed out right now that I think there are some purely physical adrenal/cortisol things going on again which make it hard to 'reign' things back in with the tools in my toolbox. Feeling blah most of the time right now, and when I do get up the energy to actualy participate in happy, normal things, it just takes one thing to send me over the edge of anxiety. Sooo frustrating! Searching for a doc in our new town to research some temporary anti-anxiety meds.
@BreatheOnTheWater I have 4 children myself and can relate to the anxiety. Was just wanting to check in and see if you ever found a doc for meds? You can message me anytime :)
Hello All, I've had anxiety issues since the age of 23, I'm now 30. I'm much better now, it all started after a joint I smoked in Amsterdam that gave me a severe panic attack. After that I kept experiencing these attacks on a regular basis, I felt like it crippled me and I struggled to maintain a healthy work life. I tried anti-depresants after a year becuase it was coupled with anxiety but they didn't work for me, they only made me worse. Today, I think I have GAD rather than a panic disorder. I still think I have an anxiety problem since it occassionally interferes with my life and the choices I make (e.g. avoidance). I have read lots of self helps books, tried meditation, omega 3, all of which have helped when I've needed it. I still need support today and I do what I can when I feel things getting worse.
Hello,
I'm not sure if the Anxiety Support Group is exactly the right place for me as I don't suffer from general anxiety as most here seem to. My particular devil is social anxiety. I'm not only petrified at the thought of meeting new people in person but terrified to even enter a chat room. That probably sounds ridiculous, and it likely is, but it's a real problem as I see no way to work my way out of this anxious state without being able to connect with others in real-time conversation.
Having said all that, I hope everyone in this group is making real progress and feeling more confident every day.
@quietThomas
I know how you feel. I wouldn't consider myself an extremely anxious person by any means, but I am nervous in social situations. The thought of being a part of chat is so intimidating to me, though I've gotten better in group chats. I usually observe silently as a lurker, but it's a step in the right direction. I'm still terrified of starting a chat with a listener. It's a bit of a catch 22 seeing as the one thing I really crave is some kind of connection with another person.
@KnotTheNorm Thank you for your comment. It's good to know that I'm not the only one who feels this way.
Hi! I feel like I'm a bit late looking at the dates on the posts, but I figured I'd give it a change anyway.
I've had anxiety and depression since I attended 8th grade. There was a lot of change in my life which my me very scared and I ended up isolating myself from everything and everyone. I've always been very shy and introverted but this was the first time people in the outside world scared the crap out of me. I ended up asking my mother if she could send me to the doctor and I feel very fortunate that she supported my decision and validated my feelings, despite she doesn't get them or have engaged in learning about it. My doctor told me that it was ver much social anxiety --I like research, always have, so I'd done my homework on that, and that seeing a therapist would be good for me.
For about a year I saw a very sweet lady approximately once a month, but when the year was over she said that she really didn't see any improvement in me and suggested that I went to a psychiatrist, and so I did. Shortly after the first few sessions at the psychiatrist she put me on antidepressants for both depression and anxiety. I think they did help, because while I'm not perfectly without anxiety, I feel myself getting progressively braver as I study my mental illnesses and let others (my new therapist and I also attend group therapy) give me a puff in the back when I feel myself getting stuck...
Hi, um I don't really know what to say, I'm a very anxious person but still somehow I get out of the door and go to school and work and work through it but it's getting difficult and all I want to do is hide away and sleep is becoming difficult and panic attacks are becoming more frequent as well. I've never been to a doctor about this purely because they scare me so yeah
@understandingCamp3891
Sorry you're going thru this. Hope that you feel better. You're not alone.
@activelemon
Thank you, I really appreciate it :)
Hi Everyone,
I've had anxiety for years. Seeing humor in situations and using humor helps a bit. However, my anxiety has and can be pretty debilitating too. Extreme stressors can activate it. I'm slowly learning to live better with anxiety. Just like all emotions come and go, anxiety will pass along too.
Sending out positive energy to all experiencing anxiety in its many forms. Someone is with you! !!
Hi everyone,
I'm Jess, 27 years old and have mainly social anxiety and depression on and off. It's a long story but I'm currently unemployed, staying at home and trying to feel better. I'm on medication and I attend therapy weekly. The past six months have been awful but i'm slowly rebuilding parts of my life. I'm very isolated although I have an amazing husband. I write a blog (here) where you can find more about me if you want to! Be warned though, it's got quite a bit of swearing in it! I look forward to getting to know you all more!
Jess x
@JessSnow
Welcome, Jess!
I hope you have a positive experience in the Anxiety Community, let me know if you have any questions!
Welcome to the Anxiety Support Sub-Community!
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If you have any questions, do not hesitate to ask. I'm here to help!
Whether you're here for support or want to help another person, I hope your experience is a positive one.
Wishing you the best!
@blossombreathe Anxiety, social anxiety, depression, trauma. These are what cause my ups and downs. This is site has been so helpful. I guess my question is one you can't really answer. But I'm wondering about medicine for anxiety. Does it really help? I'm not on medicine yet. I think about it but don't know if it will really help? I know everyone is different also. And I know lots of people on medicine and honestly they don't seem any better??? I'm just curious if anxiety and social anxiety and depression and trauma, can just go away through counseloring and coming to sites like this?? I know any reply is only opinion. So I guess I'm looking for opinions? Thanks
@KLM3278
Ah, okay. So I can understand that you've been struggling with anxiety and social anxiety and want to know whether medication helps or not. I personally have therapy and take medication for my anxiety and it helps a lot! However, everybody's experience may be different.
@blossombreathe What happens if you stop the medicine? I'm glad it it helps you!!!! I guess I worry if I start and something happens and I can't afford it anymore? I feels like a big decision to start taking it.
@KLM3278
If you stop taking the medicine, you will experience some side effects because of the dramatic change and may even return back to your previous state before taking the medication.
@blossombreathe Okay. Thank you. I'm glad you're doing good and it helps you. I'm going to keep thinking things through.
@KLM3278
No worries, lovely!
@blossombreathe
Thank you for the welcome!
I've been dealing with anxiety on a subtle level most of my life but after an incident a few years ago it spiked to an actual issue. I have seen doctors and took a non-medicated path and while some days I really regret that, however with the hand I have been dealt I'm working with it and threw it. So I'm here to listen and help and on the obviously to get support when I need.
@BenjiArcher
Awesome to see you here, Benji!
Hi, I'm just feeling so depressed and suicidal. I'm just so tired mentally and physically all the time.
@mikeysun I just prayed for you! I'm so sad to hear you feel this way!! You're not alone though. I hope you have a great counselor to help you. Stay strong!!! I know the whispers are loud but you seem like a fighter and a nice person! I understand so much what you shared. Hug!!!!
Hi all, I have been on 7cups for a while now and am thrilled to be part of this community, I suffer myself from Schizoaffective disorder which cycles through some rough patches of anxiety and has kept me from doing a great many things, which is changing as I become aware of how to manage myself in certain situations.
I have a physical noticable disability (at times) that essentially was caused because the nerves didn't connect properly in my arm when I was born and subsequently growing in to the man I am today (think stroke if that helps you picture it better). This has has been a main trigger point for my anxiety even now, because of how people treat me when I tell them/ they find out because of the stigmas attached, so go silent and that's what hurts the most.
Thank you again for letting me be a part of this community and thank you for reading my introduction and replying if you decide to.
- Ink
@InkStainedFingers
Hiya Ink!
I'm sorry to hear that you suffer from a schizoaffective disorder, that must be really tough. I am proud of you for learning to manage it though! And, stigmas are horrible things but the way to break them is to talk even more about things. It must hurt a lot when people treat you different because you have a noticable physical disability. The Disability Support Sub-Community is amazing here; you should check it out if you haven't already.
Thank you for introducing yourself; I hope you have a great day!
~ Lauren
@InkStainedFingers It's nice to meet you!!! I think this place is great also. What you have sounds difficult but it also sounds like you worked through a lot and continue to do so. You're strong!!! I admire you!!! Any way, again it's so nice to meet you!!!! :)
@InkStainedFingers
Hi Ink, thanks for sharing your experience. I feel like life is about how we try to manage the 'cards' we are given. You are Awesome, Amazing, Beautiful, and pretty Smart and Intelligent for coping and managing your life. You contribute to humanity in the best way!!!!! Love and hugs to you. tc Ink.