Idk what should I write here
I feel that I hate everything I had enough about that most of the people can't love me for me, and the only reason that they started to talk with me because they wanted to hurt me. And I know that normal people are also exist, but where?
Hi there, I just noticed your message and wanted to message you.
I'm sorry to hear that you're going through what seems like a very difficult time right now. I just want you to know that you're not alone with having those kinds of thoughts.
People in your life should love us for the multiple facets of our character and personality. If people don't love you for who you are, and you know yourself to be a kind and decent person, them it's their loss. It's important to people in our lives that accept us for who we are, love us the way we are and that they don't have a hidden agenda.
I don't know how many "normal" people are out there.
But there are a few good ones.
Here if you wanna message and all the best if not.
Drift 💪
@Drifterbynature the worst thing is that when I tell these things to someone, that person automatically thinks that I don't love myself and then why do I wait for others love? But this kind of person sadly doesn't wanna understand that just because I'm sad because others don't love me, that doesn't mean that I don't accept and/or love myself. I know what are my "powers" I also know what are my weaknesses and I love myself.. The situation is what I don't like.
@moonligt
It doesn't mean you don't love yourself. I believe it's definitely possible to love and accept yourself, while feeling sad because you feel that other may not love you. I think it's really good that you do love and accept yourself. That is the most important thing. But it's also good to have the right kinda people in your life that do accept you for who you are. And that don't make assumptions like that.
@Drifterbynature yeah I see you got the point. I just want new friends who love and care about me, and similar to me
@moonligt
That is not too much to ask. You deserve that.
@Drifterbynature I think so... But It happened a lot times when some1 used me
I'm sorry to heat that.
It can be really hard to trust people when you've experienced that.
I do believe there are good people on the world, we just have to be careful and consider their intentions I think.
@moonligt
Heyy moonlight!:)
I can see why you're feeling frustrated with most of the people you encounter.
You're right by saying that normal people do also exist. I'm glad that you're aware of that 🤗 which means you haven't given up and are still on the look out for cool friends.
The answer to where those people can be found is a more difficult one. As you've experienced yourself it's usually not easy to find a good friend or person you could talk to but they're definitely out there it's just that it can take a little time and effort to find the right ones 😅
Your best friend could be anywhere. In the same country, the place you're working at, online, a grocery store who knows ;D
There's no definite answer to this question. I guess it's like with dating you just have to match.
Hi
Sorry to hear your condition
Actually I'm also struggling in life
I'm stressed about my studies and i had a brutal break up
I want to communicate with you thorough text
How can i connect to you ?
Hi @Medico25, I would gladly talk/listen to you, and I quess the only way that we can connect If you or me become a listener.
@Medico25 I really wanna help you somehow
I'm new to this aap and i find it difficult to use
How can i become a listener
Hello. It sounds like you are in a lot of emotional distress and I understand it’s intolerable. It’s very serious that you have suicidal thoughts and I think that you do require urgent help. I would recommend you to contact your local crisis helpline. They will be available shortly and they are experts trained to handle suicidal thoughts. I think that maybe some people want the best for you or maybe some people may have hurt you. I like your bravery for taking the first step seeking for help. Thank you for asking for help.
I think the easiest way is If I were give my snap